Yesterday I expanded a photo of Doudou when she was eight years old and put it in a frame, and when Doudou came back from school, I asked her to come to her room to have a look, and she asked, "What is it? Is it a surprise or a fright?" and I said, "Can you just look at it?"

She went in and saw the photo, and said, "I'm going to go!

This little one!

In the evening, she said that she was going to participate in the school art festival performance, and she wanted to sign up for saxophone solo, and I supported her very much, and there was nothing wrong with having fun and relaxing after studying. The pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info so I practiced "Farewell", which was not bad.

Doudou said: "I haven't studied the bass of the saxophone yet, so I raised the volume by 8 degrees to blow it." Mom, how about you listen to it?"

"No wonder, I said I didn't hear that kind of tactful whirlwind, so you don't have a bass?" I said.

"But it's okay, I'll sign up first, and I'll participate after selection, but I won't participate if I can't pass. Doudou said.

Mathematics homework is a bit hungry! Usually a few questions a day, but after a few days, there are dozens of pages of workbooks! Really! Yesterday Doudou didn't finish writing until 12:00! Although Doudou's math scores were good, their class's math scores were not good as a whole, and it seems that the teacher had a problem with teaching!

When I was in junior high school, I had almost no spare time, and the most common thing I said to my children every day was: "Hurry up, hurry up!"

What kind of life will this kind of learning and growth achieve in the future? I dare not hope for it. I just hope that children can still live their lives in such an environment. 2012.12.13

Doudou's thirteenth birthday is coming, she has been planning how to celebrate it for a long time, I want to plan it for her, I only pay for it.

Doudou wanted a comic version of the ring, and I agreed, of course, it was good for children to be new and fresh for their age, and I couldn't use an adult's values to bind a child's Doudou.

Now that the burden of school has put too much pressure on the children, why not give her more autonomy in her spare time, even if it is "nonsense", and the vitality of the children must be maintained!

2012.12.14

Doudou's thirteenth birthday, I gave her a total of 200 yuan even the usual pocket money and birthday and reward money, Doudou happily told a few classmates to go to the comic exhibition to play, and went all the way to Western University, it turned out that I was deceived by the post on the Internet!

Then I went to the video game city to play, and went home at four o'clock in the afternoon. I ordered a fruit cake from Fan Ji, and Doudou invited the best insects in a community to eat the cake together.

In the evening, Doudou wanted to ask me for pocket money again, and I took advantage of the situation to teach her!

200 yuan does not save some flowers, almost all of them are spent in a day, plus buying cakes, a total of almost 300 yuan is spent in a day.

300 yuan is nothing, and I can afford it.

It's just that I'm worried that if children spend money like this without restraint, one is easy to develop the problem of extravagance, and I don't know that money is hard to come by, and the other will also breed some inappropriate desires.

Doudou was very resistant at first and cried. Under my education of reasoning with facts, Doudou burst into tears and laughed, indicating that he understood his mother's intentions.

Day by day, Doudou grows up, and she no longer needs me to follow and watch every inch, she has her own thoughts, her own space, and her own relationships.

Slowly, I was left to do my own thing, I don't know if this is unhappiness or happiness?

Cherish the moment, cherish the days spent with Doudou, and cherish every day with your children.

It has nothing to do with bitterness and joy, every word and every action is a great love and concern for children!2012.12.17