After reading Doudou's letter, my mother really broke her liver and intestines again! For the sake of today's situation, the child has suffered a lot! From the original abundance of food and clothing to the current stretch, it is difficult for the child to adapt! Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 info thought again: what kind of effort can be put into educating children well, when can we put down our hearts and live easily, when can children grow up and be sensible?

Mom 2012-10-2513:07:18

I don't criticize you, just the facts:

1. What is in your father's wallet is the money left behind on the day he lost his life, I have not been willing to move, now it is gone, there are only you and me at home, will it fly by itself? For this reason, I am not distressed for hundreds of dollars, I am really sad! Sad, how can you reach out and take this money!

2. When is the chocolate bought as a miscellaneous brand? The cheaper one is Dove, you buy some and lose it, saying that it is not to your liking; the more expensive imported ones are just to buy less packaging, and I can't afford to buy the expensive ones, which is a fact; during the Chinese New Year, I bought Xu Fu Chi's, which one is a miscellaneous brand?

3. You have to understand that we only have a little salary from me a month, and this little money can't afford to be squandered!

4. You can't buy snacks as much as you want, I think about it this way, now the food safety problem is very prominent, buy a few dollars of potato chips is also what I taught to screen, not because it is cheap but the amount is small, you can satisfy the cravings but even if it is toxic, it will not cause great harm to the body. Drinks are poisonous from time to time, how can I, as a doctor, let you drink them regularly? But I don't completely ban you, and I will buy them for you to quench your cravings.

5. I spent so much money to ask you to live at the teacher's house, I thought that you can have a good rest at noon and avoid the danger of running around on the road. As for eating, it won't be too bad, and every night I will carefully cook for you to replenish your nutrition. You were approached by the teacher because you couldn't control your mouth, I didn't criticize you completely, and I was angry with you and the teacher in order to defend you. But you run home all the time, and you don't eat well at noon and don't rest. Since junior high school, your academic burden has increased, how can you maintain such a good state of study? Now that you are growing your body, why have you only grown one centimeter in the last six months? Is it not because you indulge yourself in drinking from time to time and do not have a good rest and eat?

6. I am very tired of decorating and moving, you have never taken the initiative to help me a little, let you carry something once, you are very angry! And I have to carry two large bags of things before going to work every day, and then go back to take Uncle Wei's car. At that time, you were on summer vacation, and every day I had to buy you breakfast and take it upstairs before going to work.

Doudou: Why don't you believe me when I say I didn't take it? If you believe me, why don't you ignore me all night? Yes, I did, but it's sixth grade! It's already over! I'm a first-year junior high school student now! I like to show so much, why don't you come and watch me perform?

October 25 at 13:10

7. I am a weak woman, my waist has always been bad, I can't hold heavy things, but even if I have low back pain when I renovate and move, I have to carry two bags of things every day, and then go to the unit to do physiotherapy and plasters to treat. When your father was there, he wouldn't let me take anything heavy every time, and he would run up and down the ground several times when he left it downstairs.

8. You like to eat watermelon, I started to buy it for you to eat from a piece of watermelon, I am reluctant to eat, I will give you a half to eat twice, occasionally I want to eat a bite, you are desperately afraid that I will eat. I don't care if I eat watermelon or not, what I care about is that you never feel sorry for me, you know that watermelon is delicious, then your mother also thinks it's delicious, why can't you share it with your mother?

9. I am supported by myself, and I also need to care! You are half a head taller than me, I need clothes, eat and drink every day, get up early to help you get it, how many times have you washed your socks when you are so old? I give you milk, bread and other staple foods every day plus fruits and you prepare breakfast to ensure comprehensive nutrition. First of all, I gave you 5 yuan to eat breakfast, but you saved it from spending it, but the breakfast was so-so, if this continues, how can the body eat? You say that milk is not drunk until the afternoon and evening, so my thoughts are not in vain?

10. To tell the truth, I don't want to care about you, I'm not a nosy person, but do you say I can ignore you? Your father is gone, I don't care what you do? If you don't have a chance in this life, you can't support yourself, I can't even die of breath! I often think about how your father is here, what kind of care you are receiving, I try to do that to that extent, I don't want to tell you what kind of blows and grievances I have experienced outside, I want you to grow up carefree, but carefree is not ruthless and unjust! Child, if you could understand my hardships to some extent, you would no longer envy the freedom and extravagance of others.

11. Why are you so taken for granted? I want to go to work! I have been decorating my house and moving for most of the year, and I have been running out to work after reporting to the unit, and the leader has not said anything, but do so many people in a unit have no opinion? I must also have a number in my heart! I can't go too far as to be a man! When a monk hits the clock for a day, if I am not qualified for this job, I will be fired one day, what will the two of us eat? There will be many people taking pictures and videos at your opening ceremony, and there will be a CD for you at that time. I can't miss work to see, that's the principle.

12. You make me trust you, and I want to trust you, what mother doesn't love her child wholeheartedly? What mother doesn't doubt her child with a heartache?! I really hope that you will change your mind and never make the same mistake again! But you took away your father's dying money and others during the summer vacation, and Weiwei gave him a red envelope of 68 yuan! And you are not ashamed to do it! How can you tell me to trust you? It is not someone else's business to make others trust, but to make others trust yourself? Now, you run home all day long, and tell yourself what you are doing at noon? Have you eaten well and rested?

13. I am a mother, but I am also a woman, and I also have my own range of pressure, if you are so disobedient, do not take care of yourself and me, I can ignore you. I wish I didn't care about you now, if you can take care of yourself, I'll let it go. Even if I leave the house and leave everything I have with your father for so many years, I will leave, and you will leave yourself to take care of yourself.

14. Child, as a mother, I have been trying to do my best, I have never given you any pressure, I hope you grow up happily, but you have to understand my affection and my difficulties! I can not nag you, I can completely ignore you, you should understand. But your healthy growth is the only reason I'm alive now.

15. As long as you do everything, it will affect you all the time, although you do it secretly, but sooner or later I will know, I don't care what you say, what I want to see is what you do, a person is first of all a person, grades are important, but he is not the most important. If you can't even do well, what future do you talk about?

I don't want to talk so much, I will talk about it if you want to listen to it in the future, if you don't want to listen, you can make your own decisions. I no longer nag or arrange, no longer urge you to sleep and eat, think about how we have grown up healthy in such a difficult environment, are you still afraid that you will not grow up? Besides, everyone's fate is in their own hands, so I will save myself peace of mind.

After a break, I have something to tell you: I live for you, I have a responsibility to teach you before you become an adult, and you have grown up, I hope you can live and learn in a down-to-earth manner, not just for a wonderful performance. People spend most of their life in accumulation and paying, and only with accumulation and pay will there be a wonderful life. Now, whether you want to or not, we have to face such a situation, no matter how much I want to escape, I have to educate you, no matter how much you want to make your own decisions, you can't yet.

Last night, I wanted to ignore you like this! I wondered why you were so hard-hearted? Ruthless and unjust? What you see is that it's just money? It's money that you can spend indiscriminately? Don't you want to think about what kind of money it is? Don't you think of your father when you spend this money? Why didn't you think of your mother all the time? What you destroyed was your mother's insistence on affection!

If you are a cold-blooded, selfish child, one day, even if you are still a minor, your mother will leave you.

Now, for my mother, your healthy growth is the only one I can't let go, if I know that I can't do anything about your growth, and my presence or absence has no effect on you, my mother will go with your father or take refuge in Buddhism.

You were originally a good boy, and I hope you can restrain your desires and grow up well! People's desires are endless; today you see people eating snacks and envy, and tomorrow you will see people driving famous cars and living in villas, but people will eat as much as they have the ability, and if they don't work hard, they will always have to satisfy their unrealistic desires, and sooner or later they will make irreparable mistakes! People often say, "Take a needle when you are young, steal cattle when you are big," and this is how people's desires become bigger and bigger after being satisfied again and again.

Regardless of whether you will have great achievements in this life or whether you will be rich and rich, I only hope that your life will be safe, happy and healthy, and not ruined by mistakes.

Also, you grow up slowly, and your mother also hopes that you will slowly change your habit of being self-centered and not considering the feelings of others, in fact, everything is not taken for granted, your mother is good to you, that is, I love you and I am reluctant to you, but this is not a matter of course, my mother's heart will also be hurt, and it will be sad!