Last night I went to hold a parent-teacher conference for Doudou, the results were beyond my expectations, at the beginning of this semester, I barely looked at her homework and urged her to study, aiming to cultivate her independent ability and be able to remember it for a long time after planting her heels, and then analyze and improve, summarize lessons and lessons, and slowly mature her mind and grow up slowly. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

Looking at her usual casual study, I seem to be sure that her section exam will definitely smash the pot this time. No, she actually jumped from 104 in the whole grade to 63 all at once, and advanced 41 places. Comparing the results of the last term exam and this stage exam, it was found that her score was basically at the same level, what does the progress of that rank mean? It shows that some children are regressing as the difficulty of the course increases and deepens.

The score of this section test: Chinese 94 (language base 49, composition 45) The score of language base is low, because I am lazy! I don't remember the usual exercises. The score of the essay is excellent every time, and there is no mistake at all.

Math 109, hehe, this Ma Daha is still the same, actually read a 6-point problem wrong, the Cartesian coordinate system is plotted with the X axis as the axis of symmetry, she actually made a beautiful picture with the Y axis, the teacher drew a circle with a red pen at the question, and wrote: See the problem clearly! In exchange for a young mathematics teacher, extremely responsible and serious, teaching is also willing to work hard and use his brain, the assignment and the problem are all typical topics after his own screening. A lot of progress has been made in cultivating children's mathematical and logical thinking.

English 105, the teacher said that the English question was difficult this time, and shortened the two-hour test time to one and a half hours. Many children don't have time to go back and check, and Doudou children actually wrote the answers to two questions on the test paper instead of writing the answer sheet, but 105 is already a good score.

Physics 89, the beginning of the science course, understanding and interest are very important, and the results of Chinese and mathematics directly affect the learning of physics, a lot of knowledge comprehension and calculation is directly used with Chinese and mathematical knowledge, with Doudou's Chinese and mathematical foundation and her comprehension to learn physics should not be a problem.

Politics 97, history 86. When she came back and said that she was 87 in politics and 86 in history, it turned out to be 97 in politics, and the effective score in politics and history was 92.6.

The grades in all subjects are A, and the overall score is also A, there is no A+, and there is not a single B+, and the subject is not very good, nor is it very bad, not biased, which is the advantage of her overall score ranking high. I have long instilled a philosophy: both legs have the strength to stride in order to walk well, if one leg is strong and the other leg is weak, then it will limp and is destined not to go far. The courses taken should be treated equally and should not be biased, otherwise the overall score will be dragged down by the weak subjects. Therefore, she ranked seventh in her class, 63rd in grade, and if she continues to advance to the top 50 in her grade, then she is sure that she will be in the second and third grades. Although I hope that she can go to a key high school, which should be better for the university entrance examination, I think it is better to go with the flow, without force, without coercion, without force, if her ability can be achieved, then go to school, if not, let it be.

For a child's growth, I always think that giving her a relaxed, happy, positive environment is the most important, we should pay attention to grades, but we can't focus on grades, and we can't stuff the child's childhood with passive learning.

So no matter how the teacher said that Doudou spent too much energy to participate in school activities, delayed learning and complained, I never responded, I think it is necessary to participate in some meaningful activities, to broaden the child's horizons, and exercise some interpersonal skills, adaptability and innovation ability. Doudou now participates in the Chinese Orchestra, which trains twice a week after school and participates in the Nanning City Competition this month, the choir, according to Doudou, who felt that he did not have enough time, so he quit with his teacher, and the campus radio station, which seems to be twice a week. I think the manuscript I wrote and broadcast by myself is quite good, which not only exercises his eloquence and courage, but also improves his writing ability, so why not do it? On Saturday morning, when the students were rushing to various tuition locations to tutor the course, the Doudou child slept lazily and went to learn sketching with his painting folder on his back. The rest of the weekend time is half to play and half to study.

During the summer vacation, the head teacher asked each student to make a work from waste, and only Doudou completed it alone at the beginning of the school year, Doudou participated in three cram schools in the summer vacation under my arrangement, I was worried about the long two-month summer vacation, this restless child would make up some flowers, so she spent her time on make-up classes, for Doudou, who had never made up classes, was not interested in make-up classes but did not hate them, so I said that I spent some money and felt distressed liver pain under the painful expression of the interpretation of it was done seriously.

In this way, I was busy, while making up classes and completing my summer vacation homework, Doudou made an ancient samurai armor with waste newspapers, prepared materials, preliminary work, weaving, coloring, molding, every day I came home from work, the living room was as messy as the battlefield, and I was very irritable in my heart, but I restrained myself and cleaned the battlefield with my children. On the eve of the start of school, a beautifully decorated and sturdy armor was formed, and it was accompanied by a "bronze" long sword. Doudou himself is dressed in armor and holds a sword with a beautiful abstract painting scabbard, like a warrior who has just prepared to go to the battlefield!

Doudou used her grades to justify my sheep-herding education. Doudou's unique personality is also cultivated by me, she never follows the crowd, has her own ideas and opinions on everything, this optimistic, sunny, restless child in the gap between the high pressure of learning, in the mother "laissez-faire" and her own "careless" situation, slowly grew up.

It's just that this kid has no scheming and doesn't know how to be cautious in his words and deeds, so I have to remind and guide.