19. Little people begin to understand the sophistication of human feelings

Doudou has become more rebellious in the recent stage, reluctant to obey, and does not listen to the words of the teacher and the words of his parents - he does his own thing. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info

Yesterday I gave her a room alone, and after she fell asleep, I put the puzzle pieces next to her bed to prevent her from falling off the floor and bumping into each other, and when she woke up in the morning and found out, she immediately praised me: "Mom, you are so clever, so that I won't touch my head when I fall on the floor." I fell down last night and climbed up again. ”

Doudou has a pretty good relationship with her little sheep sister (a little doll), hugging and playing all day long, and sleeping at night. Last Saturday, I took it to kindergarten, and the teacher put it up, and forgot to take it back when I got out of school, and when I remembered that the kindergarten was closed.

A person was very sad and cried for a long time, thinking that her little sheep sister must be very lonely in kindergarten.

Doudou rarely cries so sadly and loudly.

When I went to bed at night, I kept thinking about her little sheep sister and cried again. Then I fell asleep, and in the middle of the night I thought about it and cried again.

Early the next morning, Dad retrieved the lamb from the kindergarten, and Doudou smiled.

Only children cannot have intimate emotional communication with their peers, so they will have a deep affection for their own play, which is actually a kind of helplessness of parents and the sadness of Chinese society.

The last time I chatted with Doudou, I casually said "You're sick", and before I could say "You're sick!" Doudou had already returned the favor.

The four-year-old Xiao Budian reacted so quickly, and that demeanor and positioning were so wonderful and accurate, I was surprised for a while!

Yes, parents should be extra careful in everything they say and do, and teach by example!

After Doudou went to kindergarten, he was much bolder, daring to climb high and low alone and go far alone, but he was still cautious.

Slowly, my daughter began to become unquiet. 2004、4、6

Doudou has grown up, and he asks to sleep alone, (I get up in the middle of the night to pee once) and sleep well.

In the morning, I was still dreaming, and Doudou was already standing by the bedside.

Last night, when we were having dinner, Doudou asked her to go outside to play alone, and after I asked her to pay attention to her safety, she readily agreed. Doudou happily jumped up and down to play.

When the child grows up, it is necessary to give her more freedom and space, and I should let the child grow up freely.

The night before, Doudou drank two bottles of milk a day and wanted to drink Yili milk before going to bed, asking for my opinion, that kind of eager look and tone: "Mom, is it okay? Can you drink it?" He already had a carton of milk in his hand, but he had to get his mother's permission to drink it, "Mom, are you like this." My daughter was teaching me how to nod her head, and the impatient look was very cute, and I nodded, and her eyes widened: "Oh, Mom, you agreed!? Can you drink it?" I nodded, and my daughter happily went to drink milk.

I told her that she would only drink half a bottle, and she kept drinking it until she had only one sip left before handing it to me, "Mom, and." "It means that she only drank half a bottle, what a villain!

The reasons for drinking before were dry mouth, not being able to wet the bed, and going to the toilet by yourself. My daughter is like that, she will find reasons to convince you, she rarely plays tricks, and if I don't agree, she won't force it. 2004、4、28

The day before yesterday, Doudou went to kindergarten, and because she was playful and got under the table to play, the teacher got angry and blocked her under the table and didn't allow her to come out.

The child was wronged, I went to pick up after school, and found that Doudou's mood was not good, and I heard other children say that I understood why my daughter was like this, I found another teacher to confirm the matter, and when I came back, my father was also very angry when he heard about it, and looked for their principal. This behavior is terrible!

I am worried that this kind of behavior will hurt the dignity of the child, leave a shadow on her soul, and even affect the child's life.

If the teacher dares to take revenge on the child because of this, I will insist on fighting, for the healthy growth of Doudou, I am a hedgehog covered with thorns, ready to fight at any time!2004, 5, 28

The previous incident passed, and it didn't seem to have caused much damage to my daughter's psyche.

However, my daughter has learned how to behave and behave, and she will slowly adapt to the living environment.

One day, Doudou said: "Originally, I liked Teacher He, but since she locked me under the table, I don't like her anymore, and I ignore her now." ”

I asked her if Teacher He ignored her?

This is not necessarily a bad thing, there are two other teachers, Mr. Tang is also an assertive teacher, listening to her daughter's "small talk" found that her daughter and other teachers communicate and get along very naturally and harmoniously.

A few days ago, Doudou had two pustules on his right thumb, and he was able to take a week off and work with me for two days.

It's okay to read books, play, and communicate with people alone, and behave much more generously than before.

My daughter can already go shopping, play, and most importantly communicate.

can chat from all sides, and sometimes she will "talk at night in the East", which can mostly justify herself.

My daughter is very skillful, she can fold paper and cut flowers with small scissors -- she is left-handed, and she uses scissors to write and eat with her left hand! 2004、7、27

Every morning when I go out, I "byebye" with Doudou, and Doudou always says "go to work, work hard, and walk well", which contains her daughter's expectations for her mother and her worries about her mother's safety.

Because I have to go to work through a T-junction and take my daughter to work a few times, Doudou Xiaoxiao may feel the unsafety of the road section there, so he added "go to work hard" to "walk well" to the original "go to work hard".

It's really a mother-daughter connection!

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