The bean kid went to high school and lived on campus. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

Go home two days a week and only spend two days a week together.

When I went to pick her up from school last week, I asked her if she wanted me, and she said she didn't. I said I miss you so much, why don't you miss your mother?

She said that she actually thought about it, but she didn't think it was hypocritical. hehe

I compiled the photos of the family and made two albums, and when the child came home and saw it, he cried. I parked the car and went home to find my child crying, and as soon as she saw me coming back, she hurriedly wiped her tears and talked to me as if nothing happened. My heart hurts to break!

How much pain did the child endure? She endured pain that she shouldn't have suffered!

The usual bean child is very aggressive, strong, optimistic, and even seems heartless, but I know that the child's heart has endured no lighter ordeal than mine. So I never demanded anything from her, mostly following her wishes, only grasping the general direction, and following her father's parenting philosophy in detail: treat her leniently.

When her father was there, I thought that such a smart child should have something to do and achieve, and often criticized her for not studying hard enough. Now I just hope that she can grow up happy and healthy, and as for her achievements and future, as long as she can support herself.

It's been 5 years since her father left, but it's still hard for me to come out, although I usually try not to show it in front of the child, but the child may be able to feel it, so she has been very strong and optimistic, but I know how bitter the child has to be. She didn't want to add any more burden and pressure to me, and she kept acting like she didn't care. Recently, my child has been more submissive, and everything I say is "good, good." And often do what I ask and want, and some of the little rebellions in front are gone. Every week, I actually wash the school uniform by myself, and I don't take it home and wash it in the washing machine. I will also ask my classmates who don't go home to help collect their clothes. Grandma Dou has always been worried that Doudou in Madahar may not be suitable for living in school, so she can rest assured. Bean Child's life and adaptability have been top since childhood, but I'm not worried. The usual laziness is also because my mother is used to doing it for me. Think about it, that is, in the past few years, I can still have my mother to take care of her wholeheartedly, and she can grow up carefree, once she grows up, all the burdens in her life have to be faced and borne by herself, and I am reluctant to let her become heavy at the age when she should be carefree. The father's departure has caused too much pain to the child and dealt her too much blow. I'd rather be a little tired than have my children endure too much. But the bean child is also trying to give his mother more happiness and ease. Thinking that the days with the child are numbered, she is about to grow up and fly away, and I feel very sad, leaving me alone to walk through the long road of life. Take good care of my little Doudou, my only wish is for the child to grow up healthy and happy.