Yesterday I received a call from Yangyang's mother asking me if Yangyang is a child with ADHD. I was shocked for a quarter of an hour by the www.biquge.info of the pen, the fun, and the court! Yangyang is a lively and active child, and he is not very attentive in his work, how can his mother be so suspicious? Perhaps it is because his mother is eager for her son to become a Chan Chan, and she usually does a lot of things in his studies, which causes the child to be at a loss. I helped her analyze some of the reasons, and she seemed to understand a little.

Doudou is in the third grade, and after the beginning of the school year, he scored 97.5 points in the math test, third place, and 87 points in Chinese, tenth place.

On the surface, I didn't say anything, but I still cared about my child's grades. Especially in Chinese, Doudou's enthusiasm for learning has declined. As I grew older, my child became much more rebellious and almost no longer reacted to my words.

Looks like I'm going to have to change my approach.

Lately, there has been more blame than encouragement and praise for Doudou.

Dad said that he would let the child take care of herself, and I was used to taking care of her, so I couldn't help but help her. It's time for me to let go and let the children take care of themselves, otherwise I won't be able to progress. Just check it!

Doudou signed up for an extracurricular activity, and I agreed, and she was happy. Seeing the programming of the "Safety Knowledge Competition" produced by herself, it is very good, and the teacher has agreed. Doudou's talent for doing things and his ability to be independent and self-reliant are actually quite good.

Sometimes I ask her to move faster, she slowly takes off I will annoy her, even a colleague said such a cute child, what are you bothering?!2008-10-17

Yesterday, Doudou went out to play with the children in the afternoon, and called back to say that he was going to go out to eat for his classmates' birthdays, I didn't pay much attention to it, just told the children to go home early, and the parents of the other party didn't take Doudou because I didn't explicitly agree.

Doudou went home very sad. I can understand the child's grievances, but the other party was originally a relatively stingy and low-level person.

Originally, they didn't want to take them there, and they said that our Doudou made up nonsense and said that my agreement was false, which hurt the children's self-esteem! I was annoyed!

But there is no need to deal with such people, because you will be ashamed to deal with them! I can only disdain! And the child's young mind and Doudou's innocence cannot understand the filth of the adult world.

I only told my children that they didn't want to take them in the first place.

Originally, going out to eat once is a trivial matter, where is it so complicated! But you can't tell your child who the other person is, you can only tell your child that we don't have the right to ask others how they are, you can only get what you want from your parents.

Moreover, people in this world are all good and bad, and we can only have one belief in the face of different people: whether they are good or bad, they will not affect our emotions.

Recently, Doudou has been more procrastinating, and we are more anxious, and there are more blames and urges. The child is overwhelmed by us.

I regret it when I review it privately.

Doudou was originally a capable and simple child, and we also want our children to have a happy, free and relaxed childhood, and we don't want to fall into clichés unconsciously.

Last night we discussed and decided once again to return to the original intention! Let our daughter have the happiest childhood and life in the world!2008-11-3

Doudou's "tongue twister":

The father cannot say unreasonable things to the child, but the father can say unreasonable things to the mother, because the child does not understand that the father's words are unreasonable, and the child will learn the father's words and do things that are unreasonable. The reason why a father can say unreasonable things to his mother is because she is an adult and already understands whether her father's words are reasonable or not, and she will not learn from her father's unreasonable words to do things.

Hahaha, fun!

Doudou midterm exam scores: 97.5 in mathematics, 88.7 in Chinese, and 100 in English. Although I don't take the score seriously, but for Doudou - the score is the result of her hard work, so I record it every time.

Children are starting to be pragmatic and not pragmatic, we have to pay attention to methods and strengthen guidance!

Recently, the rules set by my father can be enforced.

Doudou also lost three or four of them, and lost a good set of sportswear tops. That day, I pulled clothes and water bottles again, and the child was terrible!2008-11-27