The day before yesterday, I went shopping and helped Doudou buy a more fashionable set of clothes, which I wore to school yesterday and said that I wanted to take a group photo, and Doudou was very happy. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

When I came back from school last night, Doudou said, "Mom, guess what Teacher Hou said about the clothes you bought me?" "Teacher Hou said, 'Doudou, who bought you the clothes, is it your mother? When did you buy them? It's beautiful! Your mother really knows how to buy clothes, and she is about to dress you up as a princess. Doudou's narration is colorful, very proud.

Doudou's recent homework has been more active and conscientious.

It's just that I found that the child's imagination is much worse than before, and it seems that I have to strengthen the expansion of the child's knowledge.

Before Doudou's father left, Doudou said that he wanted to take the exam to show his father's good news, two subjects of Chinese and mathematics, and then one of Chinese, fortunately, I was worried that she would be very frustrated if she was careless for a while.

She was very calm, saying that Teacher Fang said that she didn't do well in the exam this time and still played, and Doudou didn't seem to care. 2007-10-16

Last night, I went to a parent-teacher conference about buying military uniforms for the school anniversary.

By the way, I inquired about Doudou's situation, there are still a lot of small movements, I don't care too much, the child may dare to do it because he is not too restrained, it may not be a good thing.

The day before yesterday, Doudou wanted a "Monopoly" toy, saying that he had just taken the Chinese exam, and if he got 100 points or good news, he wanted me to buy it for her, and I readily agreed.

The day before yesterday, I said that Niuniu asked the teacher for the score, and I insisted on knowing with everyone, I didn't want to be special, I couldn't help but ask the teacher yesterday, 97 points, it seems that 100 points is in vain, and I still hope for the top three.

Today I have to test math again, I said that if math can be 100 points or good news, I will also buy "Monopoly" for her, I wonder if it will motivate children to be more serious and careful?

However, Doudou's resistance to negative stimuli is still quite good.

I want to delay the fulfillment of my child's demands, and it is necessary for her to accept a little frustration.

I am glad to see my child slowly taking care of himself and becoming self-reliant! Sometimes I am very touched -- my daughter sometimes coaxes her mother: Okay, okay, I know. He looks helpless and flattering......! 2007－10－19

Doudou bought the "Monopoly" game, we played together, when I was about to run out of cash, Doudou suddenly gave me a few hundred yuan, and when it was about to run out, he gave me another 500 yuan, I asked why, Doudou looked sympathetic: "I sympathize with you." ”

He also said, "I'm lucky, I'll help you roll the dice." "It looks like you can't bear to win me. Doudou's loving heart!

I went to dry my clothes, Doudou helped with chess, and when I threw it to the point where I had to pay 700 yuan in national tax, I said I'm sorry, I was careless. This child's fair heart!2007-10-22

Doudou joked: "My teeth are not the earth, nor the earth, I am the balance of the earth." ”

Doudou always comes home from school earlier than me, and calls me every day when he comes home to ask for instructions about watching TV, and every time I walk on the road or buy vegetables at the vegetable market, it is very troublesome.

The last time I called, I expressed my displeasure: "I always ask for something to watch TV, you watch it now, you won't watch it when I get home, every time you call, I am on the road or in the vegetable market to buy vegetables, it's very messy, and I'm worried about thieves and worrying about snatching bags." You don't have to call me to watch TV in the future. ”

Doudou hurriedly said that he knew and knew, and quickly hung up the phone.

I later realized that I was speaking in a heavier tone, and when I got home, I explained it to Doudou and didn't pay much attention to it.

Yesterday, Dad called back and told me about the incident, saying that Doudou had been reprimanded by my mother for talking to her mother about watching TV!

Yes, when the child grows up, I have to get used to communicating and communicating with the child on an equal footing!2007-11-5

Doudou is still procrastinating, and I don't have patience and always perfunctory her. Pay attention later.

2007－11－29

Doudou's father came back from Chongqing, one is something, and the more important thing is to celebrate Doudou's birthday. A little pampering for children. But patience is just as insufficient.

The day before yesterday, I went to eat KFC, and by the way, I bought clothes for my father, and spent more than 400 yuan, Doudou has been following by the side, we didn't pay too much attention to it, because Doudou has a lot of clothes, and often buys them, there should be no problem.

I don't want to: Doudou said, "You want to buy me clothes, Dad spent so much money to buy so many clothes at once, and I ran with you all night in vain." ”

After seeing that there was nothing suitable for the children's clothes, Doudou was very sad and cried loudly.

It's the first time that Doudou has been so serious on his clothes, and he has never done it before!

Yesterday I went to buy clothes for Doudou, and the child was as happy as a flower!2007-12-10

Yesterday was Doudou's 8th birthday, and in the morning because my father came back, I was lazy and wanted to sleep more, and I didn't want to hear my father say to his sleeping daughter in a threatening tone: "Doudou, it's 8:00, it's time for you to get up, I remind you, if you are late, it's your own business." (On Sundays, Doudou has a math class at 8:20.) ）

I watched the development of the situation, and at 8:15, Doudou still didn't get up, and Dad didn't move in the study. I hurriedly got up and hurriedly shouted to Doudou to get up, and hurriedly sent my children to school, and my father saw that I was angry, so he said something like not to apply for interest classes next semester. The problem is that the teacher said that Doudou's thinking is very good and asked her to report it, and I don't want to put an extra burden on the child.

I think about my father's absence from home all the year round, and I am alone with the children, and my heart is tired! When he comes back, I want to relax, but I can't! I have to go from taking care of one person to the hearts of two people -- very tired!

Dad also studied and worked hard outside, and he was under a lot of pressure, so maybe he wanted to relax and not worry about it when he came home.

Alas! The day before yesterday, my father once again exclaimed, "What do you want a child for?" I was secretly sad, thinking about what is the meaning of this life if I have no children in my life: easy is easy?!

Watching the child grow up day by day, in fact, it is gratifying and happy, in the face of the child's small mistakes, I lack patience and can't help but nagging and complaining, and my father is also affected by this.

And although he is theoretically right, he is even more impatient than me! Alas, I still need to work hard to grasp the education of my children.

Yesterday, Doudou finally came to his birthday after a year of longing! The child was very excited and put a lot of hopes and requests on this day!

We also tried to satisfy her on a reasonable basis, such as buying books and inviting children to celebrate their birthdays...... Doudou was very happy and said to himself: "Mom, I am 8 years old from today, and I can't be like 7 years old anymore." Although she may not know what it will be like when she was 7 years old, the child's heart is already demanding progress!

What you need to do for your child is to concretize and quantify what she is asked to do!

Like I used to ask my child to brush his teeth well, Doudou couldn't understand how to brush and called it a good brush, since I told her to brush 20 times per face, Doudou's brushing teeth have been in place!

Later, it will be based on concrete and quantification in the process of children's growth and education.

After taking Doudou to buy books yesterday, we went to help her buy candy and let her sit on the edge of the square and wait, after we chose the things, my father asked me to go out to see the child immediately, for fear that the child would be abducted.

As I walked up the stairs, I thought, "What if my child is gone?" Will I break down because of this? or be relieved by this?

Hurriedly climbed up, and found that the child was reading quietly, and my heart seemed to breathe a sigh of relief! Looking at the child's quiet face, love slowly rose!

Yesterday, I read an e-mail from a patient to his father, from a state of almost doomed to the treatment process of being able to live a normal life and go to school now, the patient is not only grateful, but also aggressively picks and blames the doctor.

I also learned about the evil of the human heart and how hard it is for a doctor to be good!

I also experienced the pressure of my father, and I regret what I was angry about yesterday morning! In my father, I may need a haven of relaxation and rest - more than I do!

I'm just taking care of a child, and the career and environment he has to face are so difficult!

I also read my father's reply to others, and I feel relieved that he can fly higher! What is "a foot high and a foot high"--this is!2007-12-17