After a few days of introspection and reflection, as well as hard work, I basically managed to calm down and deal with any performance in the face of Doudou. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info so there is no more irritability and loud scolding a few days ago.

Under my patient guidance and kind guidance, Doudou spent two days of the weekend happily, and did not go to the children's house to play.

I slept peacefully at night and didn't have nightmares.

I feel that if Doudou is wronged, although she may not be intense at the time, she will have nightmares in her sleep, and she will yell, cry and hit people in her sleep.

Children need skin to skin, every time I hug Doudou or kiss her face, Doudou will be very happy, and I will give Doudou more skin affection in the future.

I remember one night last week, I criticized Doudou, she cried, I hugged her and patted her back to comfort her, Doudou said for a while: "Mom, there was a touching picture just now. ”

I asked what it was, and Doudou said, "It's you who hugged me and patted me on the back to comfort me." Mom, I will definitely correct my mistakes in the future. 9/11/2006

Yesterday, Doudou was unhappy because Teacher Fang didn't ask her questions in class, I told Doudou about my school when I was a child, because I went to school in a backward rural primary school, to be precise, the teacher was an "intellectual" among the peasants, so there was no teacher at all, I was a lively and active child, the teacher asked the boy behind me to beat me, as long as I moved, he beat me, in order not to add trouble to my mother, I went home and didn't tell my mother.

Later, my mother heard about it and went to the teacher, and they had a heated argument.

Later, I was placed in the left corner of the classroom, and the teacher never looked at me.

But I have a lot of understanding for this, I am the first in every exam, I have been holding my breath in my little careful eyes, I want to show the teacher that he has no beads, and I am excellent.

My mother also always taught me to be angry and not to show jokes to others.

I have been working hard, and in our first grade class, my cousin and I were the only ones who were admitted to university, and we got ahead and lived happily.

I remember the last time I went home and saw the teacher, and I wanted to thank him for the frustration he gave me, but I didn't say anything when I saw the embarrassment on his face.

Last night, I told Doudou about this, and Doudou said that the teacher was really bad, and I told her that going to school is to learn more knowledge and become a useful person, and there is no need to fight for anything, such as speaking and performing. Everything goes naturally to the best.

Don't be happy just because you get a question from your teacher, and be unhappy if you don't

。 At all times, learn happily.

Doudou seemed to understand, fell asleep peacefully, and happily went to school this morning.

Last time I inadvertently mentioned that I hope she will join the Young Pioneers first, Doudou cares very much and has been working hard, and last night I said that it was my hope.

It seems that my attitude directly affects Doudou's actions, and I have to maintain a normal heart in the future.

lest my thoughts sway Doudou's self-thinking.

I need to think of a unique and practical educational method to educate Doudou. Strive to cultivate Doudou into a healthy, happy and self-reliant person, no matter what her achievements are, she just needs to live a healthy and happy life, have a healthy mentality, and not be swayed by others and the environment.

They have their own unique principles and ways of thinking, and they are not shocked by honor and disgrace! They can grasp the true nature of life. 2006/9/20

From the 23rd to the 28th, it was tiring.

Brought Doudou to a meeting on Sunday, Doudou behaved very well-behaved, sensible and generous, and everyone said that he had the demeanor of a lady.

I am a person who requires a delicate life, the pursuit of perfection in everything, I have thought a lot about Doudou's education: not only can not let her be too subjectively influenced by me, but also to cultivate her excellent character, so I have been groping, constantly adjusting the method and mentality, so that Doudou in a relaxed environment has both rules and autonomy, in the study I only ask her to complete the teacher's homework.

With Doudou's intelligence level and healthy personality, it is difficult for her not to get ahead, which is what I hope for: to grow naturally into an outstanding talent in a relaxed and healthy environment.

Everyone is an independent individual, and parents have no right to control their children's lives, but can only give their children the necessary guidance and help.

Ask the child to go up and then non-dogmatic requirements of 100 points, and want the child to grow up healthily instead of squeezing into this social environment that is eager for quick success, and everyone else is drunk and I am sober!

In this way, there will be a unique perspective and a natural way of training.

Now many aspects of Doudou show the logical thinking and independent thinking that are rare among peers, and the advantages of Doudou are more obvious after comparing with their peers, and I have to continue to actively guide, constantly explore and adjust in order to give Doudou a healthy environment for healthy growth!2006/9/27