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Last night, I was asking about Doudou's spending. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

Not long ago, Doudou took 100 yuan from my wallet to spend, and when I found out, I was very angry! I taught her a harsh lesson, and I said: Whether you have achieved something or not, but your character must not go wrong! Quietly take money from my mother's wallet, although we are a family, but that is called stealing! Spend normally, my mother will support, and I will give reasonable pocket money, but remember to save, without my father's income, my mother's income alone is very limited, and we must save money! Doudou said that we will not make such mistakes again.

And last night, she admitted that she actually took money from her father's wallet to spend it again.

I was almost completely discouraged! How could this be the case? Could it be that such a great disaster could not make her sensible? If it was a child who did not seek progress and did nothing wrong, what hope would I have to live? I was once again caught in the whirlpool of misery! After scolding and beating the child with all my might, I really wanted to hit my head to death! How cruel this life was to me!

Doudou was very scared and burst into tears: Mom, I don't dare anymore, I put all my mind on studying, Mom, don't cry!

People say: Hit the child's body and hurt in the mother's heart! Yes, it is better to hit me, if I can make the child strong and ambitious, I am willing to suffer any hardship! No matter how difficult it is, I have hope!

The child said: I miss Dad, I often cry secretly by myself. I can spend money on things to have a little happiness and forget about my dad. How heart-rending did I feel when I heard this? Yes, how could you not be a lonely mother and wife in this foreign land?

Every time I think that other people's children have their father's love, and I Doudou only has my mother to rely on, in addition to being sad is to make up my mind: grit my teeth and give me Doudou to prop up a clear sky! So the strict requirements are also relaxed, I always believe in influencing children with their own words and deeds and morality, educating children, and now children who have entered adolescence have begun to behave like this, which is another challenge for me! For so many years, I have completed my growth as a mother in continuous thinking and reflection, and I am also accompanying my children to grow up slowly! Now that I don't have my father's influence and care, just myself, I sometimes panic! How should I deal with my child's behavior at this stage? How to educate?

I thought a lot last night! Since I am facing such a reality now, I can only face it more firmly and rationally!

Reflect on yourself: less warmth and care for children, more reprimands and accusations! less patience! In their own pain every day, they care a lot less about their children's thoughts! They don't care about their children's pain! They don't care about their children's confusion!

From today onwards, go back to the past!--even better than before!Accompany the child to grow up healthily!Let the child feel that although there is no father's company, mother's love can give her a rain-free sky!2011-3-11