Contrary to my cleanliness and neatness, Doudou's sloppiness is innate. Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info My words and deeds since I was a child have no effect, and when I was a child, I was obedient and would throw garbage into the trash can. Sometimes when you go out to play, you will never litter the garbage in your hand, and you will definitely find a trash can to throw it away. Nowadays, whatever garbage is at home, it will be thrown wherever it goes, and it will not be littered outside.

Count the sloppiness of Doudou:

1. Clothes: I clean the clothes in the wardrobe and help her sort them neatly and put them in her wardrobe. When Doudou wants to pick up clothes, she will not pick up the clothes neatly, which one to wear, she will throw all the clothes out, rummage through the clothes she needs, and then stuff the other clothes into the closet, close the cabinet door and it's over.

After several criticisms and accusations, it didn't work, so I ordered her to sort out the clothes in the closet within 10 minutes. The Doudou child smiled and took out a pile of clothes, and in less than 5 minutes, they had all been sorted and folded neatly.

This kid is just lazy!

2. Books: I have prepared a special bookcase for Doudou's books, asking her textbooks, teaching aids, homework books, exercise books... Sort them one by one. I showed her all the things, and it was fine at first, but the more it went on, the worse it became. As long as she passes by in the house, there will be a book, a painting, a pen, a notebook...

I had no choice but to get a big box for her to hold her books, I couldn't see it out of sight and didn't bother it, anyway, I saw the books she threw into the box. I'd tell her to clean the box after a while, but it was often the case that the balabala would pull it down. So much so that often you can't find the textbook or you can't find the workbook.

Every day when I go home to do my homework, I am a pile of books, paper, pen and ink piled up in a mess. I often put the homework I did at night in the middle of a pile of books that I didn't use the next day and forgot to bring it to hand in. I don't know how many times I have been criticized by the teacher for this? But I have never eaten a trench and grown wise, and I am still sloppy.

3. Personal hygiene: Doudou originally had a large head, a large area of hair growth, and her hair was fine, so when I was a child, I often gave her short hair so that it could be cleaned and taken care of. As they grew older, the children began to love beauty, and their hair grew on the grounds of the band's request. But shampooing is still the same foolishness, just rub the shampoo on it, and sometimes the foam of the shampoo is not washed off. My hair often smelled of sweat, so I had to wash it every few days. Sometimes it's very annoying: Doudou is already half a head taller than me, and every time I wash my hair, my face is splashed with water, and it is very difficult to wash. I kept urging and teaching me how to wash my hair, sometimes I didn't wash it after washing, and asked her to wash it again, her hands were bigger than my hands, and she still couldn't wash her hair!

The bath is also so-so, and sometimes the bath liquid is still hanging on the body and it is said to be clean. Sometimes I don't even use bath gel, saying that I don't sweat.

I cleaned her mouth from the beginning of her baby teeth, and helped her brush her teeth until she was three years old and went to kindergarten, and then taught her how to brush her teeth, and began to try to brush her teeth by herself. As long as I don't look at it, the child will clean the toothpaste on the toothbrush under the faucet, rinse his mouth with water and tell me: it's done. After a while, I found that Doudou's teeth began to appear caries, and I was very surprised! How could it be? I didn't limit her sweet intake, but I did it in time to brush her teeth and rinse her mouth, how could there be tooth decay? I found that the little guy used toothpaste to clean the toothbrush every day, instead of brushing his teeth!

Bring it to fill the teeth, and make up for the discomfort of the time, Doudou will regret it at that time: I must listen to my mother's words in the future and brush my teeth well. But after three days, the old problem was committed again, and Doudou is a person who likes cake and milk very much, so a kindergarten and an elementary school are constantly filling teeth.

When I was six years old, I had sixth-year-old teeth, and sixth-year-old teeth would not be replaced. So I started to get nervous, and I often helped Doudou brush his teeth at night for more than half a year. When it came time to change her teeth, I reduced her intake of sweets, brushing her teeth and rinsing her mouth in a timely manner to increase supervision. I don't want this little guy to go to my dad to get off work every day after school, there is a cake stall in the hospital compound that appears regularly, at the begging of the child, my dad buys a piece of cake and a carton of milk for the child every day, when I come home from work, the little thing has wiped out the milk and cake without a trace, but I didn't clean my mouth in time. By the time Doudou said that his tooth hurt, the sixth-year-old tooth had already decayed and invaded the pulp. What's the use of complaining about the big lessons, but the small ones? Broken teeth can't come back. I have been repairing it in this hospital, and her father's face, or the director does it himself, and the technology is really not flattering.

Last year, I found a dentist friend to completely repair all of Doudou's teeth. But if you don't have good teeth, it will not only affect your appearance, but also have a lot of inconveniences in your life, and you have to visit the dentist from time to time. Her father and I both had very straight and white teeth, and I didn't want the two doctors to fail to protect the child's teeth.

Now at home, wherever Doudou goes, there will always be some garbage piled up: wrapping paper, fruit peels, waste paper, pencil shavings, toothpicks, and all kinds of things that she thinks can be played with will appear in the places where she has appeared. From time to time, I reminded and commanded, but the effect was not at all.

Maybe it's also because I've always taken care of everything, everything has been done, the children have become accustomed to reaching out for food and opening their mouths, and their ability to take care of themselves is far from enough. I thought that the child's carefree childhood was so short, I could give her as much as possible, and not give her a little grievance and frustration, I always thought that I should grow up, I should be sensible and capable, I was also loved and raised in this way, I don't want this child's sloppiness but it makes me very upset!

It's like her grandmother without rules, but my words and deeds can't match her idea inheritance!

Maybe I should reflect and change my educational philosophy and approach.