Several times, I found that if Doudou was wronged or unhappy before going to bed, he would sleep unsteadily at night, dream a lot, talk in his dreams, and cry and kick the bed...... I get sick when I get beaten, and I'm very distressed!

I can't be rude to my little cutie anymore!Must !! 2007, 6, 14

The bad temper I inherited from my mother, although I have recognized it and tried to overcome it, often showed it - to my little cuteness. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

Every time I show a smile, Doudou will be very excited, yesterday I was very angry about her review of homework, after coming home in the evening, said to laugh, Doudou saw that I was smiling, very happy, and said, "Mom, laugh again." Mom, laugh again. "I have to overcome this innate defect in order to give my child a relaxed environment. 2007-6-18

Yesterday morning, I was determined to be kind to the child, and I went home happily in the evening, I didn't want Doudou to stain my clothes by the children, and asked people to take them home to help her wash them, but they forgot to take them back, and I hurried to school before I could catch my breath, and I was a little irritable when I ran around on such a hot day.

6:30 Doudou was ready to write homework, and it was already more than 7:00 when I climbed upstairs out of breath, Doudou only wrote 2 words, I tried to be patient, and told her to write as soon as possible, and there was still something to do to review the content.

I packed up my clothes, helped her take a shower and did the laundry, and by the time I was done, it was almost 8:00, and Doudou only wrote 8 words, and my patience was always tested!

I went to cook, and it was 8:30 when I finished the meal, and Doudou still hadn't finished writing, saying that she was hungry and wanted to eat, and I insisted that she finish eating again, and it wasn't until almost 9:00 that she finished her homework.

Two and a half hours were wasted on what could have been done in 30 minutes!

I didn't get too angry with her, I just ignored her.

On such a hot day, I was already very tired when I came home from work, and I couldn't help but be angry when I encountered my children so annoyed again and again.

Yesterday, I didn't even eat dinner and was so irritable!

I didn't know who to call for help, so I tried to write a letter to the teacher to learn about the characteristics and educational methods of children of this age, but I didn't continue later, and I just gave up thinking that it wouldn't be of much use.

When the child fell asleep, I thought about it alone for a long time, and I didn't bother too much about other aspects of Doudou, but my self-control was poor, so I wrote a long "whisper" to the child, and in the morning I told her that there was a "whisper" in the schoolbag, and I had time to look at it during the day. I hope it can do some thing.

In the future, I will have to work on my child's self-control to help her overcome this problem!

I still need to be patient !!!!! Jun 19, 2007

Attached letter to Doudou:

Doudou: Mom is writing to you today with a feeling of distress and pain.

1. Mom is very sad, that day Mom stewed chicken for you to eat first, Mom saw that you ate very fragrantly, Mom was very happy, when I saw that you ate all the meat and didn't leave a small piece for Mom, Mom was very sad, Mom was not sad because there was no chicken to eat, Mom was sad because Doudou didn't think of Mom and didn't care about Mom. I remember one time, my mother peeled fruit for you and Qingqing to eat, you asked your mother to eat together, and my mother said that there was still something to do, so you should eat first, and my mother heard you say to Qingqing: "Don't finish eating, leave some for my mother." "My mother's heart is warm, and my mother feels her daughter's love and care for her mother. You're growing up, and your mom doesn't want you to lose the most precious emotion in the world: caring for and loving each other. Did you know that mothers also need their daughter's care and love?

2. Mom is very angry, tonight your homework dragged out from 18:30 to 21:00, and you spent 150 minutes on the homework that could have been completed in 30 minutes, wasting 2 hours! You ate bananas for a while, read the newspaper for a while, and read comic books for a while, but you didn't concentrate on writing your homework, and finally your mother got angry and you finished writing. Originally, you and your mother agreed to complete your homework in an hour, but you broke it again. Mom knows that you are a smart, capable, and confident child, but procrastination is also a big problem, Mom hopes that you will not just say "I can do it" but also insist on correcting little by little in your daily life, which requires a lot of effort from you and enough patience from Mom. Let's work together to overcome it, shall we?

3. Don't you want your mother to be young and happy forever? Originally, my mother was already very happy to have such a beautiful, smart, confident and capable daughter as you, if you can overcome the problem of procrastination and let your mother worry less and make your mother angry, your mother will not age so fast, and she will be very happy. Mom knows that you are a very gifted child, and Mom told you when you were in kindergarten: You have to go on your own, and Dad and Mom can only help you, not replace you. If you keep procrastinating, it will become a stumbling block on your future growth path. And you will waste a lot of precious time, and then you will not be able to achieve your dreams. But you are still young, you have to work 70% hard to overcome it, and the remaining 30% mom will help you, let's help each other and work together, mom believes that procrastination will leave our home. You tell me?

Mommy loves you, my little cutie!

Mom late at night on June 18