Bean kids are in high school. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

In a blink of an eye, the bean child has grown up and is in high school.

Although he always behaves like a child, the tall beans have gradually grown up, and their wings have gradually grown, step by step out of their mother's field of vision, and they have begun to expand their own territory.

Would it be gratifying if Dad could see his healthy, optimistic, autonomous, and self-reliant children today?

Although they were not admitted to key high schools and did not get their studies to the top, their childhood and teenagers are spent in self-growth and relaxation and happiness, and they will benefit a lot from the improvement of their future personality and their ability to live and deal with the world.

On August 23rd, I went to report to the new school, and the little pot friend made a list of the things he needed one by one, ticked, packed, and packed, and I didn't have to do it again. On the day of registration, she also behaved very calmly and calmly, I said that she didn't seem to see her longing and yearning for the next three years of high school life, she replied that there was, but she was not so excited.

Without the bean child around, without her nagging chatter and messy room, it seems clean and empty, a person's night is quiet to lonely, try to find something to do to fill the days without the bean child around.

In the days to come, she will go farther and farther, and I will slowly adapt to the quiet and dull days of being alone.

If the father of the bean child is safe, my life is perfect, with a successful career, a husband who loves each other, a smart, healthy and happy child, a healthy parent, a relative who lives and works in peace and contentment, and a classmate and friend who treats each other sincerely...... All the beauty of the world has been given to me.

Now, although it has been more than five years since he left, this thought and pain will be with me for the rest of my life.

Watching the healthy growth of the child, my heart is comforted by the pain, and I am worthy of the departed father. I'm doing my best to make it easy for my child to grow up happy, after all, with the foundation we have laid in life, she no longer has to be limited to survive. No more hard and hard work like us.

In fact, life is a journey through a road that can no longer be recovered, so whether it is a child or an old man, every day must be lived the same, and you can't accompany today's happiness for the sake of how and how that day in the future. If for the so-called glory of the future, accompany your childhood and youth, and the day you become famous, you can't recall the years you have passed, and you can't remember what you can reminisce and show off on the days of "misconduct", it is sad.

So I didn't go with the flow to ask the child to only study and grades, although with her intelligence and intelligence, go all out, the grades must be top, but I still can't bear to deprive her of her spare time and rest time, grow up naturally, have the ability to support yourself, can do what you like, don't be decadent, don't go the wrong way, it's okay.

No matter how life goes, it is important to be happy and comfortable.

Isn't it?

2015.8.25