Recently, because of my nephew's lack of learning and skills, I am very disappointed and heartbroken, and I also have an uncontrollable irritability with Doudou, I have no patience at all, I don't want to accommodate and teach at all, I bury my head like an ostrich, and I don't care about everything. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

But life must go on, the child must grow up, and her healthy growth is my greatest responsibility in this life, and I can't shirk it a little, so I have to force myself to be more patient. Although I feel powerless and annoyed, I have to be patient with my children.

I know that the child is also a motivated child, but I am annoyed that she has no self-control and perseverance. Often use a reproachful and down-to-date tone to talk to the child, knowing that this is not good, but it is difficult to restrain his emotions.

Last night, Doudou slept with me and wanted to chat with me, saying that she hated school, homework, and exams. I said, "No one likes this kind of learning without creativity and freshness, and neither does my mother, but we grow up in such an environment, and if we can't change the environment, we can only change ourselves to adapt, and the learning of basic knowledge is all needed." Although everyone is very critical of today's education system, after the national science education, the quality of those who have graduated from university and those who have not gone through college are different, and even the way of thinking is different. Besides, if you go to school, it will be a day to study hard, and if you don't study hard, it will also be a day, so what's wrong with studying hard to fight for a good future? Now that you don't study hard under such good conditions, you think about delaying your future, is it worth it?"

"Every teacher said that they don't have a lot of homework left, and they don't need to finish it in an hour, but if you think about the homework of at least four classes a day, it will add up to four hours of homework!" Doudou was very dissatisfied with the teacher's mountain-like homework.

"There's no way around it, this kind of education is like this, you can improve your efficiency, I don't think it will take two hours to complete, with your ingenuity is definitely not a problem. "I lightened the mood and encouraged the kids.

"*********" Doudou muttered something, and I couldn't hear it at all.

"Sleep well, study hard, and when you grow up, you will know how worth it is today. "I don't want to force her too much, let her grow up a little easier.

"But it's the third year of junior high school in the second half of the year, where can I still have time to be admitted to the second and third middle schools?" Doudou is still thinking about the key points, and he is not confident.

"With you in time, the main thing is your own attitude, you have to work hard, I will guarantee that you will be able to pass the exam." "I believe in the child's intellectual level and learning ability.

"I'm not high in IQ and EQ, okay?" Doudou said.

"You have high emotional intelligence? If you want high emotional intelligence, you won't make your mother worry so much if you don't work hard! You will understand our situation and consciously work hard. Your IQ is not low, and it is higher than others, but you don't make good use of it. "I'm a little impatient.

I don't want to say any more, wait for her to grow up and be sensible on her own. Turn around and sleep. 2014.6.9