My daughter is on her third day of kindergarten. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 info For the first two days, I was not used to the situation where my daughter was not running around, and my heart was empty, and I was even at a loss.

Today is much better, and I can calm down and study.

Doudou's performance is really good, he is very active to go to kindergarten, adapt to the new environment, and his personality has become more lively. Self-reliance and self-care skills have also improved.

In the morning, I went grocery shopping, and the teacher took them out to play, and they actually said goodbye to me very calmly. Then he followed her team intently.

My daughter is very good, very sensible, and quickly adapts to the new environment, never going against the current.

She will actively adapt to any environment she encounters and actively strive for the initiative.

I went to the park very autonomously, there were no emotional fluctuations, and there was no crying. Carrying a small schoolbag and trotting all the way, happily going to the garden.

I am very grateful, satisfied, and happy to have such a beautiful, intelligent, and sensible daughter to live her own childhood life, and fly into the blue sky with joy like a happy bird!2003.2.26

After half a month in kindergarten, Doudou suddenly said that he didn't want to go to kindergarten, I asked why, Doudou said: "The child snatched my toys, and I didn't have them." I told her, "Then you can get it back, that's how children play with each other, don't be afraid." It's to play with the kids and grab it together. ”

The child needs to exercise in group life, and after my coaxing, scaring and reasoning, Doudou finally agreed to go to the kindergarten.

Sleeping at night, Doudou said in his sleep: "I didn't! I didn't! It's not good, it's not good!" However, I believe that my daughter will adapt and learn some skills that she should have, such as competition, cooperation, how to get along with others, how to protect herself, and how to be kind to others.

Parents just hope that their children can be smooth sailing, without any setbacks even the slightest. However, after all, parents can only accompany their children for one journey, and their children's lives have to go through a long and bumpy life.

It is necessary to let children learn more life skills from primary school, face small setbacks and small blows, and exercise children's personality and stress tolerance, as well as coping skills.

Slowly, as children grow older, their personalities develop and improve, and they will grow up healthily and happily under our healthy guidance and careful care.

To tell the truth, I still feel very distressed for my daughter to be wronged a little, but I must not let her suffer any grievances - this is not conducive to her growth.

The most interesting thing is that after Doudou went to kindergarten for a few days, she shouted in the middle of the night, "Daddy, Daddy, give me a chicken leg!"

The next day, I went out of my way to buy chicken thighs for her to eat. 2003.3.4

My daughter is used to going to the garden and offers to go to the garden on Sundays.

Before I came back from school and went to bed, I would always talk to me for an hour and tell me everything that happened in kindergarten.

What the teacher said, which child cried, who did what, who hit whom.

Doudou repeatedly said that a child named Qingqing got food on her and beat her, today I told the teacher about it, I hope the teacher will give some attention, the fight between children will not cause any big harm, but I am worried that my daughter will be hurt psychologically.

In fact, she should be taught how to protect herself and how to defend herself. This is also inevitable in collective life, with my daughter's intelligence, I believe she will solve it by herself, and she will also adjust her emotions.

My daughter was always talking and laughing when she went to bed, and I was worried that she would get up late the next day, so I tried to tell her to go to bed early, but all else failed, and I had to move out of the big bad wolf. Whenever he said that the big bad wolf was coming to patrol at night, Doudou would say quietly: "Mom, I'm obedient, I'll sleep." "I fell asleep after a while. When I got up in the morning, I still remember to ask: "Mom, I'm obedient, and the big bad wolf will leave when I fall asleep, right?" I praised her: "Doudou is good, so mom and the big bad wolf like Doudou, and the big bad wolf will go to find those disobedient children and not come to you." ”

Sometimes, they will coax Doudou: "Doudou is good, squint and go to sleep, the little angels and elves are coming to see you, they will fly to see you with magic wands and crystal slippers." If you sleep so well, they will give you gifts to praise you!"

Doudou will obediently be fascinated by her eyes, and after a while she will fall asleep, I will put some small gifts next to her pillow, and the next day Doudou will be pleasantly surprised to find that the elf has come to give gifts to the good child!2003.3.17

My daughter's admission to the garden has been very smooth, she is so reasonable, as long as the reason makes sense, she will listen. She also knew that she was old enough to go to the kindergarten.

Moreover, in terms of her daughter's simplicity and innocence, kindergarten life brings her happiness and joy as well as the satisfaction of intellectual curiosity.

The daughter's mental health is by no means the domineering of an only child, and she is mostly tolerant and reasonable. But in her heart, it seems to be a mirror. She will come back and tell me everything. I analyzed and explained it, taught her the common sense of group life and how to protect herself and adapt to the new environment, and my daughter listened attentively and memorized it attentively. 2003.3.24

I went to pick up my daughter from school and went home, and I saw the scene of my daughter "fighting the crowd" outside the kindergarten gate!

First she competed with the child for the position, and then the daughter wanted to sit down, and the chair was pushed down by the child, and the daughter sat on the ground, and the daughter stood up to see that the child who pushed the chair didn't say anything, and put the chair and prepared to sit on it again, but the chair was pushed down by the child again! The daughter sat on the ground again, and this time Doudou was angry! Before she stood up, she started to beat the child who pushed the chair. The children cried, and several children next to them also participated in the "battle", a scuffle!

The teacher came to ask who started beating people first, and the child next to him actually said that it was another child, and the daughter immediately began to cry, and in less than a minute, the daughter turned rainy and sunny, and began to play with herself.

It seems that her daughter often comes back and says that whoever beats her is actually a beating, and her daughter also knows how to defend herself, know how to fight, and defend her rights.

The kindergarten teacher asked the children to bring a small house of their own, so I made a larger house with Doudou, and my daughter said that she wanted to live in it, but the house was too small, and finally thought for a long time: the problem was finally solved - to live for the birds! I also put some small toy animals in it, and said to myself: "The little animals have come to visit the new house of the birds!" April 16, 2003