190. The "weaning period" of parents

I haven't recorded the growth of children for a long time, it's not that there are no meaningful things happening, but I just look at the children's self-assertions, and I feel a little unhappy, so I don't want to put pen to paper. This may be the natural reaction of every parent when faced with www.biquge.info a child who is growing up more and more independent and out of the control of his parents.

With me, the child is always introspective and self-disciplined, but he is not yet able to adapt to such a situation.

In the face of your infinite affection and love to nurture the children, they have always been obedient to you, so dependent on you, you have become accustomed to the attachment of children, once one day they have self-awareness and self-thought, no longer obey their parents, parents will feel boundless loss. This loss leads to a loss of a sense of worth for parents, and they feel that they cannot make ends meet, which is somewhat frustrating.

Parents also need to adapt to the reality of their children's growing up and stepping out of their sight and psychological realm. Slowly return to yourself and walk into the lonely and lonely old days.

The bean child still looks unhurried and unhurried, and it seems that the second and third key high schools are still a little hanging. I try to accompany her in life and time, hoping to supervise and accompany her growth.

Xiao Penyou has always had a soft spot for comic conventions, and he didn't go to participate in them again and again, and he had spare money and usual meal money to buy two sets of cosplay equipment. I also turn a blind eye, I don't know how to support, and I don't fight, there is no entertainment for the children in the city, and finally there is no harm to the body and mind, just a matter of burning some money, go and play, after all, after the youth, there is no time, and there is no time and mood to toss blindly.

Children grow up relaxed, as long as they are not decadent, do not learn badly, do not take crooked paths, live every day in a down-to-earth manner, and live happily.