In the child's growth, she has never been forced to do anything, it is generally a loose policy, and the child's physical and mental health growth has also rewarded me for so many years of education methods and ideas. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

The original life is happy and happy, the child grows up in a happy home, and the growth before the age of 10 has laid the foundation for a lifetime of growth. In the past few years, since my father left, my state has not been able to adjust to the original state, although I try my best to do my best, sometimes I still lose my mind and patience, and sadness will always hit me. As a result, my child was sometimes affected by my bad mood, and she passively accepted my nervousness, and used her generosity and open-mindedness to tolerate me and comfort me.

Sometimes when faced with my misunderstanding of her, her helpless sigh is like an elder facing a child who is messing around. And when I see the tall child so tolerant of my loss of control, I will feel guilty and gratified, I am ashamed of such a good child! I will also self-reflect and adjust, in the past few years, in the child's growth and her dependence, I slowly walked out.

Two years ago, she suggested that I find someone to walk through my life with, and I said that I was afraid that she would be wronged and that her father would be unhappy. She said that she would not feel wronged when she grew up, and her father would definitely want her mother to live happily, and she also hoped that her mother would live happily. And I couldn't get out of my sorrow, I couldn't convince myself to take a step.

Time passed slowly, and seeing that the child was going to leave me day by day to walk his own life path, leaving me alone, I also slowly came out to accept this reality and plan for the future. Seeing me go on a blind date, the child was very happy, she never asked for anything, only one: be good to her mother.

This year, when I returned to my hometown during the summer vacation, I took the initiative to talk to my grandmother about my future, saying that I would work with my grandmother to help me find someone to accompany me when she was admitted to high school and went to live in school. I look at the two most important people in my life, the old and the young, who are worried about me, an adult, an adult with knowledge, culture, and deeds, and my heart is full of happiness and sorrow. I also made up my mind to live up to their love for me, and I want to work hard!

Regarding the child's schooling, she has never interfered, she has done it herself, with her intelligence, although she is not very hard, but her grades have not fallen, maintaining a stable middle and upper level. I didn't force her to get any grades, although I knew that if she worked hard, her grades would be outstanding, but I thought that if I could make her childhood a little easier and happier, it might be more important than grades. After all, a person only has a carefree childhood, and at that time, with her, he decided to give her a happy and happy life, and she has already suffered misfortune for such a thing as mine.

This summer vacation home to visit relatives, the younger brother said that if she can't be admitted to the key high school, go back to him to spend high school, he is the principal of a key high school, the teaching level is very high, the proportion of one is as high as 97%, with the child's intelligence and intelligence to be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University are possible. I was also moved by this, so I discussed with my child: if the grades in the first half of the third semester of junior high school are not improved to the top 50 of the grade, and I can't guarantee that I will go to the second or third middle school, I will transfer her household registration back to her second uncle in the second half of the third year of junior high school, and go back to high school.

She also longed for it at the beginning, but when she heard that she was going back to study, the management was very strict, and she was going to leave her mother, she was a little reluctant. I said that if you can give your mother confidence and guarantee that you will be admitted to the second or third middle school, even if you can't get into the top universities, I will give you a high school in Nanning. As a result, Xiao Penyou began to take the initiative to study, in her words, "in order not to be sent back to her hometown". Hehe, she said that she wants to become a student in seconds!

During the summer vacation, I helped her review and preview the only weak physics, and every day after the start of school, she would come back proudly and proudly about her progress and high spirits, saying that many students would ask her: Have ......you finished your Chinese homework? It's a pleasure to see the children happily enjoying the joy and progress of learning. The child is also a very enthusiastic child who likes to express herself, and she is full of pride and fun when she helps her classmates.

I have always had confidence in her learning, since she was a child, she has shown strong learning and hands-on ability, and has never been forced to study, although sometimes annoyed by the heavy homework assigned by the teacher, but will still be completed with quality and quantity, I have never added extra tutoring classes and extracurricular homework to her, relatively speaking, her learning load has not yet formed pressure on her. As long as she is motivated and motivated to learn, she will be a blockbuster, and I have always been sure of that.

Whether it is her assertiveness or grasp and understanding of things, she is excellent, as well as her planning and leadership skills, presentation skills, and business acumen, which cannot be underestimated.

It's just that when it comes to housework and spending money, I still need to be guided correctly. I don't want her to work, I would rather her have more time to "do nonsense", my growth is also like this, my mother is not willing to let me do housework, until I graduated from college, got married and had children, I began to pick up a family, and I began to learn from scratch, it's okay, with my ability, it's not too bad.

With her intelligence and ability, she will never be worse than me. Compared to her, I don't have her open-mindedness, ability and financial acumen.