XVIII. Wild imagination
My daughter eats cake on her birthday, my aunt once, my parents once, my teachers and classmates once, and my daughter is confused: how many birthdays have I had? But she is still very happy. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info
Due to the long distance to work, I go out early and return late every day, so I have less time to communicate and play games with Doudou.
Recently, Doudou's temper has become very big, after a day of work and the time spent cooking and eating at night, there is no time to coax the child to play, and he has become impatient, he reprimands the child loudly at every turn, and beats people, and blames himself very much in private.
Alas, I have to be patient to adapt to life, and caring for and educating my daughter is the most important thing, and we must grasp the core of life!
The last time I came back from buying water lilies, Doudou saw the nectar in the heart of the flower, and actually dipped his little finger in the nectar to taste it, saying that it was to understand why the little bee likes to eat nectar. After tasting it, I repeatedly said that it was not delicious.
Once, when I was taking a bath, I quietly took some water with my hands to taste it, and then told me: the bath water is smelly and sour, and it is very "good" to drink, and I said that if it is delicious, you can drink it again, and she actually said: "Just taste the taste, fools drink the bath water!" 2003, 12, 18
Doudou has grown up, and there has been a lot of progress in thinking and acting language.
You can go shopping with your parents, and occasionally say that you are tired, and never insist on letting people hug you.
Dad sent it in the morning for a few months after there was no freshness, so I asked my mother to send it, and I would be in a hurry in the morning, but Doudou himself would get up early and actively cooperate.
Last week, a child pushed down Doudou and broke his lip, the teacher said that Doudou only cried for a while and stopped crying, I asked why, Doudou said that the child said sorry, I said it didn't matter, I was a brave child, so I didn't cry for a long time. Childlike innocence and innocence!
Doudou is a child who is good at observation and likes to use her brain, and she will notice some small and unique things in life and books and newspapers, and even things that we adults hunt, and will compare and analyze them, and draw their own conclusions.
One day Doudou asked me, "Mom, the diamond shape is a square, is it?" I was surprised at how she thought about it, and after a pause, Doudou asked, "Yes, yes?" and I told her with certainty, "Yes!" and solemnly praised her.
She will also find that the turtle "Huahuadu" will "blow bubbles" when he puts his nose in the water, and there will be no bubbles when he sticks out his head, and the reason for this is also investigated.
I patiently explained it to her.
I usually praise Doudou's "new discoveries" and help her figure it out, so my daughter's depth and breadth of cognition are not bad now.
The busyness after work has reduced the guidance and education for my daughter, but I am still trying to nurture my daughter. 2004、1、12
Doudou had winter vacation, and since we were all at work, she was still going to the garden on and off, but she was no longer proactive and began to cling.
I had a 6-day plenary meeting, Doudou went to Nanning Hotel to see me, and brought grapefruit as a gift, and when I left, I was reluctant to give up, holding my hand and not letting go, but when Dad said that it was late and Mom had no food to eat, Doudou immediately let go and pushed me back, but still kissed my face.
This kind of attachment is really sweet. When I went home after the meeting, Doudou's face was full of happiness and joy.
Doudou's recent actions and words have obviously increased, and his little hands are constantly moving around, always tumbling and knocking over things, and playing with toys is not in accordance with the play of toys at all, but just playing according to his own ideas, and playing with ingenuity.
I learned to write my own name, write numbers, and I was completely imitating myself. On the second day of the first lunar month, I went to Xinhua Bookstore to buy Doudou "Children's Encyclopedia" and "Batman English", and I told her two chapters of "Encyclopedia" every night, but she always couldn't listen enough.
"Batman" she watched it herself, and watched it intently. You must insist on finishing the "Encyclopedia" to your daughter.
Doudou always asks my opinion first when he does something: is that so? Is it okay? Right? Always discuss with me sincerely.
Last night, my daughter suddenly said, "Mom, it's better if your job hasn't been transferred!" I asked why, and she said, "If you don't go to work, you can accompany me every day, and you can send me to kindergarten every day." "This child is a warm day when he wants his mother to stay by his side again. 2004、2、6
My daughter may have missed her mom and dad when she was in kindergarten, and the other night when she was going to bed, she suddenly said to me, "Mom, I invented a demand needle." ”
When I asked what the infusion was, my daughter explained, "The intake is that you don't think about your mom and dad after you get it." ”
I asked her if she missed her parents when she went to the kindergarten, and she said seriously, "Yes, but I don't cry, I know that my father will come to pick me up early after work." ”
My daughter is so sensible, and she will use her own "logic" to think and solve any problems she encounters.
A few days ago, a new classmate in Doudou's class was always crying, and her daughter took the initiative to coax her. also said: "I coaxed her and she still cried, I really can't help it." It shows that her daughter's little love knows how to care about others.
Last week, Doudou washed her hands before eating and her clothes were wet again, and I asked her what the teacher said, and she said something adult: "Teacher Tang and Teacher He didn't say anything, but Teacher Zhang was unhappy." ”
It seems that Doudou can already read words and colors.
Chatting before going to bed at night, I communicated with her about water based on her previous knowledge: fresh water is the only water for human and animal life, drinking water. Tap water is clean water that flows out of the water faucet for us after a lot of procedures, if you also waste it, I will waste it, it won't be long before tap water and fresh water will be wasted, people and animals will die without water to drink, plants will die without water, the earth is full of deserts, strong winds, hurricanes, sandstorms. This result is very bad!
The daughter also expressed her opinion: "Seawater is salty and bitter, and most of the world is seawater, but it cannot be drunk or used, so we can't waste fresh water." I won't be playing in the water anymore. When someone plays in the water, I will also tell them not to waste water, fresh water is very precious. ”
Yesterday I took Doudou shopping to buy a sand painting, Doudou blurted out "colorful", I have hardly used this word, my daughter's knowledge is dabbled in many aspects, and her language is very accurate and novel. 2004、3、1