I bought a school uniform for Doudou, Dou said I wanted to buy it a long time ago, I thought it would be very hot, I didn't buy it, today Doudou got up early, got dressed, and was very happy. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 infoHappy to go to school.

I like to be more happy than any new beautiful clothes I bought, and maybe I'm excited that my long-awaited wish has come true. 2007－5－28

On June 3, Doudou was beaten up by me. The reason: the child has become careless, procrastinating for reasons and excuses.

Prevaricate me with some reasons that are not justifications!

In the morning, I went to play ball with me (no math Olympiad class), and after I went home at noon, I had to go to Qingqing's house to play, and I said that I had been playing for two and a half days from 6.1 to 6.3, and the remaining half a day should also take a break, adjust my thinking and prepare for school.

Change your clothes first, then take a nap and rest in the afternoon.

When I suggested that she take a shower, she was upset: "You said you would go to bed after changing your clothes, but you didn't say you wanted to take a shower!"

I reasoned with her: "First, you have been playing for two and a half days, you are very tired and need to rest, and the other is that you have sweated a lot in the morning, and your whole body is slimy, so you can wash and wash comfortably." There are also homework assigned by the teacher that you haven't completed yet. Do you think you should go this afternoon under such circumstances?"

Doudou still repeats the above sentence. I couldn't help it, and I punched her ass so hard! I've never hit her so hard. I didn't regret it after the fight, I think it should!

Yesterday, Doudou came home from school and was very well-behaved, although there was still procrastination, but it has already changed! In fact, the child should be beaten. Long memory!

Looking back, I did introspection: I didn't have the necessary communication with Doudou recently, I didn't pay too much attention to her thoughts, I didn't have enough patience, I paid more attention to physical health than psychology, I want to give the child a warm and caring environment, so that she can always feel the care and attention of her mother, chat with her more, understand her needs, and guide education in a targeted manner. 2007－6－5

Yesterday, I watched "Tell the Truth", about the growth of children, "win at the starting line".

The participants included several professors, several teachers, and some students and their parents, and they discussed the topic of what the starting line is and how to win at the starting line.

After listening to the helplessness of parents and children, and listening to the analysis of experts, everyone finally believes that children's health and happiness are won at the starting line.

I have always been committed to this, and when I hear about the tireless persistence and efforts of some "enlightened" parents who are committed to this, I feel guilty for what I have done before, I feel guilty for not being able to firmly adhere to my own parenting philosophy, and I feel guilty for almost following the crowd!

Fortunately, I was able to adjust my state in time and return to the original direction in time, and I should stick to it even more after that!

Now that I have realized the biases and drawbacks of school education, and since many people have "woken up", I must not only have a clear understanding but also have clear actions and actions, and give my children a natural and innocent environment.

First of all, I want to have a firm belief, and then teach children to be sincere, kind, responsible, and actively face life and growth, now Doudou's growth in all aspects is normal, on this basis, I want to guide children to take a relaxed, healthy, happy road, even if the exam is not 100, even if not as versatile as other children, I want my child to have a healthy mind and body, as long as she has a skill to support herself, feel happy and happy!

Since last night, Doudou and I have started to study the "Chinese Children's Encyclopedia" again, I explain, Doudou participates in the discussion, she will connect a lot of content and imagination, I think it is very good, after a period of study, I hope she can read these books with deeper content by herself.

Once again, cultivate children's interest in reading and the spirit of study.

Doudou looked intoxicated while eating ice cream, and suddenly exclaimed: "Wow, ice cream is so delicious! Who invented ice cream? He is such an angel!"

Once, Doudou called his father: "Dad, why is it that when you are here, your mother's cooking is so sumptuous, and we eat so lightly when you are not at home?" I don't know how my father answered her.

I myself was shocked at first: the child actually made such a discovery and feeling?!

Then I explained this: "Because when Dad is at home, there are many people who eat, and if you cook too many dishes, you can eat them all, and there will be no leftovers, and when we are two, there will be leftovers when we cook too many dishes, and we have to eat leftovers for the next meal, which is not good for our health." ”

The daughter did not agree with this explanation and did not object.

I am also ashamed of my own reasons, in fact, another reason is that I did not do this with my heart, I only considered the nutritional structure of the child, did not think too much about the matter of eating, did not take into account the child's feelings about eating, it seems that to be a good mother has to pay countless times harder!

Caring for children's hearts can be anytime, anywhere, in every detail!2007, 6, 11

The day before yesterday, Doudou told me that she broke down the word "twenty" into "2 tens", and I didn't pay much attention to it at the time, but just dealt with her.

When I tore the calendar this morning, I found that she had taken it apart in the shape of a letter, and it was so strange and reasonable!

Doudou is a child who is good at thinking, she will use her logic and knowledge to analyze and think about any thing and phenomenon, and figure out its causes and effects, she is not only smart and has a strong understanding of things, but also likes to ponder and pay attention to details.

A few days ago, I discussed with Doudou and decided to use crying faces and smiley faces to record her daily behavior, we can draw together, and I made a promise: when you get 50 smiley faces, you can get a gift of 10 yuan, and when you get 100 smiley faces, you can get a gift of 30~50 yuan, and a crying face offsets a smiley face.

Dou cares very hard for this, she wants to get the gift she wants through her own efforts, I also encourage her and give her more confidence, but also to insist on a certain degree of difficulty, one to exercise her perseverance, and the other is to hope that she can cherish the opportunities she has worked hard to get. 2007、6、12