XVII. Innocent and kind children
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My daughter will be 4 years old next month, and she has understood a lot of things, but her psychology has not been "old" by other children, and she still has no scruples as when she was a child. I still wet the bed from time to time, and I fall from time to time, and I am timid, I am very careful in doing things, and I still knock my calves into pieces of green.
A few days ago, I had a little cold, the weather was very hot, I told her to cover a little less to sleep, she just had to cover a small quilt again, and said: "Am I not a little cold?
Doudou can already beat to the music, dance to the rhyme, and sing by himself, so he won't be embarrassed.
Doudou has a stubborn temper, when he likes it, he concentrates on doing one thing for an hour when he wants to do it, and when he doesn't want to do it, no matter how many times you emphasize it, it's useless.
I have never forced her to do anything, from her temperament, my daughter is also a very self-respecting child, in her careful eyes, there is a distinction between right and wrong, accidentally do a little wrong thing I will be annoyed and embarrassed first, far from being blamed by others, first blame myself. I rarely blame her, but my father is a little more anxious.
After all, in a person's life, only childhood is carefree and the most beautiful, I don't want my daughter's childhood to have a burden and shadow, I will guide and guide her without forcing her, let her interests learn and play - let it be!2003, 11, 8
Finally it rained lightly, yesterday's weather forecast said that there would be light rain today, Doudou took care of himself and became happy, "It's finally raining, it's been a long time since it rained!"
Yesterday, he also said: "It doesn't snow in Nanning in winter, but it only snows in winter in the north." "There's a lot of knowledge in my little head.
Find out what your daughter "goes through" in a day in kindergarten so you can see what she wants and needs. Every night I spend some time chatting with my daughter.
Our communication is natural, relaxed and harmonious. I will try to keep it this way, and as a close friend of my daughter, I can guide and help her. I try not to create a divide between us. 2003、11、18
A few days ago, I got off work early one day and went to pick up Doudou from school. Doudou told me mysteriously, "Mom, we're going to eat pumpkin pie today." "I asked her how many she ate and what else she ate?
My daughter proudly told me, "Mom, I suddenly found that there was only one pumpkin pie left on the plate, so I quickly ate the pumpkin pie in my bowl and went to add the last one!"
I asked my daughter, "Then you added the last one, what if the other children still want to add it?"
"They'll only have to eat sweet potato cakes!"
"Oh, there are sweet potato cakes?"
"There are a lot of sweet potato cakes, but sweet potato cakes are not tasty, I don't like it!"
It turns out that the daughter has a little scheming, and the daughter usually observes things more carefully, and when other children may not realize it, the daughter has already understood this phenomenon and has come up with ways and countermeasures.
My daughter usually doesn't make a big fuss, but she thinks in her careful eyes, and sometimes she silently uses her brain to solve problems with her own logical thinking in her own world.
Whenever she encounters something in life that she doesn't understand, she will explain it first with her own understanding, and sometimes "teach" her parents seriously.
Yesterday, I asked her father to teach her to write: Doudou studied hard in kindergarten.
I told my daughter on the side: It's Doudou who plays well in kindergarten!
Doudou disagreed, and also explained: Going to kindergarten is to study hard!
I tried to convince my daughter that going to kindergarten is more fun with the teacher and children, and that there is more play than study.
The daughter completely disagreed. The teacher's teaching may be learning.
At such a young age, she had the concept of learning, and she did not regard learning as a burden, but as the purpose and responsibility of her schooling.
I only stopped emphasizing it, and only told my daughter that she should learn and play happily in kindergarten, and she must not be troubled by not being able to learn anything specific, and children should not have any burden.
But my daughter has a strong desire for knowledge since she was a child, and she will learn by herself as a pleasure and a way to use a game.
Doudou's learning ability and memory are excellent, and she has recently made great progress in painting and music! She can dance and draw like a person, a person is like a person, a flower is like a flower, and she will give her paintings thousands of contents!
Imagination and creativity are abundant.
Doudou is also an emotional child.
A few days ago, at the teacher's request, I wrote a letter to Doudou, and the teacher read it to Doudou, and Doudou seemed to understand the content, and the teacher said that my mother's letter was well written, and Doudou's understanding was good.
It may be that the mother and daughter are connected, and it is also related to the usual way of communication between the mother and Doudou.
Doudou was very happy to receive her mother's letter, but she said to me seriously: "Mom, you will write one page next time you write a letter, it is too long, and the teacher's voice is hoarse." ”
The daughter's observation and spontaneous nature of caring for others is commendable. 2003、11、28