I found that after my dad came back, Doudou became squeamish. Pen ~ fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info usually never care about a little inadvertent little injury, but will be very exaggerated and shouting.

Then there is the fact that it is not good to eat by yourself. From time to time, when my wish cannot be fulfilled, I sit on the ground and play tricks. It is said that I have never learned these things from anyone, because the atmosphere of the family is strong, and the daughter's careful eyes are no longer loaded, and the "nature" of the child begins to be revealed? Or is it because of the "connivance" of the father? However, these "actions" of Doudou are all "small", and if we do not pay attention to them, she will naturally stop fighting.

Since the age of two and ten months, Doudou has clearly distinguished the concept of "you, me, and him", and his self-consciousness has become strong, and he is no longer "Doudou Dad" but "My Dad".

Another month passed, and Doudou was able to state the story of an event. I went out to pull weeds for the guinea pig and came back and Doudou told me, "Mom is out, I asked Dad what you were doing, and Dad said, 'I don't know.'" Another time I was going to take her out to play, but my father came back and forgot his promise to her after saying something, and my daughter muttered to herself, "You just said you would take me to play, why didn't you go again?"

The daughter is over three years old, weighs 16 kilograms and is 95 centimeters tall. 2002.12.17

Yesterday morning, Doudou didn't want to eat breakfast, so he sprinkled milk on a coffee table, played on it, and was spanked by me, and he was not in a good mood at the end of the day. When I woke up in the afternoon, I was also unhappy, so I coaxed her and asked her why she was in a bad mood, and she said, "I was spanked!" It turned out that my daughter had been haunted by it! Although she confessed her mistake at the time and took the initiative to say that she was sorry, she had never been able to let go! It seems that the future education method will require a lot of patience and appropriate punishment.

One night, after giving Doudou a bath and settling down, she went to bed to read a book first, and waited for her mother to take a shower to tell a story, but she was eager to run out to play, so I scared her: "I will spank you when you come out and get dirty feet!" The daughter muttered while reluctantly lying on the bed reading a book. After a while, the father asked Doudou, "Were you scared by your mother?" and the daughter said, "Yes!"

Since Dad came back, Doudou has become stingy, going out to prevent children from touching her things, and no longer generously sharing snacks with children. After a few days, I have been taught many times that this situation has changed, but her small bicycle is still "This is mine, don't touch it!", December 25, 2002

Doudou began to play tricks, and when he was upset, he would often sit on the ground and pout and get angry. If we don't pay a lot of attention, she herself will "forget" about being angry.

She had already eaten most of the grapefruit that day, and I was afraid that she would eat too much, so I said that I would leave a little and a half for my father. She also agreed to put a small half aside and start playing with something else.

After a while, as soon as Dad came back and entered the door, Doudou immediately gave Yuzu to Dad.

Dad took it and ate it, didn't give it to Doudou, and didn't pay much attention to it, but after a while, he found that Doudou was angry! While slapping her little sofa, kicking the wall, and yelling in his mouth, he realized that we didn't pay attention to her and didn't give her food and snubbed her.

My daughter began to learn the "Three Character Classic" and has a good memory. I have learned from the "beginning of man" to "a thousand and thousand". Very attentive and interested. I often ask when I memorize: "What is Rong four-year-old who can make pears?" and "What's going on with the broken machine?", I will tell her the little story, and she will listen to it with relish.

Once I taught her to sing "Only mom is good in the world", but she mischievously changed it to "Only dad is good in the world, and a child with dad is like a piece of meat." I don't know what she conceived in her head, she will move the "meat" out, and experience it with her own relish, and she looks proud and intoxicated!

Doudou also has a hobby of going to the bookstore to read books, which is serious, well-behaved, and never littered.

When I was at home, I often forgot to return to the place.

At noon, Doudou was playing with the Walkman, plugged in the power cord, put the tape, and plugged in the headphones to listen. Dad came back and said it didn't make a sound. I said that Doudou was still listening just now, how could it not be loud? I didn't see Doudou messing around.

The inspection found that when she put it away and put it in the box, she inserted the positive and negative poles of the transformer in the opposite direction.

Doudou insisted at first that she had not pulled out the positive and negative poles, and when I adjusted it to work, she admitted that she had pulled it out.

Supposedly, we didn't punish Doudou much when she made mistakes, and she actually started lying. Obviously, some changes began after the daughter turned three.

Thoughts, feelings, emotions, movements, language, and other aspects have changed a lot.

I prefer to explore some new things, and often dismantle things and piece them together.

And the self-awareness has also increased, and there is a lot of worry about being ignored. Acts elated when it gets attention. Tend to say words and phrases that will surprise you.

As my daughter grows up day by day, there are more and more surprises for us!2003.1.13

When Doudou hasn't come back yet, Doudou will dress, eat, and go to the bathroom by himself, but recently, he is always coquettish, and these things have to be done with help. Going out to play has also become stingy and domineering.

Gradually, the daughter began to have her own opinions, and would comment on some people and things by herself.

Yesterday I went for a physical examination to have my blood drawn, and Doudou was very well-behaved. I told her that she could cry but not move her blood-drawn foot so that she wouldn't get another stitch. Doudou just cried loudly, but didn't move her feet.

When he came back, he said: "Doudou is a big child, and he is not afraid of the physical examination, but he is a little afraid of taking blood." "I'm still talking about it before I go to bed.

I thought my daughter might be afraid to sleep and dream because of this, so I told her: "Doudou is sensible, and he is not afraid of physical examinations and blood drawings." Drawing blood just hurts a little when you prick it with a small needle, because it hurts Doudou to cry, don't be afraid, there's nothing to be afraid of!" After a few sooths and explanations, Doudou fell asleep in a state of understanding. But I still didn't sleep particularly well all night, and I got up several times and cried quietly.

At noon, Doudou once again didn't eat well, and was ordered by me to go back to the house to sleep, and he came out to eat again. When we finished eating, she brought a bowl and asked us to feed her. We insisted that she eat by herself, and she ate by herself, and she was still messing around, and I carried her to bed, and she said "not full". I said, "You deserve to starve!" Doudou asked, "Why?" I said, "You don't eat well, don't you deserve to starve?" Doudou tilted his head: "I'm not hungry!" 2003.2.11

Doudou began the first rebellious period in his life!

began to sing against others, and began to consciously and purposefully make trouble and be naughty.

Recently, no matter what you say to her, her first reaction is to blurt out "What are you doing?" as if she inadvertently said a kind of rebellious psychology after being disciplined by adults.

It's no longer just about hearing you say this or that's wrong, but asking countless "whys".

At night, before I go to bed, I tell her a story for at least an hour.

These days, I will talk about "Journey to the West", and after I finish a chapter, I will say, "That's it for today." She said, "You speak so well, why don't you tell it?" and I told her, "The big bad wolf in the big banyan tree will hear that we have come to us so late without sleeping." ”

She asked, "Why is the big bad wolf, a villain, always looking for someone at night?"

I told her, "There are so many people during the day that the big bad wolf doesn't dare to come out for fear of being killed." “

She then asked, "Why is the big bad wolf afraid of being beaten to death? Why do people kill him? If the mother is disobedient, will the big bad wolf come to bite the mother?" I said, "Yes." So, Doudou felt that the big bad wolf was fairer to people, and it wasn't too bad.

Doudou speaks loudly, often because the people around her don't pay much attention to her, and when they don't talk to her, she will participate in the conversation loudly. When I say that children are impolite like this, my daughter will be puzzled: "Why is it rude?"

The daughter still doesn't know how to be embarrassed, and she is very generous.

The last time I watched a show, she was in the hallway watching and dancing to the music on stage. Every time I hear music playing, I sing and dance at the same time. 2003.2.14