Doudou saw my last article, with tears in his eyes, hugged me and didn't speak. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 infoI know the pressure my child has been under since he entered junior high school, but I don't dare to relax my child's learning too much, I am worried that in such an environment, once the grades decline badly, the teacher's dissatisfaction, sarcasm, blows and the ignorant echo of the classmates will bring psychological damage and loss of self-confidence to Doudou, what a confident and sunny child she used to be! So I usually ask her to complete all the homework assigned by the teacher, even if I sometimes know that the homework is unreasonable, I still say: you should complete the homework that other students can do.

It's just that she is no longer required to add more exercises outside the classroom, I know that this kind of educational effect and the knowledge learned is useless, and there is very little that can be used in the future, and the child's independent thinking and learning enthusiasm are not, so rote memorization and infinite repetition of low-level learning results can only be used for further education. I hope that after high school, my child's autonomy and motivation will increase.

Not to mention children, I am annoyed by watching endless exercises and copying every day.

Last night, I was lying down reading a book, Doudou carried her small desk to my bed, to do homework next to me, I turned on the bedside lamp, not bright enough, and teased her: "Don't disturb my rest, I'll turn off the light when you come." ”

"Don't be like that, be friendly, okay? Mama, you can't do that!" Doudou Lai had already put the table on my bed.

I snapped and turned off the bedside lamp, and it was pitch black.

Doudou shouted: "Ah, you are numb, you really turn off the lights, don't do this!"

I "snapped" and turned on the headlights, and the room suddenly became much brighter, "I'll just say!

While writing, I started to talk about it, and I asked to "shut up" from time to time and "concentrate on homework" from time to time, and this kid just couldn't stop.

When it comes to the age of the Chinese teacher, I choke on laughter.

"The teacher said that 'The Siege' was very good, and it was the most popular novel when they were in college. Mama, have you seen it?"

"Yes, they are popular in college? So how old are your teachers?" I was surprised, it seems that their Chinese teachers should be about the same age as us, and "Siege" was no longer popular when we were in college.

"She said she was in her fifties, and we didn't believe it. ”

"Doesn't you? You look like you're about forty years old, right?"

"But when we said that we were still embryos in my mother's womb at that time, the teacher said that we could not be embryos, then I said that we were still cells, and the teacher also said that it was impossible, and the teacher said that when she was in college, our parents probably didn't know each other. ”

"Oh, then, you're still air! invisible in the universe!" I laughed with Doudou.

"Mom, the teacher said that "The Siege" is very good, what is it talking about?" Doudou asked me.

"I've seen it twice, and to be honest I think it's hard language, the content, it's not attractive, and as for the good looks, I don't think it's good. It's just a family marriage problem, comparing marriage to a siege, those who are not married want to go in, and those who are married want to come out, anyway, it is the entanglement of many people, as for what kind of profound life philosophy the author wants to express, I don't understand it too much. I replied.

"Hahaha, our teacher also said she didn't understand. Doudou laughed.

"Hehe, it's fun! I don't understand it and you say it's good-looking, your teacher is modest, right?" I laughed.

In fact, I think the author's intention may not only be to talk about marriage, but also to talk about it: in life, everything is the same as a siege, what you get is not cherished, what you don't get is wanted, right? Maybe it's also about the weakness of human nature. "I analyze.

"Well, I'll take a look when I have time. ”

"We seem to have a copy at home, I don't know if it's still there? ”

I realized that I had "wasted" a period of time for Doudou to write homework, "Hurry up, hurry up, hurry up and write homework, and I was fooled by your little mouth again." I would have ignored you and asked you to do your homework. You want to chat and keep changing topics to attract me, alas! "I feigned displeasure.

"Hey, hey, right now!!" Doudou said mischievously. 2013.10.29