Comrade Jia Yuhao:

Recently, when I come home from work every night, I feel the cold in my back, although it is a hot weather, but every time I feel a chill to the bone, I know that it is you who are back.

You still can't let us go, watching the child take the college entrance examination and come back, right?

I have never been strict with my children, and when my child was in elementary school and junior high school, I just lost you, I hope that my child can grow up safely, and whether I can make a difference, or make a difference is not within my consideration.

So the child wants to choose a school to take the key junior high school, the key junior high school is to live in the school, I didn't agree but called her to the lot, I just want to keep the child by my side and see her every day. Let her be in my sight, and I will feel at ease. This may also be the reason why her grades have been declining all the way later, after all, the learning atmosphere is different and there is a gap in teachers.

Over the years, there has been no strict discipline of the child, although now it seems that the child is a little lazy and a little loose, but easy and healthy growth is your parenting philosophy. Remember what you said: we don't know what the world will be like when our children grow up, and we can't predict it, so the most important thing is to grow up healthy and happy.

Therefore, I have always been not very strict with her, reluctant to let her suffer too much, and now I regret my poor grades, such a smart child failed to get into a good university, am I wrong?

But when I think about it, life is only a few decades, at least my child is enjoying that stage of life at every stage of her life, not being deprived of the joy of childhood by heavy schoolwork, nor being bent over by a heavy school bag. She is still the child who is sunny, happy, frank, open-minded, daring, and will not have stage fright.

In such an atmosphere, the little pot friend is actually very nervous, you know? Have you ever been to see him?

We went to see you on Qingming Festival, and the child said that he wanted to see you on your death day, and I agreed. She may also hope that her father can know and help her at a critical moment in her life, and give her some strength.

I know that you have always been afraid to mention the pain in our hearts, so painful that we dare not look at the cold stone monument that buried you, but how can we not think of you for a minute?!

It has been eight years since you left us suddenly two days before Yuyu's college entrance examination, but only we understand and bear the thoughts and pains of these eight years, who can replace whom? We each miss you! But I can know that the child suffers the same as me.

The child has finally grown up, tall, fair-skinned, and generous in his life and work, do you feel relieved to see such a child? I have always felt that such a child's life must not be bad. You tell me?

Fortunately, the child has agreed to go to military school, and my heart can be relieved.

These days, I have been busy going through various procedures, if you have a spirit, you can promote it, and let the child's life path go more or less smooth.

The college entrance examination will be in about ten days, and I hope the child can have a good score. Can you help us?

That's all there is to it.

XW

2018.5.25