30. Victory in the first battle

Doudou's father returned to Beijing, and Doudou and I began a difficult journey again. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info

Last night, Doudou and Qingqing came back, I cut watermelon for them to eat after they had eaten and finished their homework, Qingqing had already started to eat, Doudou asked me, "Mom, don't you eat?" I said I'll eat later.

Doudou turned back to Qingqing and said, "Don't finish eating, leave some for my mother." "Before I knew it, Doudou had begun to care about people.

Dad brought a mechanical pencil with him when he left, and Doudou reminded his father: There must be an eraser for writing with a pencil, and he also took an eraser for Dad to bring. Dad said, "Doudou is already as attentive and considerate as you." ”

Last time I read an article that said: Children grow up when they should grow up. I'm starting to feel it for myself.

As long as Doudou doesn't make mistakes of principle, I shouldn't criticize her. I want to restrain my impatient personality and use the greatest patience to be tolerant and tolerant of everything in Doudou. to try to correct the problem of Doudou's dragging.

Doudou has been calling mother since a month ago, and no longer calls mother, perhaps this is also a manifestation of growing up: no longer calling mother like a child. I asked why, and Doudou always smiled and didn't explain.

The day before yesterday, Doudou successfully spent the night at Qingqing's house for the first time, and left his mother for the first time without any problems.

It's also the first time since Doudou was born that I left Doudou and Doudou's father to sleep alone, and I feel as if I've never felt more relaxed psychologically, as if all the time and space belong to me!2006/10/12

Yesterday after lunch, Doudou and Qingqing went to play. Dinner at Qingqing's house in the evening. At 8:00 I went to pick up Doudou and go home, a few children were playing in the yard, and it was already dark.

When I got home, I found that Doudou was dirty like a mud monkey. Doudou was the dirtiest ever, even his face was black, his hands, feet, arms and legs were as black as carbon, and he was black in a pair of white shorts! Oh my God!

I hurriedly bathed her from head to toe and washed her vigorously with soap: the foam was black!

However, Doudou may have fun playing more happily, last night was very well-behaved, the things I instructed were completed one by one, there was no procrastination as in the past, in fact, the joy of childhood is also such a carefree regardless of the three-seven-twenty-one play, shouting loudly, running fast, falling down and getting up and running again, bumping and bruising and purple, not taking it seriously at all, that kind of fun is the most precious and shortest in a person's life.

I've never blamed Doudou for being playful and dirty, and only by letting go of her body and mind and playing to your heart's content will you get endless happiness!

I also follow the principle of comfort and convenience when buying clothes for Doudou, so that I can have fun to the fullest!

I hope to give Doudou a relaxed environment where she can play and have fun. In the face of reality, I try not to follow the crowd, and I will never add to the burden on Doudou while she completes her homework. But you have to complete your own homework: because that's a responsibility you have to do as a student!

This is the principle - people should bear different responsibilities at different stages!10/16/2006

I have already taken two unit tests, and Doudou has scored 100 points on both occasions. The teacher sent two "Good News", and Doudou was very happy.

I asked how many children had scored 100 points, and Doudou said, "The previous time 14 failed, this time 16 failed, both times there were 100 points 6, I was 1 of these 6." "Words are full of pride!

Qingqing said: "Doudou was also called by the teacher to stand at the back of the classroom. "I asked what was going on, and Doudou said it was because he turned back during the exam.

I just remembered that a few days ago, Doudou gave me a "preventive shot": "Mom, we took the test again, and I did it well, but there was a little mistake in the middle." "I asked what went wrong, but Doudou didn't answer, so I didn't ask again.

It's just that Doudou said to himself again: "I don't know if it will affect the score of 100 points?" I thought that Doudou must have made another mistake, and I didn't ask her again.

Yesterday, when the test papers were handed out, Doudou may be relieved - and said: "It turns out that if something goes wrong, it won't affect the score, I got 100 points anyway." ”

Before going to bed at night, I asked Doudou why he was called to the back of the classroom. Doudou said that it was because he turned back, and then said, "Anyway, I didn't affect the exam." I asked how long I had been standing, and Doudou said, "It's just that I finished the latter questions first, and then I finished the previous ones, and I got another 100 points." ”

I said that in the future, I should pay attention to classroom discipline, and the responsibility of students is to abide by discipline and complete homework. Doudou expressed displeasure. Maybe Doudou has already adjusted himself to correct himself, so I didn't nag anymore. 2006/10/17