167. Mother's fault
Historical fragment: I am grateful for the time in which I lived, when students were liberated like never before, and did not have to learn useless knowledge that was destined to be forgotten later. I sympathize with www.biquge.info current students, who have nothing to do even if they realize that they are wasting their youth. To this day, I insist that the reason why young people are forced to study and have a bright future is simply to prevent them from making trouble in the streets. - Wang Shuo
The basics should be learned, but nowadays, the starting point and meaning of learning are completely distorted, and children are working so hard!
Yesterday I read an article about today's education, saying that most of the current situation of education is the fault of mothers, I am very touched, and I agree, if parents can raise their children for the purpose of healthy growth and happy growth, then the pressure of school education will be eased. At least I can reduce the pressure on the children, I have always turned a blind eye to the child's grades, just to ask her to have a serious attitude to do things, so my child has become a restless "wolf" in a group of sheep, and the teacher's so-called wisdom is not used in learning disgust is also the pressure that the child has to face. Fortunately, my requirements are not so high, and the child's childhood is still relaxed and happy. When they grow up, children who no longer have a childhood will definitely have a good heart for a happy and relaxed childhood.
Count the things children have done: handicrafts: doing different things all the time, drawing: having fun since kindergarten, singing, school choir, Every year, I go to participate in every singing competition, although I don't win awards, but I also actively participate; Musical instruments: the band of the primary school, the saxophone has been playing for three or four years, and I often say that my lung capacity is the biggest benefit of the girls in the class to play the saxophone, and it also makes sense, after going to junior high school, I went to the band to play the dulcimer; then the school radio station has been participating since elementary school, and now the junior high school radio has to write and broadcast by herself, and I have fun in it; I recently set up a literary club through the application with the school Youth League Committee, and I am the president, and I saw that she is designing and organizing meetings for the membersI also write all kinds of short articles and novels on the Internet, and my typing speed is faster than mine.
Every time there is a parent-teacher conference, the teacher will regretfully repeat a sentence: this child is so smart, but there are too many social activities, which affect learning, and he does not study very hard, so his grades cannot be among the best, and if he works hard, he must be the top three children. I all agreed to nod vigorously, but I didn't interfere with my child's activities until he was in the top 10 of his class. Some surveys have found that the children who have made a difference and achieved are not particularly good grades, but the middle and upper middle children have their own ideas and strong hands-on ability. Besides, I don't think it's cost-effective to exchange a child's happy childhood for a lonely good grade