Yesterday, I fulfilled one of Doudou's wishes: to go on a picnic. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

The day before yesterday, I bought some picnic supplies from Liclong, Doudou was very happy, and I also had fun with Doudou.

I left at 9:30 in the morning and went home at 12:30 noon. It doesn't take a lot of time and effort, and such activities can be carried out frequently.

You can also go out and absorb a little fresh air to nourish your eyes. Doudou should also do more outdoor exercise.

After going home, Doudou did his own thing, and made a mess as usual, I didn't blame her as usual, but took a wait-and-see attitude, Doudou had a lot of fun, although, Doudou made a mess of the room I had just tidied up, and I wanted to try what my mood and attitude would be like about this matter.

The result is that Doudou is happy to play uninhibited, I do my own thing, and we are both very happy!

In fact, Dad is right: don't criticize a child if she doesn't make a mistake of principle, and don't demand children with adult standards.

Give her a relaxed environment and let her grow up freely, and she will grow into a healthy individual -- I believe! In the future, I will pay attention to maintaining a tolerant heart and a tolerant attitude towards my already excellent daughter. 2006/10/23

On the 29th, he took Doudou to the food festival, and when he went out, Doudou sighed: "Alas, such a white skirt with a pair of gray shoes." "That look was really hilarious.

Yesterday I hurt my knee again and sat pitifully on the steps, looking at me coming, with a look of grievance, pointing to my knee.

At night, I said that I couldn't stretch my legs because of the pain, and I walked with a limp, so I cleaned it up and took medicine.

In the morning, I still limped downstairs, and I said that it didn't matter if I straightened up and went downstairs, and it would be fine in a while, and it was true! 2006/11/1

Yesterday, because Doudou once again took money to buy things indiscriminately, and gave all the money in his hand to the commissary without asking the price. Scammed out of all the money by the commissary.

I was very angry, last time there had been an incident of secretly taking money to school, I told her seriously, yesterday I went to pick up, when I was not careful, they went to the commissary, I went to look, the man hurriedly got the money back.

Doudou couldn't tell how much it was.

When I got home, I punched Doudou's ass.

Doudou cried and said that he would never do such a thing again.

Looking at the child's frightened look, I also felt very uncomfortable. I blame myself very much, and my child's mistakes are the result of my inadequate education.

There is a saying: Parents who beat and scold their children are the most unproductive parents.

I always feel that there is nothing to do, and in the face of the child I have poured all my heart and soul into, I hope that she can grow up happily and freely, however, I am always influenced by the surrounding environment, and I am also strict with my child, sometimes it may be harsh.

I just want her to finish her homework and play freely, which is pretty much possible now.

Teacher Xie said that the child's poor performance is due to the fact that the parents are too demanding.

When I think about it, while I keep saying that I want my children to grow up happily, healthily and freely, I have a lot of strict requirements and restrictions.

In the future, I should let go, as long as it is not a big mistake that the sky has fallen, I can't blame Doudou, it should be a reminder, I have to come up with a practical education method, Doudou's nature and intelligence level are good, but I can't be ruined because of my demands.

This morning, I asked Doudou what he thought when he was beaten yesterday, and Doudou said: I will never do that again.

I asked why, and Doudou said she didn't want to make her mother angry.

I asked if you thought your mother was a bad guy when your mother beat you, and Doudou said yes.

I feel guilty!

I want to correct this kind of parent-oriented thinking, and I want to educate Doudou in a peaceful way, if I can't do this, I will be a failed mother, that is, incompetent! From today onwards, I have to practice it!2006/11/7

Last night, Doudou had dinner at Qingqing's house and did his homework, I went to pick it up at 8:00 and watched the TV series "How Deep Is Love" together.

It's already 9:00 after reading it. I hurriedly took Doudou home, Qingqing's mother said that Qingqing gave Doudou a kind of origami floret, Qingqing was reluctant and was discussing.

I could see that Doudou wanted it very much, but seeing that Qingqing was unwilling, I urged Doudou to hurry up. Later, Qingqing was about to cry under the pressure of her mother, so I took Doudou and left, and Doudou was very angry and sad.

A person in front ran away, and I chased after me, and Doudou shouted as he walked: "If you don't give it, you don't want it." Qingqing cried and shouted in the back: "Doudou, Doudou." "I gave Doudou the little things out, and I comforted Qingqing.

finally hugged Doudou to the bicycle, and Doudou cried sadly.

When Doudou's mood calmed down a little, I told her: "When others give us, they want it if they are willing to give it to us, and if they don't want to give it to us, they don't want it; a few days ago, didn't you also buy that kind of paper? Qingqing also wanted it, and my mother didn't force you to give it to her, but then you were naturally willing to give it to Qingqing when you were too fresh." Qingqing has just bought something she likes, and it is normal for her to be reluctant to give it to others, and you should understand her feelings. Qingqing's mother should not have forced Qingqing. ”

Doudou said: "Qingqing has to ask for it, I can't help it, so I gave it to her." ”

I immediately praised Doudou: Doudou did a good job and didn't ask for it. Being able to share what you like with your good friends should be praised for being so generous.

Later, Doudou figured it out, and I asked her to call to thank Qingqing, and Doudou immediately called and said, "Thank you, Qingqing, for giving me a little piece of paper." In fact, your mother shouldn't force you, if you don't want to give it, you won't give it. ”

It seems that Doudou understands what I said.

Doudou is like this, the reason makes sense, it is easy to accept, and it will not be messed around.

It's just that sometimes, when I'm not in a good mood, I will lack this patience to reason, and I will force some more, and a few days ago Doudou's father came back and said that my solemn spirit is too heavy and needs to be improved.

I actually know very well myself, but also very distressed in private, I have to face the good and bad of a person with a child, and I am a very strong person in my bones, I can't tolerate others to say a little bad, when Doudou has a little problem, I often can't help but lose patience. The impatience of the performance, Doudou was also affected by me.

Yesterday, the Chinese test paper was issued, and Doudou scored 96 points. I was more annoyed, I said that 96 points is already a lot, and my mother is satisfied.

Doudou said that there are still 61 points. I told her that she should look to 100 points and not compare herself with people who are not as good as herself, because it is easy to fall behind.

Doudou said that he wanted to take the section test, the Chinese test has already been taken, the mathematics test will be taken tomorrow, it seems to be a little nervous, I said it doesn't matter, you just need to take the test seriously, the score mother does not require you to have 100 points, besides, with your strength, you will definitely do well.

Doudou became very relaxed, it turned out that Doudou cared so much about his mother's opinion.

In the future, my words and deeds will be through thinking, and give Doudou a good environment for psychological growth.

In the morning, I texted Doudou's father about this, and Doudou's father replied: We all rely on you very much! No matter how good or assertive the child is, she is a child, some character issues should be principled, and the rest should be relaxed, I wish you a happy day. I understand Doudou's father's thoughts, and I believe that I will do a good job!2006/11/9