"Woooooooooo Hearing this, Orange Orange immediately burst into tears, struggling in Xu Jia's arms, pointing at Orange Orange and shouting. Wen Ze had a cold face when he heard this, in fact, Wen Ze would not be a child with Orange Cheng, he was not narrow-minded to this point, but Xu Jia's belief was constantly shaking, even if there was no Xu Jia like his ex-girlfriend, Wen would prevent Xu Jia from doing "stupid things", Bai Jingxu is Dugu Yunqi's husband, as long as he is not divorced, Xu Jia and Bai Jingxu can only be said to be a third party. Wen Ze just wanted to remind Xu Jia that she was impossible, at least not now. However, first of all, we must solve the "* annoyance" of "Orange Orange", Wen stared at Orange Orange with a cold face, Orange Orange flinched, but was still unwilling to "back down".

Wen Ze's voice was also cold: "First of all, what I want to tell you is that your mother has divorced your father, and now the one in a wheelchair downstairs is your father's legal wife, your mother no longer has the right to live here, if your mother continues to stay here, she will become a dead face, and your father's current wife will not be happy, by the way, that is your stepmother, you have another mother." Wen Ze ignored the big drops of orange and orange's tears, and ignored Bai Xinling's "want to stop talking": "Second, your mother didn't abandon you, she came back this time This "sadly" just wants your custody, you tell your uncle whether you want to go with your mother or want to stay here with your father, don't say that your mother wants to abandon you, we give you the opportunity to choose, whether you want to leave or stay can be decided by yourself, but if you choose to stay, you can't blame your mother for leaving, don't regret your choice." ”

Orange Orange played the child's "nonsense": "I don't want it, I don't want my parents to divorce, why should I divorce." Xu Jia was a little silent when he heard this, why? Let's make people worse! In the final analysis, this divorce and marriage have always been an accident. Her miscarriage was unexpected, the sudden rainstorm of more than ten days abroad was unexpected, and Bai Jingxu's signing of the divorce agreement in such a fit of anger was also an accident. Even Dugu Yunqi's extreme behavior was unexpected, Wen Ze frowned, and said in a scolding tone: "How old are you? You look like you're four or five years old." Why can't you understand and understand your mother? Is your mother going to divorce? Ah? Since you don't want your parents to be separated, why don't you go to your father to make trouble, and you have to embarrass your mother? By the way, I heard that it's useless for you to make trouble, right, your father doesn't agree, right? Then you will go to your mother to make trouble? Do you know how uncomfortable your mother is? Look at your mother's expression now...... It's uglier than crying. Xu Jia's expression was indeed ugly than crying, seeing that Orange Cheng had been staring at her, she was so aggrieved that she couldn't cry, Xu Jia forced herself to pull out a smile, but how reluctant she looked, Xu Jia planned to coax Orange Cheng, but Wen Ze restrained her hand.

Xu Jia looked at Wen Ze with some puzzlement, Wen Ze snorted coldly at Orange Orange, and said to Xu Jia: "Yuwen Shi once told me that sometimes even if it is cruel to children, but it has to be done, children are not sensible, they must be taught, and they can't use children who are not sensible as an excuse to accommodate and spoil them, and children under the wings of their parents will not soar in the sky." What are you going to do with this child? Is it to coax, to be reasonable, or is it sometimes necessary to be ruthless, otherwise the child will still think that you have done something wrong, and what is the big blow at an early age, at most it is precocious, precocious is nothing at all, and it is worry-free. "Yuwenshi's most youthful period was spent in being kicked out of the house, and it was also a blow that made Yuwenshi a little slumped, but he fought back and walked out of the wonderful life now, although Orange Orange is still a child, but there are some things that cannot be accommodated, so he must not be accommodated, and he should make it clear that if he is not, then he should be slapped hard to make him sober.

Otherwise, it is "drowning", if the child is crooked, it will be too late to regret it in the future, so Wen Ze's words are very heavy, Xu Jiawen lowered his head when he heard this, and did not look at Orange Cheng's tearful eyes, so as not to soften his heart again, Bai Xinling felt a little bad when he saw this, and hurriedly said: "It is normal for children to be reluctant to separate their parents, and it is normal for children of this age to like to be coquettish, why bother to go online to this point, what do four-year-old children understand?" If it were you, when you were four years old, would you know those so-called big truths?" What kind of idea did Wen Ze have, and he vigorously pushed Xu Jia and Bai Jingxu to divide the property and the former custody, and now he still uses this kind of reason to persuade Cheng Cheng, Wen Ze's words just now are clearly to sow discord and provoke the relationship between Cheng Cheng and Bai Jingxu.

"I may not have understood this when I was four years old, but if this happens to me, I hope my parents will do the same, telling me not to embarrass others. Are you blind, don't you see how embarrassed and bitter Jia Jia's face is?" Wen Ze "argued with reason", he was very disdainful of Bai Xinling in his heart, what he said was better than what he sang, in the final analysis, it was for Bai Jingxu, the embarrassment on Xu Jia's face was more obvious than anyone else, but Bai Xinling wanted to keep Xu Jia with a high-sounding reason, what identity did Xu Jia use to stay? Mistress, Xiaosan or ex-wife? Not to mention that Dugu Yunqi was not an easy character to deal with at first glance, if Xu Jia stayed, maybe there would be no bones left.

Bai Xinling's face changed, and he was a little embarrassed, but Wen Ze was unwilling to let Bai Xinling go: "The sister-in-law who keeps saying is so affectionate, as if Jiajia is your own sister, then you give an explanation, what identity does Jiajia have to use to stay, even if she stays, can she save her marriage? If you have a conflict with that Dugu Yunqi at home, will you help Dugu Yunqi or Jiajia?"

"Think carefully about yourself, whether you want to follow your father or your mother, lest your mother try her best, and in the end you will have to follow your father. Wen Ze turned his head to Cheng Cheng and said, his expression was very solemn: "If you want to follow your mother, I will try my best to let your mother get your custody, if you are not willing to follow your mother, then I will persuade your mother to give up this custody, even if she does not raise you personally, she is also your own mother, not only blood relationship, but also legal relationship, there is no need to fight for your custody with a dead eye, in the end, if you still end up complaining, it will be too wrong." Wen Ze said this, his expression was not so serious, and he had a faint playful smile.

Orange Cheng shrunk in Xu Jia's arms and kept sobbing, as if he couldn't breathe "anytime and anywhere", but Wen Ze "turned a blind eye" and stretched out his hand to Xu Jia: "The matter of property division has been negotiated, let's go through the transfer procedures first, and give your son some time to think, maybe, he wants to follow his father more than you, if he wants to follow his father, you still don't fight for custody, it's a big deal to fight for the freedom to watch the child anytime and anywhere, and the permission to live with the child......" In fact, Wen Zedu didn't understand these so-called "mothers", how could they be involved in "whether they want children" if they didn't grab custody? If you want to have children, you can go to see them, and if you want to live with your children, you can pick up your children and live with them, isn't it more comfortable to live alone than with children? Looking at Xu Jia like this, if Cheng Cheng didn't follow her, she was afraid that she would be able to go crazy, especially if Xu Jia herself had a slight depression, if she was not careful, the depression that he suppressed with drugs and means would recur, and I was afraid that it would be even more serious at that time.

"Uncle thinks...... Your mom spends more time with you than your dad and ...... If you choose to follow your father, you can't complain that your mother can't grow up with you, but if you miss your mother, you can contact your mother by mobile phone, or go to your mother? You can find your grandmother, Aunt Chuchu, Uncle Wenrun, and your uncle can also give you your uncle's contact information. Wen Ze suddenly became "gentle", smiled at Orange Orange, and touched Orange Orange's head.

Bai Jingxu stared at Wen Ze's eyes as if he could breathe fire, Orange Cheng sat on the bed and wiped his tears and sobbed, the corners of Wen Ze's mouth were already bruised, just now Orange Cheng was shouting and crying regardless of it, Wen Ze was a little impatient, and then what he said was a little excessive, Orange Cheng was scolded by him so much that he didn't dare to speak, but Bai Jingxu heard it, Bai Jingxu and Wen Ze argued, Wen Ze said" It's not my son, even if I get married to Jiajia, I'm just a stepfather, at most I can't treat him badly in life and education, just take care of Orange Cheng as the son of a friend" completely angered Bai Jingxu, if it weren't for Orange Orange still there, Bai Xinling's current situation would not be frightened, Bai Jingxu would definitely not let go of Wen Ze so easily.

"You can't be the father of my child, I'm still alive and it's not my turn to educate my son. Bai Jingxu stared at Wen Ze and said coldly, the monstrous anger contained in those words made people tremble, but Wen Ze just stood in front of Xu Jia, and said with a slight smile: "Just like you married Dugu Yunqi, Dugu Yunqi became Orange Orange's stepmother, if Jiajia and I get married, even if Jiajia does not get the custody of Orange Orange, I am also Orange Orange's stepfather, in the face of Orange Orange's ignorance, I seem to be "understandable" to bring it up." Wen Ze seemed to be deliberately provoking Bai Jingxu's "anger", Bai Jingyan's heart was rising when he heard this, but Xu Jia was taken aback, when did she say that she was going to marry Wen Ze? The two of them are obviously just ordinary friends, Wen Ze also said that he will never marry someone he doesn't love in his life, because he has another person hidden in his heart, if he marries someone he doesn't love, the person in his heart will not disappear, which is unfair to others. How can Xu Jia and Wen Ze get along day and night, understanding that Wen Ze will definitely not do anything "untargeted", Xu Jia's silence is acquiescence in Bai Jingxu's opinion, Bai Xinling also thinks so, looking at Xu Jia in disbelief, and said in a lost voice: "Sister-in-law!" Bai Xinling never thought of this result, Bai Jingxu has already married Dugu Yunqi, although Dugu Yunqi will not live for a few years, but it is not easy to save Xu Jia in the future, if Xu Jia is married to another man, even if Dugu Yunqi dies in the future, Bai Jingxu will not be able to save Xu Jia...... How long has Xu Jiacai been gone, he has been shaken by Wen Ze into this appearance, if he marries Wen Ze, he will definitely leave Bai Jingxu behind.

Although her heart is biased towards Dugu Yunqi, but that's because she and Dugu Yunqi have known each other for a longer time, and Dugu Yunqi is chasing so badly, she really can't stand it, who would have thought that the accident would be so unexpected!

"Are you going to marry him?" Bai Jingxu stared at Xu Jia and said word by word, Xu Jia lowered his head to avoid Bai Jingxu's gaze, this time Wen Ze did not stand in front of Xu Jia again, but lowered his head and looked at Xu Jia with affection: "Look at what you said one by one, it seems that Jia Jia and I remarried is a heinous thing." Jiajia is divorced and I am single, it seems that it is a natural thing for us to be together, if it is because Jiajia married me not long after the divorce, may I ask Mr. Bai what is the reason for getting a marriage certificate with Dugu Yunqi on the day you get the divorce certificate. Wen Ze was very unhappy when he heard Bai Jingxu's questioning tone, did the person who remarried him embarrassed to ask his "ex-wife"? What does his ex-husband and ex-wife mean? It means that it is the ex, it is in the past tense, Xu Jia came back this time to divide the property and custody, and he came back to draw a clear line. If it weren't for the fact that he and Xu Jia were going to get married, and Xu Jia didn't let it go easily, otherwise he would definitely make Bai Jingxu look good.

"......" Bai Jingxu was still staring at Xu Jia, Xu Jia originally had an attitude of "escaping", but he was stared at by Bai Jingxu so deadly, he was furious, and looked up at Bai Jingxu: "Is he wrong? He is single and unmarried, I am divorced, and it doesn't seem to be a heinous thing for us to be together, you have remarried, and you are not qualified to stop me from finding my own happiness...... Bai Jingxu, I'm going to remarry now, as long as you divorce Dugu Yunqi, then I will marry you. Did you do it?" Xu Jia looked at Bai Jingxu and said, this is the last chance she gave Bai Jingxu, if Bai Jingxu is not willing to divorce Dugu Yunqi when she and Wen Ze are going to get married, then she will no longer wait stupidly in the same place, she will not marry Wen Ze, because this is just a question and a temporary intention, she may not find a suitable person in the future and will not remarry, but she will never forgive Bai Jingxu again in her life.

Bai Jingxu was a little embarrassed, and stopped talking: "Give me a few years, okay? Yunqi can't live for a few years." And in the past few years, it is impossible for Dugu Yunqi to take care of his body and what to do with him, in the final analysis, it is just a matter of status, Xu Jia is with him, Dugu Yunqi will not be stupid enough not to allow it, in the end, Dugu Yunqi is a "third party", Bai Jingxu knows that his thoughts are very, very excessive, but after thinking about it, he feels that although he has wronged Xu Jia, this is already the best way, as long as Xu Jia doesn't care about his reputation...... In the final analysis, it was just to satisfy Dugu Yunqi's wish to be his wife, even if Dugu Yunqi was legally recognized as his wife, but he, including the people around him, thought that Xu Jia was his rightful wife , Bai Jingxu thought that he was too much, but he thought of a new way, starting from Dugu Ye, divorced the marriage after getting the marriage certificate with Dugu Yunqi, and registered the marriage with Xu Jia, but gave Dugu Yunqi a fake marriage certificate, Xu Jia and Dugu Yunqi lived under the same roof, as long as he didn't say anything, Dugu Yunqi would not know, he couldn't have anything to do with Dugu Yunqi, at most, he just raised Dugu Yunqi for a few years, and he didn't lack a little money. deceived Dugu Yunqi and made her think that she was still his wife, this method Bai Jingxu thought that it was still passable, at least it would not be as outrageous as his original thoughts.

Bai Jingxu said his method, but Wen Ze said with a smile: "I said buddy, don't you know the truth that you can't have both fish and bear's paws? If you do this, it is very likely that the bamboo basket will be empty, and why are you sure that Jiajia will accompany you to act? She is a real wife, sometimes don't be too confident." ”

Xu Jia did not agree to Bai Jingxu's unreasonable request, and immediately returned to Weng City with Wen, but Xu Jia has been depressed for a while, even if there is a little white cat Jia to accompany him to relieve his "thoughts of the child" , but the loneliness and loss in Xu Jia's heart still have nowhere to vent, Wen Ze has only been silently accompanying Xu Jia, and from time to time he will talk to Xu Jia about some interesting things in the past, Xu Jia sometimes gives Wen Ze a smile, sometimes the smile is obviously perfunctory, sometimes the smile is more ugly than crying, because Wen Ze's previous sweetness always reminded Xu Jia of his previous happiness with Bai Jingxu, so that Wen Ze sometimes didn't know what to do, he let go, and even shared his heartache with Xu Jia. However, it was not a few days after returning to Weng City, and Xu Jia's mother Bai Peilin also came.

Wen Ze can finally be "freed", he doesn't have to worry about what happens to Xu Jia every day, he is by Xu Jia's side, Xu Jia still cries and cries at every turn, although he knows that it is normal for depressed patients to cry and cry, and he has also contacted and cured many patients with depression, but the pain of being under the same roof with a depressed patient every day cannot be described in words. Wen Ze's friend gave Wen Ze a few taels of the best red robe before, Wen Ze has always cherished it and was not willing to make tea, and now that Bai Peilin is here, Wen Ze immediately took out his treasure of the big red robe.

Bai Peilin cast an approving look at Wen Ze, then pulled Xu Jia into the room, and looked at Xu Jia's room: "I have to say that this high-end settlement is among the top among all the high-end settlements in Wengcheng, you left without saying a word before, and I was worried that you would have no place to go." This kind of place is still quite suitable for being clean and clean, and it just happens to meet a good person to take care of you, but this is also your luck, what if you are unlucky and you meet a bad person?" Bai Peilin said this, holding Xu Jia's palm in her hand, patting the back of Xu Jia's hand, and said worriedly.

When Xu Jia heard this, he forced a smile: "That can only be said to be bad luck, but it's good that I stay at home and don't go out, and nothing bad will happen in a high-end residential area." "It's all hypothetical, isn't she good now, and she also knows Wen Ze, a good friend.

"Alas" Bai Peilin sighed, the mother-in-law looked at her son-in-law, the more she looked at it, the more she liked it, she was actually very satisfied with Bai Jingxu, not to mention that Xu Jia was focused on Bai Jingxu, the two of them also had the child Orange Cheng, now that things have come to this point, she also feels embarrassed, Bai Jingxu has been her younger brother for a few years, she is not without feelings for Bai Jingxu, this time it can only be said that it is really a creation to make people, Xu Jia has Xu Jia's persistence, Bai Jingxu has Bai Jingxu must do.

"Auntie, I don't have anything good to eat there, only some fruits, or I'll get you a few dishes in the evening, I'll buy them now." After Wen Ze washed the fruit, he knocked on the door of Xu Jia's room, put it on the counter, and didn't forget to say to Bai Peilin: "I know exactly what Jia Jia likes to eat, but I don't know what you like to eat, Auntie." Bai Peilin looked at Xu Jia with a heart when she heard this, and Xu Jia smiled a little embarrassedly: "Didn't my body recover a while ago?" During that time, he has been taking care of me, he does all the housework at home, and he also cooks the meals, so he knows very well what I like to eat and what I don't like to eat. ”

When Bai Peilin heard this, she looked Wen Ze up and down, her eyes seemed to be that of her mother-in-law looking at her son-in-law , Wen Ze was looked at by Bai Peilin so directly, he just smiled, and then looked directly into Bai Peilin's eyes, he didn't dodge in the slightest, Bai Peilin was even more satisfied when he saw this, why should he avoid the scrutiny of others if he didn't do anything wrong, Wen Ze's behavior shows that he is a gentleman with a frank heart, Xu Jia and Bai Jingxu are in such a situation that it is almost impossible to go back to before, so Bai Peilin must make plans for the future for Xu Jia, Wen Ze is a good object.

Although Wen Ze is older than Xu Jia is about to be ten years old, Bai Jingxu is about the same age as Wen Ze, and compared to Bai Jingxu's coldness, Wen Ze is obviously more considerate, and he is also more rational, knowing that sometimes he just can't be soft-hearted, his family is more important than his friends, such a character will definitely not make Xu Jia sad and sad, and Dugu Yunqi's incident will not happen to Wen Ze. Wen Ze's appearance is no worse than Bai Jingxu, and Xu Jia can be said to be a very good match, he was expelled from the house at a young age and opened a psychological clinic on his own, which shows that he is also capable, and as a psychiatrist, he has an education, a degree, and an income. Although it is unlikely that he will be as rich and wealthy as Bai Jingxu, so that Xu Jia can spend a lot of money, but the interpersonal relationship is not so complicated and dangerous, and it would be a good thing for Xu Jia to be with Wen Ze...... Bai Peilin is no longer the Bai Peilin of the past, she yearns for a calm and stable life more than love. Xu Jia and Bai Jingxu were together because of love, but they were scarred by Bai Jingxu's injuries. Although Xu Jia, who is with Wen Ze, is nominally just ordinary friends with Wen Ze, Xu Jia has a flat smile on his face, Wen takes good care of Xu Jia, Bai Peilin is a person from the past, and he also understands Xu Jia's character, this kind of life is the best for Xu Jia. Bai Peilin showed a soft smile at Wen Ze: "Auntie is not a picky eater, you can just make something that Jiajia likes to eat." ”

Seeing that Wen Ze went out of the room and then changed his shoes at the entrance and took the key and wallet, Xu Jia hurriedly asked, "Mom, what are you doing here?" Bai Peilin's face was full of satisfaction with Wen Ze, and it was just like looking at Bai Jingxu before, no wonder Xu Jia was uneasy, but Xu Jia could swear to the sky, although Wen Ze was very good, took very good care of her, and was better than Bai Jingxu in some aspects, but she didn't have any thoughts about Wen Ze, and Wen Ze didn't meet her "mate selection criteria", she couldn't have anything to do with Wen Ze, and she had no plans to remarry.

"I think this kid is good, and I will be very happy if I am my son-in-law. Bai Peilin looked at Xu Jia and smiled.

"Don't you really like Bai Jingxu? and said that his son-in-law is the only one you recognize in your life. Xu Jia said a little speechlessly, Bai Peilin's liking for Bai Jingxu is "obvious to all", and even the shares left to her by her deceased mother were given to Bai Jingxu, so that Bai Jingxu could use it to bring down her biological father, and now Bai Peilin has just met Wen Ze, and she has changed her position so quickly, a little too unprincipled, right?

"It's true that he is the son-in-law I identify, but now that he has divorced you and become the son-in-law of someone else's family, no matter how good he is, it has nothing to do with me, okay? Could it be that you still plan not to marry for the rest of your life? I must be looking for a new son-in-law, I think this Wen Ze is good in all aspects. I know you, I have nothing to say about you, the three views are compatible with you, and each other's interests and hobbies are also compatible. has a fixed income, good looks, and a passable character. There are no bad habits, and the relationship with the family has been broken, which means that you don't have to be filial to your parents-in-law in the future, if he doesn't mind that you can't have children, then you can live a two-person world together, it's a big deal to form a Dink family, I don't think he cares about that very much, if you're really embarrassed, then I'll help you find out the tone,. As long as he doesn't mind your physical defects. That's easy to say, except that he can't be as rich as Bai Jingxu, so that you can spend money lavishly, it's just that this is not as good as Bai Jingxu, otherwise everything is more satisfying than Bai Jingxu, and although he is not as rich as Bai Jingxu, he doesn't need you to worry about money. The more Bai Peilin said, the more satisfied Wen was

, although it is to ask for permission Jia's opinion, but if Xu Jia does not agree, she will definitely be "brainwashed" by her in minutes, and it will be a "waste" if such a good person is let go.

Xu Jia said a little helplessly: "But he has someone in his heart, and he broke off the relationship with his family for the person he hides in his heart, and he is also so good to me because I am very similar to his girlfriend, do you want me to be someone else's stand-in?" Being someone else's stand-in, or being replaced by someone else, is a "shame", Bai Peilin heard this, but her face was full of disapproval, Wen Ze's situation was very investigated before she came to Weng City. Wen Ze is good to Xu Jia, of course, there is a reason for his girlfriend, but from the information, Wen Ze definitely does not regard Xu Jia as his girlfriend's "stand-in", Wen Ze knows very clearly that Xu Jia is Xu Jia, his girlfriend is his girlfriend, the two have no relationship at all, he just doesn't want to see Xu Jia, who is very similar to his deceased girlfriend, suffering "pain", besides, ......: "Are you in love with Wen Ze?"

"What?" Xu Jia's brain couldn't turn for a while, and he didn't understand what Bai Peilin meant, Bai Peilin said angrily: "Jiajia, you should also understand that love and marriage are two different things, then Wen Ze loves his dead girlfriend, do you love Wen Ze? He has the person he loves in his heart, you love Bai Jingxu, but it is a draw, the most important thing is that you not only don't hate the place, but also have a good impression of each other, why don't you seize the opportunity to cultivate your feelings?"

Bai Peilin looked at Xu Jia with some "hatred of iron and steel": "Are you really dead set on waiting for Jing Xu's child?" Bai Jingxu's method, she felt that it was not reliable at all, besides, Dugu Yunqi was the third party, but Xu Jia was going to be "sneaky", no matter what she said, she would not let Xu Jia suffer that grievance...... You got the marriage certificate, right? Whoever you marry will not be restrained by Jing Xu, even if you are a fake marriage, it is better to tempt Jing Xu than if you only know how to shrink in the house like you are now. "Now who knows what means Dugu Yunqi has resorted to? Xu Jia has experienced ups and downs since she was a child, so Xu Jia's psychology is very strong, but Dugu Yunqi is not only bumpy, she has suffered more difficulties and tribulations than Xu Jia, she can grasp Bai Jingxu's character when Bai Jingxu does not love her, and let herself occupy a firm place in Bai Jingxu's heart, what is the use of Xu Jia hiding like an ostrich now, maybe she will soon be replaced by Dugu Yunqi.

Xu Jia silently bit her lower lip, she did get the divorce certificate in her hand, a few days ago Wen Ze and Bai Jingxu almost had to fight again, she had no choice but to pull Wen Ze away, Wen Ze stretched out his hand to Bai Jingxu before leaving, asking for her divorce certificate, Bai Jingxu's anger that had been suppressed began to burn again, and he almost killed Wen Ze, but no matter how she stopped Wen Ze, Wen Ze just refused to admit defeat, his purpose was also very clear, he got her divorce certificate from Bai Jingxu's hands, and ignored Bai Jingxu's eyes that wanted to kill"Unashamedly" said: "Since you and Jiajia are divorced, then Jiajia's divorce certificate must be returned to her, otherwise it will be very troublesome for me and Jiajia to get married, even if I don't marry Jiajia." You should also return the divorce certificate to Jiajia, you can't still think of using the divorce certificate to control Jiajia to no longer marry, you can't be too selfish, you have remarried and there is no reason to let Jiajia die alone, although the current society does not discriminate against second marriage, but there are still requirements for age, Jiajia is still young, only in her 20s, and it is better to get married at this time, so as not to get married after a few years, but it will be troublesome. Wen Ze's words made Bai Jingxu's face even more pale, she was very worried that Bai Jingxu would fight with Wen Ze regardless of it.

"The divorce certificate is indeed in my hands, but not to mention that Wen Ze and Wen Ze are together, I really don't have any feelings for Wen Ze in terms of men and women, and I don't plan to remarry in a short time, if I really can't find the right person, I think it doesn't matter if I don't get married in this life, after all, I can't have children, who wants to marry a wife who can't have children?" Xu Jia smiled self-deprecatingly, her hand unconsciously stroked her abdomen, two children were conceived here, that day...... lost her two children and lost the ability of a woman to have children, but her deeply loved husband was accompanying other women, "worrying" for other women, that was the most desperate time in her life, Xu Jia now thinks about it with a kind of "like falling into an ice cellar".

Bai Peilin saw that Xu Jia's face was not quite right, and said, "You better have a snack, don't be so silent anymore." ”

Bai Peilin just came to see Xu Jia, and saw that Xu Jia's body recovered under Wen Ze's meticulous care, and the big stone in her heart was also put down. After eating the dinner made by Wen Ze, I chatted with Xu Jia again. Then after saying a few words to Wen Ze, he chose to leave, and after Wen Ze drove Bai Peilin to leave, Xu Jia looked at Wen Ze's somewhat "indescribable" face and smiled bitterly: "Is my mother telling you something?"

"Hmm" Wen looked at Xu Jia with some amusement: "Your mother seems to treat me as a son-in-law, and asked me to take good care of you, saying that if I don't mind that you can't have children in the future, she will treat me as her own son." Never favors you when you make mistakes...... It's only been a long time since you've been divorced, and your body hasn't returned to its former state, and your mother hates getting married too much, right? You have a career, good looks, and you're still young, even if you have a physical problem, you don't have to worry about not being able to get married, right? At least for me, I don't care, let alone there are many men in this world who want Dink. "The woman has lost her fertility...... It is true that to some extent it cannot be regarded as a woman, after all, fertility is unique to women, and men can't do it for them! But women don't only have children to make sense, if he is Xu Jia's mother, he will definitely not have any anxiety, Xu Jia is not dead or disabled, worry about a hair!

"......" Xu Jia glanced at Wen Ze: "Because you haven't become a parent yet......" Wen Ze has no children, so she can't understand Bai Peilin's feelings of worrying that she will be alone for the rest of her life, and only when she has no children, Wen Ze can live a chic life than most people. If it weren't for the fact that there was a child between her and Bai Jingxu, the two would definitely have a situation of endless trouble, and it was for the sake of Orange Orange that she avoided a head-on conflict with Bai Jingxu, so as not to cause any harm to Orange Orange...... The two divorced, and Bai Jingxu had the matter of getting married to Dugu Yunqi quickly, which was sad enough.

"Where are you, I order you to come out at once, or I'll be done with you. A woman's voice suddenly came from the aisle, Xu Jia was slightly stunned when she heard this, this voice was very familiar to her, Yu Man...... Her agent and friend, but she doesn't fall in love with her Qin Hao, how could she come here, how does she know the address here? Xu Jia walked out of the door, and saw Yu Man with his hand to his mouth, Xiao Chuchu holding Orange Cheng and standing behind, fortunately, this is a high-end apartment, this floor also lives her and Wen Ze, and the other floors are all from the Wen family according to Wen Ze, but they are either abroad or running around, basically nothing major happens and rarely gathers together, in the Wen family, the affection is relatively indifferent, even father and son, Most of the relationships between grandparents and grandchildren are only superficial, and some of them are fighting fiercely because of the open and secret battles for interests, so they almost tear their faces.

When Yu Man saw Xu Jia, he immediately rushed over, hugged Xu Jia tightly, and screamed, "You have no conscience, you didn't inform me when you left, even if you didn't tell me when you went back, how could such a thing as dividing property be missing from me? If you want me to say, you should ask Bai Jingxu, that bastard, to leave the house, if it weren't for the rotten peach blossoms he provoked, so many things wouldn't have happened." Xu Jia felt that his eardrums were about to be punctured by Yu Man, but Yu Man didn't stop, holding her and moving, Xu Jia helplessly patted Yu Man's back: "Calm and calm, your voice can be heard almost in the whole building, and how did you find it?" Even Bai Jingxu couldn't find here, but thinking of Xiao Chuchu behind Yu Man, Xu Jia didn't feel "surprised", after all, her residence was warm! Xiao Chuchu wanted to know, and he could ask from Wen Run.

Orange kept struggling in Xiao Chuchu's arms, Xiao Chuchu hurriedly put Orange on the ground, she didn't think that Orange Orange could break free from her arms, but she was afraid that Orange Orange would accidentally kick her stomach, she was almost three months old now, and she would almost be pregnant in three months, and now her stomach has been slightly prominent, if she was kicked by Orange Orange, it would be over. Orange Orange ran to Xu Jia's face, Xu Jia squatted down and hugged Orange Cheng tightly, Orange Cheng was hugged by Xu Jia and said to Yu Man: "Dad is not a bastard, it's all because of that aunt, it's that aunt's father who divorced Mom." For this thought, Bai Jingxu and Bai Xinling, as well as Chen Chen, Xiao Chuchu, and Chu Ye, did not instill it in him, because they were all friends with Dugu Yunqi, and they had "sympathy" and "unbearable" for Dugu Yunqi At that time, Cheng Cheng was having trouble with Bai Jingxu every day, and he had to find something to do for Bai Jingxu almost every day, but he was unwilling to get close to Bai Xinling and them, including Yuqing. But he likes Xiao Chuchu very much, sometimes Xiao Chuchu can't control it, so he leaves it to Wen Run, Wen Run is more gentle, and likes to reason with him, if you are angry or sad, you can talk to Wen Run, Wen Run will chat with him patiently, and he will not be as angry as Bai Jingxu.

Wen Ze stood at the entrance, holding his hands against the wall and looking at Orange Orange with a smile, Orange Orange couldn't help but tremble, Wen Ze didn't hit him, but scolded him, and scolded him very hard, scolded so much that he couldn't speak, he knew that what Wen Ze said was reasonable, but he just felt very aggrieved and hated Wen Ze. Especially when Bai Xinling told him that Wen Ze might be aiming to be his stepfather, he hated Wen Ze even more, and he must stay by his mother's side all the time, so as not to be "taken advantage of" by this beautiful but "insidious" uncle.

"What's the matter, little bit, why are you looking at my expression so unwillingly?" Wen Ze said with a smile, walked to Xu Jia's side, stretched out his hand and wanted to touch Orange Cheng's head, but Orange Orange avoided it directly, looking at Wen Ze's eyes was very hostile: "I'm not a little bit, I'm already a man, I want to protect my mother, Aunt Xinling said that you are a bad person who wants to rob your mother, I won't let you get close to your mother." Orange Orange's words were "sonorous and powerful", but the person was too small, and he was still held in his arms by Xu Jia, which was really not imposing. Xu Jia looked at Orange Orange with some tears and laughter, and scratched Orange Orange's nose: "...... What nonsense?"

Xu Jia and Yu Man chatted for a long time, during which Cheng Cheng kept staring at Wen Ze, almost didn't let his eyes out, but Wen Ze kept looking at Xu Jia and Yu Man with a smile, Yu Man pulled Xu Jia "tears" and said a lot, and finally looked at Xu Jia very resolutely, clenched his fists and said: "No, I don't feel at ease when you are here alone, I heard that you already have a slight depression, and nothing will happen, right?" I heard that depression will commit suicide, and it will relapse, I don't want to see you for the rest of my life." ”

In today's society, anxiety and depression are already a common mental illness, and the main manifestations are only pessimism, hopelessness, irritability, changes in eating habits, insomnia, decreased interest or distraction, suicidal thoughts, resistance to performing social duties, extreme fatigue, slow response or sensitivity, etc.

As long as the above symptoms exist for a long time, find a psychiatrist for consultation as soon as possible, and get treatment for anxiety and depression in time, as long as there are no accidents, it is nothing, not to mention that Xu Jia is only initially mild, basically there are more or less stressed people now, Xu Jia has been treated a lot by him during this time...... Of course, Xu Jia's strong ability to resist pressure is also an important factor, if he wasn't surprised that Xu Jia recovered so quickly, and asked, he wouldn't have imagined that Xu Jia's childhood was so bumpy...... The illegitimate daughter was abandoned, orphanaged, abducted, and replaced, but fortunately, Xu Jiacai was not crushed by a series of blows.

But Dugu Yunqi's illness ...... Wen Ze couldn't help frowning when he thought of this, as a psychiatrist, he had a great interest in any patient with a difficult condition, but although Dugu Yunqi's situation seemed to be fine, he could guarantee that Dugu Yunqi's heart was very uneasy, she was just calm on the surface, if she was a little "wind and grass", she might do something drastic. And her depression is caused by "love but can't", her love for Bai Jingxu, and her persistence in wanting to be with Bai Jingxu will make her want to live regardless of being together, and this kind of life is probably very painful.

If you want to cure Dugu Yunqi's depression, you must know the cause of depression, although according to the information he obtained, his love for Bai Jingxu must not be a big reason, but there are other possibilities. Wen Ze raised his head to see Yu Man and Xu Jia crying and laughing, he really couldn't insert the topic he was talking about, and there was an orange orange next to him looking at him "tigerishly", he couldn't keep a smile and his face was not stiff.

Orange Cheng soon found that the "under-flat" smile on Wen Ze's face disappeared, and his mood was a little better, but he didn't know that all Wen Ze was thinking about was Dugu Yunqi's condition.

One is the personality factor. People with pessimistic personalities, poor self-confidence, poor grasp of life events, and excessive worry are the ones who are prone to depression. It can exacerbate the stimulus of a psychologically stressful event and interfere with the individual's processing of the event. Most of these personality traits are developed in childhood and adolescence, when mental trauma has a great impact. Dugu Yunqi grew up to be independent, optimistic, Strong self-confidence, and forge ahead, but Dugu Yunqi did have pessimism in his childhood, poor self-confidence, poor grasp of life events, excessive worry, etc., it was the pressure of later life and the white eyes of others that changed Dugu Yunqi, so Dugu Yunqi still has those factors in his heart, but it is just suppressed, these will definitely get worse and worse if there is no catharsis point, and now Dugu Yunqi is so serious as soon as he appears depressed, and there are also reasons for childhood factors.

The second is genetic factors. If a family member has depression, the risk of developing the disease in a family member is high, which may be a genetic cause of increased susceptibility to depression. Among them, bipolar depression is more hereditary. However, not everyone with depression has a family history, suggesting that inheritance is not the only decisive factor. Wen Ze unconsciously touched his chin, it was his subconscious habit of thinking, when he thoroughly investigated Dugu Yunqi, he naturally also found Dugu Yunqi's mother, Dugu Yunqi's mother is a "strange woman", more than 30 years ago, the attitude towards "IVF" was still "wavering", feeling that IVF was not his own, Dugu Yunqi's mother not only did "IVF" but also through "theft", without the knowledge of Dugu Yunqi and Dugu Ye's father, he wanted to catch up with the wife of the real brand. In the end, Dugu Yunqi's mother died of illness because she was "depressed in the heart", which can also be said to be "depressed", and according to his guess, Dugu Yunqi's mother is likely to suffer from depression, otherwise Dugu Yunqi was only a teenager at that time, how could she have witnessed her mother's suicide and self-harm many times, and sent her mother to the hospital several times, Dugu Yunqi's mother's eyes were not very good, because of "crying every day", she cried her eyes hard. So with the above symptoms, Wen guessed that Dugu Yunqi's mother may have a very serious depression, and it was because Dugu Ye and Dugu Yunqi were still young that their mother gritted her teeth and did not commit suicide...... The terrible thing about depression is that people will have the idea of giving up everything, but as long as the patient still has nostalgia for the world and has enough faith and perseverance, he can persevere. Therefore, the genetic factor, Dugu Yunqi also accounts for all.

The third is environmental factors. Falling out of love, strained relationships, financial difficulties, or dramatic lifestyle changes can all contribute to depression. Sometimes the occurrence of depression is related to physical diseases, and some serious physical diseases, such as stroke, heart attack, hormonal disorders, etc., often trigger depression and aggravate the original disease...... Dugu Yunqi seems to have taken it all, Bai Jingxu's "stalking" is that he can't catch up, the people of Dugu's family are excluded and looked down upon, Dugu Yunqi's physical condition is not optimistic, and two car accidents in a row ruined everything for her.

Fourth, biochemical factors. Disorders of biochemical substances in the brain are important factors in the onset of depression. It is now known that people with depression have a variety of neurotransmitter disorders in their brains.

People with depression have very different sleep patterns than mortals, so their mood is easily affected, and there are certain medications that can cause or worsen depression, and some drugs have mood-altering effects.

Wen thought of the last cause of depression, and thought that the information showed that Dugu Yunqi's brain seemed to have a hematoma, and later underwent a craniotomy to remove the blood clot. But in the last point, if it weren't for the intention of harming Dugu Yunqi, Dugu Yunqi should not have come into contact with those medicines.

In general, Dugu Yunqi is very dangerous, so many causes of depression, Dugu Yunqi almost all of them. Wen Ze began to think about how to cure Dugu Yunqi's depression, although he can be said to be the opposite of Dugu Yunqi, but it does not prevent him from being interested in Dugu Yunqi's condition, he is confident that he can deduce Dugu Yunqi's treatment plan in his mind, although he will never tell Dugu the treatment plan. Maybe you can also use it to trade with Bai Jingxu...... He proposed to ask for the custody of Orange Orange, he could treat Dugu Yunqi's condition on his behalf, and I don't know if Bai Jingxu would agree, since he divorced Xu Jia for the sake of Dugu Yunqi, it is conceivable how heavy Dugu Yunqi is in Bai Jingxu's heart, but Cheng Cheng is Bai Jingxu's only son, and this will also include the only one in the future, Xu Jia has difficulty giving birth, and Dugu Yunqi has been removed* It is impossible at all. It is basically impossible to exchange orange for Dugu Yunqi, especially when Dugu Yunqi can only live for a few years...... Dugu Yunqi's broken body doesn't know how long it can last...... It is also possible that in the case that Dugu Yunqi will not live long, Bai Jingxu wants Dugu Yunqi to live as long as possible, at least not to commit suicide and cut off his life, and Bai Jingxu gave up the custody of Orange Orange, at most he just gave it to Xu Jia, Xu Jia is Cheng Cheng's biological mother, and he doesn't have to worry that Xu Jia is not good for Cheng Cheng, or that he can't take care of Cheng Cheng alone, after all, Cheng Cheng was brought up by Xu Jia alone when he was a child, so thinking about it, there is really room for operation, Wen Ze thought about how to use Dugu Yunqi's illness to grab the custody of Cheng Cheng, but before that, he must eliminate Cheng Cheng's hostility towards him。

Wen Ze reacted in hindsight, and found that Orange Orange was still staring at him with an expression full of resentment, a little crying and laughing, he didn't care, he didn't really want to marry Xu Jia, it was just an excuse, Orange Orange would know sooner or later, but he couldn't get used to Orange Orange's "problem" , Life is in the world, there are nine times out of ten unsatisfactory things, it is impossible for everything to follow Orange Cheng's mind, not to mention that he does not marry Xu Jia, and Xu Jia will not necessarily return to Bai Jingxu's side, she may find a better person who is worthy of her love, and it is possible to live like that. However, Orange Orange's attitude is very likely to make Xu Jia "aggrieved", agreed to Bai Jingxu's "unreasonable request", and has to think of another way to cultivate his relationship with Cheng Cheng, so that he can completely forget Bai Jingxu, the "biological father", is a good way, after all, the child can't take blood relations so seriously, and Xu Jia raised him for four years, so that Cheng Cheng knew that Xu Jia was very sad, plus he attracted Orange Cheng's attention...... It seems that we have to contact Yuwen as soon as possible and send Orange Orange to him.

Wen Ze thought about it, and showed a smile at Orange Orange, Orange Snorted coldly, and turned his face away arrogantly, the smile on Wen Ze's face became even brighter, and then began to think about how to treat Dugu Yunqi.

The first method is to use medication, antidepressants to treat depression, but also a class of drugs that mainly treat depressed mood, depressed mood, pessimism, and negativity. There are many kinds of such drugs, and since their introduction in the 50s, they have developed rapidly, especially in the last decade or so, many new antidepressants have emerged one after another. This kind of drug not only has antidepressant efficacy, but also has a certain effect on depression, obsessive-compulsive state and phobia, but it must be used carefully, there are many improper uses, I am afraid that it will aggravate the condition, and it needs to be adjusted according to the condition, and Dugu Yunqi's situation must rely on drugs to suppress emotions, and it is a three-point poison, eating too much is not good for the body, maybe it will have the opposite effect.

The second method is female hormone replacement therapy HRT, women suffer from depression rate is higher than men, women premenstrual, postpartum, postmenopausal hormones will change in the body, resulting in mood changes, often cause premenstrual syndrome, premenstrual unpleasantness, postpartum depression. This method can alleviate menopausal symptoms such as night sweats, hot flashes. Hormone replacement therapy itself may also cause depression, which is more dangerous, and it seems that Dugu Yunqi's depression is not a day or two, and it is not very appropriate to use this method, and this method can only be ruled out, which is too dangerous.

The most commonly used treatment for depression is reflexology, which mainly uses a technique to apply pressure to the fixed parts of the patient's hands and feet, and reflexologists believe that the human body has its own repair function, and the nerves in the hands and feet are connected to other parts of the body. By stimulating certain parts of the hands and feet, diseases can be treated through the principle of reflexology. But the heart disease is too serious, it seems a little unreliable, and he doesn't use this method very much, and he is not sure.

Another common approach is physiotherapy, which is a medical specialty that prevents, treats, and deals with movement problems caused by illness or injury because of the complex onset of depression. It is mainly based on the physical factors in nature and the principles and laws of human physiology, etc., to treat the patient's physical discomfort and pain treatment with appropriate non-invasive and non-drug treatment for local or systemic dysfunction or lesion of the human body, so that it can restore its original physiological function as much as possible. This is one of the more effective treatments for depression...... After thinking about it, it is more reliable to take the first medication plus proper psychological counseling, but it is estimated that Dugu Yunqi also uses this method, and it is impossible for Bai Jingxu to exchange the custody of Orange Orange, he has to think about it.

"What are we called? Sisters are like siblings, men are like clothes, what is it to abandon a piece of clothing for the sake of siblings? Even if you like it, it's not just a piece of clothing? It doesn't matter, sister doesn't care. ”

Wen Ze looked at Yu Man and patted Xu Jia's shoulder, said sonorously, and laughed a little: "It's brothers like siblings, women like clothes, right? But you and Jiajia are both women, and it's not wrong to say that sisters are like siblings, and men are like clothes, and it's nothing to throw away a piece of clothing for the sake of ...... siblings?

Jiajia didn't touch my "clothes" again, "Yu Man rolled his eyes and said, "...... If Jia Jia she touches my clothes...... Well...... It seems to be given to her, but it's just a piece of clothing, it's simply not worth mentioning compared to siblings, it doesn't matter if a piece of clothing is given to Jiajia, Jiajia will definitely be able to see it!. "No matter how you say that Bai Jingxu is the boss, Qin Hao has no way to compare at all, and it is impossible for Xu Jia to be interested in Qin Hao.

"If this is known to the people in your family, you will feel better. Xu Jia was both moved and a little amused when he heard this, if Yu Man's words were known by Qin Hao, it would be strange if Qin Hao easily let go of the man, Yu Man's face blushed when he heard this: "Who is the son of my family, my mother, I am still single and unmarried." ”

"That's pretty much it, looking at your current progress, it is estimated that it will soon be at the stage of talking about marriage, I am already having a showdown with Bai Jingxu now, and I am afraid it will be embarrassing to attend your wedding when the time comes. Xu Jia said with a wry smile, Yu Man and Qin Hao get along well, but it's a pity that she is so stiff with Bai Jingxu now, Yu Man is her best sister's wedding, she doesn't know whether to attend or not, Qin Hao is Bai Jingxu's right-hand man, when Qin Hao and Yu Man get married, Bai Jingxu will definitely go to the wedding, and everyone knows her marriage with Bai Jingxu, and the situation will be embarrassing at that time. But the relationship between Yu Man and her, if she doesn't go, Xu Jia is unwilling.

"Don't say that Qin Hao and I don't know when we will get married, even if we get married, I will never let Bai Jingxu come to my wedding, if Qin Hao dares to let Bai Jingxu come to our wedding, the old lady will definitely dump him." Yu Man said angrily, Xu Jia hugged her tightly, Xu Jia knew that Yu Man was angry for himself by saying this. And according to Yu Man's character, I am afraid that he will really do it, hurry up and stop it, Bai Jingxu is not only Qin Hao's boss, but also has the kindness of "appreciation" and "promotion" to Qin Hao, the two of them are also like friends, if Yu Man and Qin Hao get married, but Yu Man does not agree with Bai Jingxu to attend the wedding, Qin Hao will definitely be furious.

Seeing Xu Jia and Yu Man's "friendship person", Wen Ze looked at Orange Cheng and said, "How did you bring this child out."

Seeing that Bai Jingxu seems to be very nervous about this child, you take the child to see Jiajia, does Bai Jingxu know? If you don't know that you think the child has been abducted, it is not a trivial matter, and it is just a matter of making an oolong, just afraid of what will happen. ”

When Yu Man heard this, he looked at Xiao Chuchu, Xiao Chuchu was a little embarrassed not to look over, Yu Man sighed when he saw this: "Don't worry, although I secretly brought Orange Cheng to see Jiajia, no one knows, but before getting on the plane, I sent a message to Qin Hao, don't worry." "After Xiao Chuchu was pregnant, Chu Ye picked up and dropped off from school every day, except for at school, Chu Ye didn't let Xiao Chuchu go out very much, and felt that the first three months were not very safe, even if it was a dispute, Xiao Chuchu had to let Xiao Chuchu go out, and Chu Ye also had to follow him, otherwise Chu Ye was really not at ease...... But Xiao Chuchu felt uncomfortable, and felt that it was even more miserable than going to prison, and there was still time to let off the wind in prison! It happened that Cheng Cheng had asked for his mother who wiped his tears every day since Xu Jia left, Xiao Chuchu asked Xu Jia's current address from Wen Run, and then the two of them ran to this Weng City with their children. Now that I think about it, Yu Man feels a little hot, and it doesn't matter if she brings Orange Orange, why did she bring Xiao Chuchu, Xiao Chuchu is a "baby bump" in Chu Ye's hands, not to mention that she is pregnant with a child in her belly, if there is a bump on the road that touches Chu Ye, she will definitely not give up easily.

Xu Jia was originally very happy that Cheng Cheng was here, but when he heard Yu Man say that, he was a little unhappy in his heart. Bai Qinhao knew that Bai Jingxu also knew, so Bai Jingxu would definitely come soon and take Orange Orange away. She also wants to spend more time with Orange Orange, she misses Orange very much these days, and she is always worried that if Orange Orange doesn't choose her, but wants to be with Bai Jingxu, what should she do? Orange Orange is her life now...... Orange Cheng seemed to be able to sense Permit Jia's thoughts, jumped off the sofa, and ran to Permit Jia's face, Permit Jia bent down and stretched out his hand to hug Orange Orange, Orange Orange also hugged Permit Jia's neck, Permit Jia "sobbed", and the hand holding Orange Orange became more and more forceful, Orange Orange said very well-behaved: "Mom, I'm not going back, I want to live with you." "I must not let my mother and this nasty beautiful uncle continue to be alone, Aunt Xinling said that if this continues, my mother will not think about remarrying my father.

Xu Jia "um", crying even more, Wen Ze saw this and held his forehead helplessly, which is also a more significant feature of depression, sentimentality, like to shed tears, his son came all the way to see Xu Jia, Xu Jia should be happy, and Orange Cheng said that it is also a happy event to follow Xu Jia, and crying with joy is not such a "crying" method, right?

Although Wen Ze has been sitting on the sofa, there is no special action, but he handed a tissue to Xu Jia when he was crying, persuaded Xu Jia softly, patted Xu Jia's back, nothing to do with him, he sat on the sofa alone and looked at Xu Jia with a smile, it was simply full of Xu Jia, Yu Man was very satisfied with this, and when he loved someone, he paid attention to his sweetheart all the time. But what Yu Man didn't know was that Wen Ze didn't like Xu Jia to keep looking at Xu Jia, but because Xu Jia was very much like his girlfriend, and Wen looked at Xu Jia as if he was looking at his girlfriend. Fortunately, Yu Man didn't know, if Yu Man knew, Wen Ze didn't look at Xu Jia with affection, but regarded Xu Jia as his deceased girlfriend, Yu Man would definitely not give up...... Looking at Xu Jia, he was thinking about a dead man, is this using Xu Jia as a stand-in or cursing Xu Jia?