Today is Doudou's birthday, 14 years ago today, at this time Doudou has seen the world. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 How much has happened in the blink of an eye? The child has grown up day by day, from a lump of soft flesh in his arms to slowly learning to walk, learn to speak, and go to school, and now he is a tall man. Dad left us when the child was more than nine years old, and the family invited a few children to spend it at KFC on the child's ninth birthday, which was one of the few photos of the family celebrating the child's birthday. However, it has no meaning to us and the father of the child, if the person is gone, except for the untouchable pain and longing in the heart, everything else is a floating cloud.

Since then, only the mother has been with the child for the birthday every year, and I have not made the child feel that this day will be different without the father or that I want to make up for anything, I still listen to the child's opinion on how to arrange it as before, and then give pertinent and feasible suggestions.

People want to live strongly, my father is gone, I use my not strong backbone to carry the sky of life for my children, I want my children to be strong and healthy no matter what kind of environment they are in, this is a firm belief when I was pregnant with her. Not only do I have to live a strong life myself, but I also want my child to be able to withstand setbacks and the cold, she doesn't need to be a great person, but she wants to live her own life, a true self. Always teach your child to do his best in everything and have a clear conscience.

Be a man and do things brightly, not dirty, not dark in heart, not small-bellied, and open-minded. Everyone said that I raised my children as boys, but I was talking about the character and mind of the bean child. I told her that even if she did "bad things", as long as she thought it was appropriate, she should be above board, hehe, this should be learned from Huang Mi. A child who grows up like this already has a scale in her heart, and you can't let her do bad things. So although I say this to my children, I still have the bottom in my heart.

I won't slap my swollen face and become fat, nor will I whitewash the peace, I want to live a really good life. The innate backbone and ambition in my heart must be had.

Although sometimes they will bluff Doudou for example: the ass suffers, and if you don't hurry up, you will be beaten...... But it's all thunder and rain, and Doudou has found a way to deal with me: the word "immediately" is used confusingly, her "immediately" has already opened her mouth, and you never know how long her "immediately" will last.

I couldn't help but discuss the matter with her about "right away" and asked her, "How long is your right time, please tell me clearly, okay?" so that I can be mentally prepared and look forward to it. ”

Doudou looked up to the sky and laughed: "Hehehe, it depends on the specific situation and analysis." ”

I almost choked on it!

No way, this kid who is a head taller than me has grown up, and no amount of intimidation and scare I can do much to help. I had to treat them with tenderness in order to live in harmony.

After several discussions, I put today's birthday on yesterday and ate the cake, a few good children came to celebrate the birthday together, I am only responsible for photography, photography, from ordering cakes to buying candy and drinks, to taking cakes to lighting candles and then cutting cakes, all of which are done by Doudou children themselves. Doudou still remembers that when everyone was competing for the fruit on the cake, Doudou silently kept a portion for me, and picked and picked the largest strawberry for me, far from being like before, he would share all the delicious food with the children, and he definitely didn't remember his mother. Hehe, I was very pleased and said, "Doudou children have grown up after all! remember to leave a delicious meal for your mother, and also leave the best strawberries for your mother." ”

Doudou smiled: "Hehe, thank you, Mom!"

With this sentence, the hearts of the mother and daughter are as connected and in love with each other as before.

I took a bath in advance, read and went to bed, a few children played until ten o'clock, the bean child began to rub again, I couldn't help but shout and blame, Doudou also "immediately" countless times after not going to bed until eleven o'clock, a little cough refused to take medicine and refused to cup, I was woken up and a little impatient, ordered her to take medicine, the little guy hugged the quilt back to his room: "I go back to my room to sleep, don't make noise to you." ”

Didn't hear much coughing at night.

When I get up in the morning, I cook a bowl of longevity noodles for the bean child, add the marinated beef brisket and fresh coriander, eat it hot, and get dressed to go to school.

also said that the teacher in charge of the campus radio at the school today was going to invite her to dinner, and she pulled the classmates who were doing the radio together to knock on the teacher's bamboo pole at noon, hehe, this child!

In the morning, I found that the down jacket I bought last year was originally my XXL size, and her L size had to be changed to wear it this year, and she couldn't wear it anymore in L size. I said, "Looks like I'll have to pick up your little clothes to wear later." ”

Doudou was stunned: "Alas, you make it clear first." ”

"You're so big, you can't wear my clothes, so I can only wear your small clothes. "I'm a little weird.

"That's right, it's my little clothes, not my little clothes!" said a sly smile.

This kid!

Happy birthday!, my daughter.

2013.12.16