65. Remember—good boys boast!
Yesterday, I went shopping with Qingqing and Qingqing's mother, in order to go out for Doudou, we walked aimlessly together, Doudou saw a small purse and wanted to buy it again, and I had already bought 4 or 5 of them at home. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info
I disagreed, thinking that she didn't have 10 yuan in her hand, so she said to buy it with her own money. She really just took out the money to buy it. I stopped it. Doudou was very unhappy! I couldn't listen to the truth! I was awkward all the way, and I was also very angry, but I didn't say anything. After that, it was already past 5 o'clock, and Doudou proposed to go to the bookstore to read a book! Alas! This kid thought of what to do, and did not think of the reasonableness of doing something!
I bought a hamster a few days ago, ran away from one, and didn't look for it at all! I didn't cherish anything I bought! I probably had plenty of material things all the time, and there was nothing to cherish, so even if I liked it, it was a matter of two seconds.
I feel extremely powerless in the face of a child who is now unable to eat oil and salt! I can't help but be angry when I face her! I have repeatedly made up my mind to be gentle and patient, but when I face such a situation, it is really difficult to calm down!
Let's take it slowly, I should be "pleased" to see Qingqing's scolding of her mother yesterday, at least this child doesn't dare to talk to me like this! I also live by fate, and so does Doudou! I really don't have much mental strength!2011-3-14
I made a pact with Doudou that I would exchange my homework and test scores for pocket money.
The day before yesterday, Doudou called and said that he got the third place in math 95, and I praised the child. After that, Doudou called to verify the amount of the bonus: 3 yuan. With the income from homework, you can get more than 20 yuan a week!
Yesterday's English test, 91.5, did not go to the top three. I feel okay, saying that only 8 children are on 90 points.
Doudou has maintained the top few positions without any tutoring reinforcement, and I don't have to worry too much about my children's learning.
These days, Doudou seems to be suddenly more sensible and diligent, and my praise is more than blame!
Good boys boast! I abide by this principle!
Strive to cultivate a child with a surging heart and spirit! Although Doudou is a girl, I hope she has enough heart to accommodate the unsatisfactory life!
Now it seems that there is no problem with the atmosphere of Doudou, the key is the care and guidance of adolescence!
2011-4-8
Doudou forgot to take the melodica for the music lesson yesterday and asked me to give it to her, but I was already on the way to work in the car and didn't agree. I have always been worried that the child will be criticized, and I called to ask, Doudou said that many children did not bring it, and they would be scolded together, and I felt at ease.
After the start of school, I made an agreement with Doudou for three chapters: no matter what you forgot to take, you can't run home halfway to get it, for the safety of the child and have rules.
The problem of losing three and four has changed a lot.
Last night, I remember asking the child if he was being criticized? Doudou had a naughty face: "God really has eyes! The teacher's melodica is broken, so he didn't get criticized!"
The day before yesterday, I washed my clothes and asked Doudou to dry, and Doudou had already helped me dry them a few times!
On Saturday, the two of us walked to the office, Doudou was very happy! I measured my height, and I was really 151cm! I was just over 11 years old! Weight: 89 pounds!
This kid is growing up very well!
2011.4.12