Dou child is 18 years old, this year's college entrance examination, and the bean child facing the college entrance examination still has an attitude that everything is more important than the college entrance examination and cannot be delayed, but only learning can be delayed.

I was anxious, anxious, and wondered if my educational philosophy was wrong?

Bean Kids is going to cosplay as a volunteer during the winter vacation, and I agreed, so it's okay to do something you like during the holidays. Last week, she missed the class to participate in the pre-job training of cosplay, saying that if I did not agree with her to go, she would go back to the dormitory to rest and not go to class.

So the teacher persuaded me to give it to her, and I compromised again, what can I do?

Yesterday I went to play cosplay to take pictures, went out in the morning, and said that I would go home before 6:00 p.m., and I didn't get home until 10:00 p.m.

I sent a very angry text message......

Dou's reply message: I know you are for my good, but I always feel in my heart that if I follow the broad road you arranged at the age of eighteen, when I reach the twilight of my life, I will always feel that there is something missing in my life.

Please allow me to follow my dreams and go in a circle, even if my nose is blue, my face is swollen, my head is broken, and I don't feel that I have regrets in my life in the end.

Today, I ate barbecue buffet with my friends in Qingxiu Wanda, closed at 21:00, and I came back in an hour on Route 11.

Ma Ma's reply:

The regret of life is: choose to be slack and lazy when you should work hard, and be useless when you should harvest!

What is Chuang? Chuang is to have a clear ideal and do our best to work hard for it! Chuang is not to be at a loss and to do nothing and indulge!

How can I still have the ability to arrange a good road for you?! But I just want your life to be less difficult!

Such a good youth should have been a struggle for life without regrets, but today's laziness and indulgence are a lifetime of hardship!

And if you want to achieve something in life, reading and reading well is the best way to do it recently!!

If you have no education or knowledge, you will earn money, but you will also be an upstart who has no thoughts and no pleasures in your heart! Besides, how many people can earn money? Besides, noble thoughts and personality in life are more meaningful than earning money!

Don't look at a few people who have dropped out of school or dropped out of school to achieve something, that is because they have their own clear ideals and are desperate for their ideals! They are also unique geniuses! Look down at themselves! Don't make any excuses for their laziness and indulgence! If you miss the growth efforts of your youth, you are worthy of a life of humility and inferiority to others, living at the bottom of society!

It will also mean that no one can afford you, and anyone can step on you. It also means that once you meet the person you like, you miss out because you are not worthy of him!

Only the best are worthy of better love and lovers!

When you are lagging behind in your grades today and you will be snubbed, despised and looked down upon, your inner feelings today will also be infinitely magnified insults and trampling on your personal dignity in your future life! And you can only be secretly sad or comfort yourself, because you do not have stronger capital than others!

And the road of life, only your own hard work can be relied on! Even if the world betrays you, you can still have the confidence and ability of "I still have to rely on myself"!

There are still three months left before the college entrance examination, so why not go all out? Work hard to move yourself! If you choose to give up, there is nothing I can do!

You are not an ignorant child, and the road ahead depends on you, whether it is good or bad, whether it is a smooth road or a thorny one, you also choose it yourself, and you come out on your own.

I always feel that you lost your father at a young age, I want to love you more, don't treat you so harshly, you are a smart child, you will always be sensible, know how to work hard, if it is because of my distress, I am reluctant to let you suffer, give you a relaxed environment and let you not want to be enterprising, lazy and indulgent, that is my sin!

If you can't even feel the love and expectations of Ma Ma, you will live up to it......

A cold-blooded person who can't feel love and reciprocate love is pitiful, terrible and pathetic no matter how you say it!

The so-called feeling love and giving back love is not that I give you a steamed bun and you give me a bun, but that you feel the heart of love, the action of giving back love, and don't let the people who love you be discouraged!