After a difficult struggle, my dad finally realized my worth and dignity, but Doudou was also hurt. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info becomes less obedient and absent-minded. It's also because there is no regularity in the relaxation of Dad's holiday month.

I went to the nutrition class in the evening, Doudou didn't plan the time well since the holiday, the child's good habits are easily lost, the class has been completed, the rest of the time I have to accompany the child, with love and patience! I can't blame her anymore, compared to other children, Doudou is already very good, I can't use accusation and scolding to ruin the child's self-confidence! Don't !!

Yesterday was my birthday, Doudou always remembered, a person went to the flower shop to buy two roses and a carnation, and made a small card by himself: I wish my mother a happy day, a happy birthday, and a happy day!

Earlier, when my dad and I were angry, Doudou recorded all our quarrels, and then even wanted to tell my mom a joke every day so that my mother could be happy.

The child is already sensitive to the mother's upset. In the future, I will have to endure humiliation for the sake of my children!

In the evening, I went to "Brother Haolun" to eat pizza buffet, and Doudou was very happy.

I called back, I thought my mother would forget my birthday, I didn't want them to remember, and I ate dumplings to commemorate it. Only my mother in this world is the one who will always love me and love me!2008-7-29

The Beijing Olympics ended successfully, and Doudou learned a lot of sports and Olympic knowledge from them. It was the truth, and we were stunned.

Yesterday, she played the "Monopoly" game with the worm next door, and lost both times, very depressed and unhappy.

When she asked me, "Why did I lose?", I told her the principle of "investment": you can't use all your wealth for investment, you have to invest 1/3 of your money, 1/3 of your money is set aside, and 1/3 of your money is consumed.

This is the first time I lost, and when I can't figure it out, ask me for advice

。 In the evening, I confidently asked Worm to continue the game, we went to decoction, and came back to find that Doudou lost again, the reason was a little similar to last time, and I was very annoyed.

Doudou said, "I knew I was unhappy, so I might as well go and see the decoction with you." "I didn't express comfort and concern about this, maybe this can be regarded as frustration education.

There are many failures and unsatisfactory in life, and now there should be a small setback.

Doudou said: "I won't play with insects in the future, she is too lucky, I want to play with someone else." I can win. I told my children, "Isn't it a coward if you run away from someone who is powerful?"

He also said that he was hungry when he played in the afternoon, so he had no luck. In the evening, when I was unlucky, I went to eat twice, the first time I was a little luckier, and then I couldn't do it again.

I said, "I can't see that you are so superstitious at such a young age? You have to be so superstitious to play this? You have to use your brains and use your funds rationally." ”

Doudou said that when she played at night, she allocated funds according to her mother's reminder according to the plan, and she spent a lot of money to buy expensive lots, 6 places, and Worms bought as many as 16 cheap lots, but Worms rarely passed through her territory, and she kept paying Worms tolls.

I talked to her: 16 is far more than 6, so there are many more chances of the dice landing on 16 than when they land on 6. Therefore, when investing, you should not invest a large amount at once, but should spread the investment to ensure that you will not go bankrupt. Doudou seems to understand something.

Depressed or depressed, the child has a lot of good intentions, but he later found a way to "get out": after the start of school, he will be very happy to play with his classmates.

2008－8－26

Yesterday, Doudou went to KFC to make burgers and visit KFC's production workshop.

My intention is just to give the child more knowledge. Doudou's initiative and generosity have been further exercised. Dare to express your opinions and ideas - it's good!

On the way back, Doudou was sitting in the back of the bicycle, and I heard her chatting with people, and when I looked back, I found that it was an old man who was chatting with Doudou very warmly!

Doudou said that it was Grandpa Zhang, a retired professor from 303 Hospital, who she met when she and her father were eating in the canteen during the summer vacation.

I've heard Doudou talk about it before, saying that a grandfather waits for her to go to dinner every day and chats with her. One day she didn't go, and the next day Grandpa Zhang said that he had been waiting for her for a long time!

Grandpa Zhang asked her if she didn't go to the cafeteria to eat when school started? Doudou said that she would eat at school and take a nap.

Grandpa Zhang said, "No wonder, I can't wait for you every day." ”

Doudou is just 8 years old, and she has all kinds of innocent ideas in her mind that are not infected by the world, and she has her own unique opinions and logical thinking about people and things.

In Dad's words: Big Tool. I am glad that my method of education, which is not swayed by the world, is beginning to bear fruit!

I should be glad to think of an old professor who has read countless people and cares so much about a child, who can chat with interest and desire!

Every night after school and on Saturday and Sunday mornings, Doudou went to play table tennis for two hours, and I was there to train my child's reflexes and exercise his left brain.

Doudou is left-handed, and I asked her to play table tennis with her right hand, and it has been more than two months since August 6th, and she has been playing decently.

This semester, the Ministry of Education explicitly forbids it: the school is not allowed to open any interest classes, and Doudou will not have the math Olympiad classes that the teacher requires to attend. Therefore, Doudou did not go to interest classes this semester, and he could learn table tennis.

On Saturday, I went to see Doudou playing, and one of my older sisters, 10 years old, in the fourth grade, was as tall as Doudou and wore a pair of glasses for short-sightedness. Asked me, "Did your aunt force my sister to play, or did she learn it herself?" I said, "She said she wanted to learn, and I agreed, and I never forced her to do something she was reluctant to do, except for the task she was supposed to do, such as the homework assigned by the teacher." ”

The child said, "I take English classes four times a week, all of which my mother forced me to do, and my parents want me to study abroad in the future." ”

I asked, "What do you think of it?"

She said: "I just feel tired, it's nine or ten o'clock after the interest class every day, I still have to do homework, and there is a lot of homework in the fourth grade, and I have to go to bed around twelve o'clock every day." On Sunday, I was forced to play table tennis again. Alas!" the child let out a long sigh.

I asked her what her parents did, and she replied, "I don't know!" I asked her who sent her to practice, and she said that she was walking by herself, and her mother was sleeping. I can't agree with this method of education!

I try not to put extra load on my children, but my concern for my children's growth is manifested in all aspects -- I don't want my daughters to become phoenixes like other parents! I want to make my child's growth every step full of happiness and warmth, so that she can feel the love and attention from her mother! I also want my child to be promising, but not "forced".

After a while, Doudou sat next to me to rest, and the sister came over to confirm what I said, and sighed: "You are really the happiest child in the world!"

Originally, children were supposed to be carefree and the happiest people in the world - when did this normal, ordinary thing become so unrecognizable?!

Many things in Doudou are made by themselves, and we provide conditions and cooperation. I rarely overstep my bounds.

I remember a saying: Children need discipline and guidance, it is true, but if they are under discipline and guidance all the time and everything, they will not be self-controlled and self-directed. I actually did discipline without substitution!2008-9-22