One Seventy-One, Mother's Introspection
The problem of the child losing three and four has not changed, 6.1 took out the camera and did not get it back, asked several times and said that a child helped to hold it, but this and that reason has not been taken back until now, I am very angry when I get up early, where does this character come from? Thousands of dollars of camera lost and did not see the hurry, alas!
Ever since Doudou began to rebel, my patience has been put to the test of "severe", constantly reminding myself to be tolerant and kind to my children, but I am often provoked by this unsatisfactory life. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info
So he is often blaming the child, saying "how are you ......", "what are you doing...... or "are you .......", "can you ......?" every tone is impatient, reproachful, and reprimanded. I also know that this is not good, very bad, but I can't help but get angry when I am always faced with the mess of the environment and her nonchalant attitude.
Every day, I will remind myself to change, to treat the child calmly and tolerantly, accompany her through adolescence smoothly, and I can't help but be temperamental every time I face the child.
Yesterday, I saw the child's talk, saying that I disliked her, saying that it was always thankless and always disliked, so it was better not to be a good child.
I feel very bad in my heart, maybe my expression is like many Chinese parents, obviously 10,000 love, but 10,000 reproaches. Although I understand that this is not good, I am constantly correcting and improving, and when the child reaches the rebellious stage, I have no patience and often face the child in a tone of lesson and blame. From today on, I want to go back to the way she was when she was a child, no longer demanding and forcing the child, I want to express my true love to the child, and let her experience the warmest and intimate love in the world.
Yesterday I saw her write to her father: I wish the Father of Heaven a happy holiday! I couldn't help but burst into tears, she needs love, care, and mother's warmth and love so much, but I often can't satisfy her, how lonely should a child be?
Life is not satisfactory, the past has happened irreversibly, I must treat my child well, let her grow up happily under my care.