162. Star-chasing children

The child is going to participate in the recording of her idol: the little singer Liu Xin's program, and I told me before, I thought that more people might not necessarily get her turn, so I didn't take it seriously, and a few days ago I said that I wanted to sign up, and I reported it perfunctorily. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info didn't want this little guy to really sign up, and he got the ticket to participate in the program recording.

When I went to attend tonight, I regretted going to her. I wanted to find an excuse to prevaricate, I didn't want to be discovered, I didn't want to be left behind, so I had to give it to her. originally wanted to drive her to the TV station by himself, but the eldest brother was not at ease, so he had to drive him to send it together. Fortunately, it's the eldest brother who drives, otherwise the various one-way lines that go around and around, don't give a left turn, and I must be confused about the route of seven, seven, eight, eight.

Think about it, it's better to give it to your children, it can be regarded as getting in touch with society and expanding your horizons. I also have some insights into yesterday's Jiangsu TV's "Strongest Brain" match between the Chinese team and the Italian team.

Yesterday a Chinese child, Li Yunlong, 12 years old, and an Italian child, Andreu, 12 years old. The game memory wore 51 couples in identical wedding dresses and dresses, and then arranged them in an unordered number. To memorize, you also need to arrange the models in formation.

As soon as Li Yunlong came up, he had an aura of ambition, and it seemed that his whole body was stiff and very nervous. And Andrew looks much more relaxed, and it can be seen that Andrew also wants to win, and he is also remembering carefully. Li Yunlong from right to left, Andrew from left to right, it is said that counterclockwise memory is a little more difficult than the clockwise memory we are used to, but Li Yunlong only took half of Andrew's time to complete the memory, and then began to pose the model.

When Andrew later finished setting up the model and began to arrange the answers with the newcomers on the field according to the rules, Li Yunlong suddenly collapsed! It can be seen that he thought he had made a mistake to collapse like this.

The host, guests, scientific supervisors and other people began to coax Li Yunlong, and his father also came to the stage to coax the child, Li Yunlong kept repeating a sentence: "I remembered correctly, but I made a mistake." ”

Everyone said it didn't matter, it didn't matter if they won or lost, but the child never had the strength to stand up. With great difficulty, his father pulled the child out of his seat and began to answer the question.

The answer is correct, it's not wrong, it's all right. Then why did Li Yunlong think that he was wrong? In a state of extreme nervousness, he mistakenly thought that he was wrong at the beginning of hearing Andrew's order from left to right, and he collapsed all of a sudden.

After that, the host asked about the children's learning and play, Andrew played two days a week and weekends, and half of the weekday was dedicated to playing football. Li Yunlong did not have a day off for a week, and he was in his father's strict intensive training.

So the difference between the two children is that Li Yunlong is an acquired memory skill that his father has intensively trained, while Andrew is a talent, and Andrew said that he can remember anything he has seen as long as he wants to remember. This is the difference! Li Yunlong is learning passively, completing tasks and burdens. Andrew, on the other hand, is an active learner, enjoys it, and has no burden at all.

Seeing Li Yunlong's collapse, Andrew also cried, saying that he was worried about Li Yunlong. The rest of the Italian players were also in tears. But I feel even more sorry for Li Yunlong, I know how much pressure he has, he has raised this game to the height of winning glory for the motherland! Many people put such a burden on a 12-year-old child, and he cannot afford to make any mistakes. We have been taught from an early age to live for others but not for ourselves.

However, Western education is people-oriented, and it is oneself who lives first, and then family, friends, nation and motherland.

Think about it, if a person loses himself, what wonderful life can he live?

Our children are forced and suppressed by the family, school, and society to learn compulsory ideas and knowledge, and people's subjectivity and creativity are framed, without their own enthusiasm and initiative, the future is worrying!