After entering junior high school, teachers will hold meetings with parents in batches according to their grades each semester to teach their children according to their grades and futures. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

Every time the bean kids are a good batch of students, but there is still a slight decline, first the top ten, and then the top fifteen.

On Friday, we went to a parent-teacher conference for the top 20 students. is about to face the high school entrance examination, the teachers are very nervous and anxious, looking at this group of children who don't know the height of the sky, the teachers are also at a loss. I had to call the parents to discuss a feasible way to let these children who are not yet in the state devote themselves to learning.

The state of the bean child has always been relaxed, every teacher feels that with the strength of the child and hard work, the city's key high school is definitely not a problem, but has not been able to mobilize the child's enthusiasm, she has always been absent-minded, has always been careless.

I struggled with the math teacher's praise for a long time, and after discussing it with the class teacher, I decided not to praise it, because this child opened a dye shop when he gave some color, and he was proud of the child when he gave praise, so he decided not to praise him at that time.

And the physics teacher said directly: This child has a bad learning attitude and does not complete his homework well.

The grades seem to be good, and there is no problem when I go to a model high school, but if I want to go to the key point, it is still worse.

In order for the child to study wholeheartedly, I was "coerced and enticed", and even agreed to accompany her to the comic convention to carry her bag. promised her that as long as she was admitted to a key high school, I was willing to drive her to the comic con to play, entourage and logistics.

It's just that this "heartless" child studied hard for a few days on a whim, and whether he could persist until the high school entrance examination, I really dare not say.

After the start of this semester, I got up every morning to help her make breakfast, lunch and dinner at school, I drove to the school gate in the morning, drove home at the end of self-study in the evening, and then made supper in the evening and waited for her to eat when she came home, plus peeled fruit and milk to ensure a balanced and sufficient nutritional ratio for the day.

Every day after school, I get homework around 12:00, and in the morning I am reluctant to wake up my child a minute earlier, and I don't call my child to get up until 6:50 when I can't bear it. You can sleep for an hour in the dormitory at noon.

Today's children work hard, have no time for entertainment and play, and learn every day. Until the child is already tired of learning and is no longer active and excited. Anyway, if you have to keep learning, you will slowly take off and grind.

Sometimes, it is quite distressing to watch children learn without fun. Far from the joy and ease we had when we were children.

Fortunately, the bean child is still a child of Madaha, the psychological pressure is not very great, and he does not seek to be outstanding, which is better.

I had a parent-teacher conference, and I chatted with the mother of the bean child at the same table for a while, and learned that the classmates were strong and stressed. If you don't do well in the exam, you will cry, you will be angry with everyone in your family, and you will think about dropping out of school. The learning momentum of the same table is much stronger than that of the bean children, and every time the parents go to the evening self-study, I find that the bean children study hard and focus on the same table. But the learning ability is still average, and the grades are a big difference with the bean child, so the child will naturally be unwilling and disappointed if he does not have ideal results for his efforts.

The classmate's mother said that the child was basically unable to communicate, yelling at his parents, and there was no humility and intimacy to his 6-year-old brother. Shoes cost 600 yuan, and the pocket money is less than 100 yuan, don't say anything.

Comparatively speaking, the bean child is still a simple child, and he is happy to give 10 yuan of pocket money, and he is already very satisfied with charging the phone bill and sending a miscellaneous smart phone. If you don't take your phone to school, you won't take it, and the clothes you buy back are the same, regardless of the brand you like. Although I have never been short of pocket money, there is one principle that I have always followed: I always put my child's wishes to be satisfied, and I did not let the child feel that it was easy to get money and things from her parents, nor did I give her the feeling of taking it for granted.

I have always been very moved by a story: A child in the United States asked his father, "Dad, is our family rich?" Dad replied: Yes, but it is Dad's money, not your money, and if you want to be rich, you have to rely on your own ability to earn it. The Chinese children asked their fathers, "Dad, do we have any money?" and my father replied, "Yes!" Father's money is your money, and Father's money is enough for you to spend a lifetime.

As a result, education has had different results.

And for the growth of children, I also try my best, I want to bear all the needs of children's growth alone, whether economic or spiritual and psychological needs, I have to give appropriate education and guidance.

Now it seems that the initial results have been achieved, Dou Child is not a heavy child, nor is she an irresponsible child, she grows up easily and healthily, and has her own opinions, ideas and practices in everything. Don't go with the flow, have your own self.

Accompany the child to come over the period before the high school entrance examination, as long as she studies hard and takes it seriously, the results are not very important, and the results will not be bad - I will be quite confident in her learning ability and psychological quality.