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Xiao Chuchu was dragged back by Yu Manlian, although he didn't know what would happen after he went back, Xu Jia was very worried that Bai Jingxu would soon come and take Orange Orange away, so he cherished every minute with Orange Orange. And Wen also understands Xu Jia's psychology, although he has always done the housework alone, but this time Xu Jia did not rush to do it, and he also expressed his understanding. But until two days later, Bai Jingxu had no news, and Orange Cheng spent two days with Xu Jia like that.
Xu Jia was very puzzled, and sent a message to Xiao Chuchu to ask about the situation, but Xiao Chuchu never replied, and then Xu Jia sent a message or WeChat phone Xiao Chuchu did not reply and answer, and called Xiao Chuchu directly to show that the phone was turned off. Xu Jia was very uneasy in his heart, and hurriedly made a call to Yu Man, Yu Man said again when he heard what he was talking about: "Chu Chu went to Weng City with me to see you that time, which angered Chu Ye, she is now locked up, and all communication tools such as mobile phones have been confiscated, and it is normal that she cannot be contacted." β
"That'...... Why hasn't Bai Jingxu come over to pick up Orange for so long?" Chu Ye loves Xiao Chuchu, is pampered rather than doting, of course, he sees Xiao Chuchu very strictly, what Xiao Chuchu wants to eat but can't eat on weekdays, Chu Ye can be ruthless and not let Xiao Chuchu eat. Not to mention that Xiao Chuchu came all the way here, it would be strange if Chu Ye didn't go crazy. What she was strange about was Bai Jingxu's attitude, Orange Orange had been staying with her, wasn't Bai Jingxu worried that Orange Orange would be persuaded by her and insist on following her?
ββ¦β¦ After Bai Jingxu found out, he immediately went to pick up Orange Orange, but it happened that Dugu Yunqi suddenly accidentally fell down the stairs, Dugu Yunqi was in a wheelchair, and the wheelchair also hit Dugu Yunqi, and he was immediately sent to the hospital by Bai Jingxu, and then he was delayed...... Of course, you are Orange Orange's own mother, one will not abuse Cheng Cheng and the other will not treat Orange Orange, that is, you, Bai Jingxu will rest assured. Although Yu Man made up the next few sentences in time, Xu Jia was still like falling into an ice cellar, and the position of Orange Orange in Bai Jingxu's heart was no longer as good as that of Dugu Yunqi? Orange Orange was Bai Jingxu's only child! Xu Jia suddenly had a feeling of "heart like ashes".
Wen noticed that Orange Orange was hiding in Xu Jia's room to "probe his brain", and Xu Jia opened the voice mode, Cheng Cheng naturally heard it, and Cheng Cheng immediately grinned and cried, Xu Jia realized that he threw down his mobile phone and ran quickly in front of Orange Cheng, even if he was in tears, his voice was also thick nasal, and he choked up from time to time: "Orange Orange, Orange Orange, Mom is still there." "Xu Jia has always been angry with Bai Jingxu before, but this is the first time that Xu Jia has reacted so clearly that he has nothing to do with Bai Jingxu, Dugu Yunqi is Bai Jingxu's wife, and it is reasonable for Bai Jingxu to ignore Orange Orange for the time being for the sake of Dugu Yunqi, who is called Orange Orange is here with her biological mother?
Seeing Xu Jia and Cheng Cheng hugging each other and crying together, Wen Ze felt a headache, covered his face, and raised his head: "Alas" It depends on the situation that Xu Jia's depression is going to be aggravated, and if Xu Jia's son wants to stay here, he still has to worry about taking care of the child, even if he takes care of the child, he has not helped Yuwen Shi take care of it, at least it can be said that taking care of the child is handy, the problem is that Xu Jia has depression, depression will not only commit suicide and self-harm, but also hurt others. Especially this child is still Bai Jingxu's, depression is not in line with the existence of emotions at all, even if you love your child again, you may do things that you regret because of love and hatred, such as postpartum depression.
Postpartum depression, also known as postpartum depression, is a woman's depression caused by physical and psychological factors after giving birth. Thoughts and actions that hurt children or commit suicide, in fact, most mothers who are willing to have children love their children, but mothers who suffer from postpartum depression will also hurt their children, and a big reason for Xu Jia's depression is because Bai Jingxu did not give Xu Jia enough security, and made Xu Jia sad, so this "dissatisfaction" with Bai Jing may be transferred to Xu Jia's body.
"Your child is also in kindergarten, right? I told your ex-husband before that as long as the child is with you, I can send the child to my best friend Yuwen Shi to be carefully taught by him in the myth of education. Wen Ze looked at Xu Jia and said seriously, in the past two days, Wen Ze and Xu Jia introduced the myth of Yuwen Shi in detail, and Xu Jia also knew from Yu Man that Wen Ze "is true", and if Wen Ze can really send Orange Orange to Yuwen Shi, Xu Jia also said that she will agree, even if she wants to be with Orange Orange again, she will not ruin the possibility that Orange can live a better life in the future.
"Do you want to send Orange Orange to your friend Yuwen Shi? But I'm not sure if Orange Orange's custody can reach my hands, and if I only go for a few days, will your friend be unhappy?" Yuwen Shi doesn't care there, let alone send it for a few days, even if it is sent for a few hours, my friend can also teach the child a lot of things, not only knowledge, but also in terms of dealing with people, sometimes the truth of life is far more useful than those knowledge, I am afraid that this child will be sent to my friend, this child will think that you abandoned him, and I think he should need some knowledge consolidation, so that he will not be inferior to other children, self-confidence is very important. All in all, Orange Orange must accept his teachings, at least contact those most basic things, and the next time Xu Jia will calm down his mood, and he will teach Orange Orange, he still has enough confidence to teach a kindergarten child, if it really doesn't work, he will throw the pot to Yuwen Shi again!
Wen Ze said that he wanted to teach Orange Orange, and Xu Jia naturally couldn't ask for it, but Cheng Cheng was very unhappy, and when Wen Ze took his hand into the study, he kept pouting and looked very unhappy, but Xu Jia was very happy, and Cheng Cheng could only follow Wen Ze.
"Come, tell my uncle, do you know how to pinyin, can you play with your mobile phone, can you type, or what else will you do?" Wen Ze sat behind the desk, this house is warm, so except for the living room and the room where Xu Jia lives now, the rest is almost locked, this study Xu Jia almost never comes in, but Wen Ze always cleans the study very clean...... Wen Ze has some cleanliness habits, which is also a common problem of doctors! But perhaps there is also a reason for the location, Wen Ze felt particularly cool as soon as he entered the study, sitting behind the desk, his hands on the table with his fingers interlocked, and looking at Orange Orange with a smile.
Orange Cheng didn't want to deal with Wen Ze, but thinking of Xu Jia's look of expectation, and said that Wen Ze's friend is a very good teacher, and the students he taught are all very powerful people, Cheng Cheng didn't want to disappoint Xu Jia, lowered his head and thought for a while, and said with his fingers: "The teacher taught pinyin, as well as arithmetic, I can do it, as for typing...... I play very slowly, and I can only ...... words taught by the teacher" Orange Cheng became quieter and quieter, but when he saw Wen Ze lying on the chair, he covered his face and said helplessly: "I'll go, how can I open my mouth with such an ordinary child, if you are a little older or smarter, or if you know a little more, it would be better! That kid will definitely take the opportunity to kill me......" Wen Ze was about to cry.
In fact, according to his friendship with Yuwenshi, he will definitely leave Orange Orange when he opens Yuwen, not to mention that Orange Orange's IQ is no problem, that is, he is relatively young, but Yuwen Shi has not raised a child younger than Orange Orange, the most exaggerated thing is that he and Yuwen have a pair of "wonderful" friends, this pair of strange friends also became husband and wife, gave birth to a child as a shopkeeper, the child was only two weeks old, and the two went to "travel the world" said that he didn't want to raise children, he and a group of friends had a terrible headache, all of them were single men and women, and they wouldn't take care of their children at all. Later, there was really no way, Yuwen Shi saw that the child had no one to take care of, almost grew up eating a hundred family meals, and before the full moon, he received his own side to raise, raised the child very well, spoke and walked faster than other children, and learned foreign languages when he learned his mother tongue, and knew more than other children, and even the other children around Yuwen Shi learned to take care of the children. It can be seen that Yuwen Shi should not refuse younger children...... Having said that, when it comes to education, children are more advantageous when they are younger, after all, they are more malleable and easier to teach.
And Yuwen Shi also raised a "imbecile" with a relatively low IQ, even if he can't correct the IQ of an imbecile, he can let the "imbecile" learn the common sense of life, at least have a skill, and it is not difficult to live alone...... But even if Cheng Cheng is a child who is still in swaddling clothes or simply an imbecile, he is easier to speak! He can let the child receive the "edification" of mythology from an early age or give the imbecile a possibility to live, Cheng Cheng is not an imbecile or a genius, he is not too old or young, he just happens to be able to receive enlightenment, it is too ordinary. If Yuwen Shi knew that it was because of Xu Jia, he would definitely suspect that he was thinking about Xu Jia, and it would be very troublesome to explain it clearly at that time, even if it was explained clearly. Yuwen Shi saw that for the sake of his friend, he accepted the child Orange Orange, and he definitely wanted to give Yuwen Shi something.
What does Yuwenshi like? Famous wine, there must be a vintage, he likes to put it on the counter to see, sometimes he is in a bad mood or in a good mood, open it and drink! Yuwenshi can see it, there must be a price and origin that makes him heartache, the problem is that if Yuwenshi is "cautiously" collected, his heart is not so painful, if he is drunk by Yuwenshi, or is drunk by someone who goes to Yuwenshi......
Yuwen Shi also likes precious porcelain and antiques, saying that it has the charm of historical precipitation, but from time to time there are drunks or lovelorn people there in Yuwen to talk about their depression and troubles, and most of those "priceless" antiques have become broken porcelain pieces in one place, and Wen Ze feels congested when he thinks about it.
And Wen Ze also likes books, and if he wants to give books, he must send them that money can't buy...... Wen Ze suddenly sighed, Orange Orange's heart tightened, Wen Ze looked at Orange Orange, and said very solemnly: "That's ...... Uncle teaches you as much as he can, and then it is easier to go back and say to his friends, of course, if you really can't learn it, your uncle won't force you, your uncle's friend is a very powerful genius, there is nothing he can't do, only whether he is willing to do it. "Teach the child as much as possible, if the orange really can't learn, then he has no other way, since he promised Xu Jia, even if he lets go of this cheek, he will let Yuwen Shi accept the child of the orange orange. It's just that I'm a little distressed at that time, the things that Yuwen wants are not so easy to find, and they are not something that money can buy. It can be said that the things that Yuwen likes are priceless, even if he is rich, he has to have a way, someone sells it, and he prefers to have that kind of thing to pick up.
Orange looked at Wen Ze's expression, and unconsciously shrank a little, although he hated Wen Ze very much, Wen Ze still left a big psychological shadow in his heart when he scolded him before, he was afraid that Wen Ze would teach him, if he didn't, Wen Ze would beat him.
Wen Ze stretched out his hand and touched Orange Orange's face: "Don't be afraid, Orange Orange, right? If you are obedient, your uncle will not lose her temper, and her mother will not cry, so be obedient, okay? Uncle doesn't teach children much." Hearing this, Orange looked at Wen Ze's eyes with great fear, and nodded a little hurriedly, Wen Ze began to worry about what the general standard of children there was when Yuwen was there...... The children there are all geniuses in Yuwenshi, if Orange Orange can't compare, it is easy to feel inferior, especially when Yuwen Shi now has so many children at home, it is impossible to be as keen as before, but Xu Jia and Bai Jingxu will fight for the custody of the child for a few months at most, and he can't teach Orange Orange to be the same as the children there in Yuwen Shi in a few months...... Or, ask Yuwen for help?
Wen Ze was troubled until the end of the day or asked for help from Yuwenshi, Yuwenshi was playing abroad, the time difference was different, Wen made several calls, Yuwenshi answered: "Hey!" Yuwenshi slept in a daze, but only people he knew his mobile phone number were people he was more familiar with, so he didn't need to quickly change into a formulaic mask like facing those who were unfamiliar but had to deal with him.
"Ah, let me ask you a question. Wen Ze covered his face, looked at Orange Orange and said weakly: "Four or five-year-old children are in your place, to what extent is it normal?" It is not a problem for him to teach a child, the problem is that it is troublesome to teach Yuwen Shi to the same level as the children there, if it is really not good, talk to Yuwen Shi to see if Yuwen Shi can make up for Orange Orange first.
"Four or five years old?" Yuwen Shi was very surprised when he heard this, and was very puzzled by Wen Ze's question, but still replied: "Generally speaking, four or five-year-old children can calculate within ten digits, understand their own names, and know some ABCs...... My children here, you also know, I raise children here, completely teach those knowledge as common sense, and I prefer to cultivate children's interests and hobbies, they have their own strengths, so for a while, you let me say what I raise four or five-year-old children do, a little ...... I can't say it, the children I raise like a lot of things, to raise children according to my standards, it's not an ordinary difficulty, it's not that I'm proud, it's not that I boast, the children I raised, even if they are mediocre, are better than those so-called geniuses......" Yuwenshi's tone was full of pride, not because of his name, but because none of the children he taught were mediocre, he tapped the child's potential to the greatest extent possible, and helped the child to play out.
"Hey, don't go too far! Wen Ze said with some tears and laughter, Yuwenshi is a more modest, steady, and calm person, and only when he talks about his students who have grown up single-handedly, he will rarely be so proud...... He and Yuwenshi can be said to be "bamboo horses", they grew up together since childhood, Yuwenshi's family background is a little better than the Wen family, but there is such a pair of parents who have no feelings and are purely interested in marriage, Yuwenshi is indeed nothing to be proud of.
But...... In addition to education, Yuwenshi is also a leader in other fields, including his favorite psychology, Yuwenshi also published many papers along the way and obtained a doctorate, basically Yuwenshi is a natural genius, there is nothing he can't do, including in the business world, Yuwenshi also relies on his own efforts to do business, and has obtained a lot of money, so Yuwenshi does not need to rely on education to make money, but can teach children wholeheartedly. For example, Xu Jia's ex-husband Bai Jingxu is a business genius, but Yuwenshi's achievements are not inferior to Bai Jingxu, he also has his own company, and he also goes to work when he needs it on weekdays, and those children who are old are also sent to kindergartens and schools, in Yuwenshi's view, the necessary interpersonal communication is essential, Yuwenshi is not so much a leader in life as a glorious teacher, but more like a family nanny, not only to teach children to deal with family conflicts, but also to teach children to learnγ Even if he is a tutor, he only needs to teach his children to learn, and even if he is a nanny, he only needs to do housework. Yuwen Shi basically occupies all of them, Wen Ze actually doesn't understand, Yuwen Shi takes children to teach children all day long, teaches children to deal with conflicts at home, and sometimes has to contact children's parents because of children's native environmental problems, what is he for? What can he get? He is already a myth in the education world, a myth in various fields, he has honor, he is not short of money, he is not short of reputation, basically nothing is lacking, Yuwen Shi is already a standard winner in life, Yuwen Shi teaches children, what can he get? If he likes children, why is he determined to be a Dink family after he gets married, and is unwilling to have a child.
If it is because Yuwen is bored, then why doesn't Yuwen Shi go out to travel and play as a backpacker with a backpack like before? Teaching children is simply a thankless task, and it is even more difficult to break the heart than to study for a doctorate.
"Those children were taught by me, they are my pride, I am proud of them for being so good, I am not a big tongue, at least I dare to say that I am a myth in the education world, and I will never mix any water. Yuwen Shi "haha" smiled, Wen Ze played the "essence" of "bad friends": "I know, I know that you like children, think they have achievements, you are very happy, I don't understand what you think, even if you like to teach children, like to be a teacher, then you don't need to dedicate your life to these children! You can give birth to a child to raise yourself! There is no reason why you are all going to raise other people's children, you ...... If this continues, if your wife doesn't divorce you, I will have your surname. β
"......" Yuwenshi was silent, Wen Ze was a little drumming in his heart, don't that rumor be true, right? For Yuwenshi's determination to be a Dink family after marriage, refusing to have a child born, Yuwenshi's two elder brothers, including Yuwenshi's mother, raised Yuwenshi's ears to Yuwenshi, and even his mother even almost knelt down Yuwenshi gave birth to a child, so he did not hesitate to "soften" Yuwenshi's wife and the wild girl in his eyes, hoping that Yuwenshi's wife and Yuwenshi would say that they wanted to have a child.
Wen Ze was still very surprised that Yuwen Shi was determined to be a Dink family at that time, because he ran away from home or was kicked out of the house for four years, he didn't contact those friends, and the contact with Yuwen Shi was only contacted in the last two years, if he didn't have a memory disorder, he remembered that Yuwen Shi liked children very much, and felt that the existence of children in marriage was complete, even if he was forced to marry in the future, he would try his best to fall in love with the object of marriage and give the child a complete and happy family, but a friend told him something that surprised himγ
Yuwenshi's wife Yun Fanyin and Yuwenshi seem to be high school classmates, sweet and sweet when they are together, affectionate and loving, but how can the first love be so beautiful, many things follow one after another, and each other is the first love The two people don't know how to deal with emotional problems at all, resulting in this love ending without a problem, and they hate each other so much that their teeth itch, and then Yuwenshi left the country to distract himself, and when Yuwenshi wanted to try to redeem it a few months later, he knew that Yun Fanyin was actually pregnant, but he couldn't find any trace of him, he had left the country, Yun Fanyin gritted her teeth and gave birth to the child in her belly despite the opposition of her parents, but after being pregnant for a few months, Suddenly the child in the womb had no fetal heartbeat, and had to do labor induction surgery, which is said to have been beaten down by a pair of formed dragon and phoenix fetuses.
Yun Fanyin has lost the ability to have children since then, and it is precisely because of this incident that Yuwenshi saw his heart clearly, and since then he has identified Yun Fanyin, because Yuwenshi's mother thinks that if a woman can't have children, she can't be considered a woman, and Yuwenshi is afraid that Yun Fanyin will be embarrassed, so she lied that it was Dink's...... Yuwenshi's medical skills are also outstanding, if what that friend said is true, Yuwenshi is estimated to be unable to cure Yun Fanyin, then Yun Fanyin has no hope of having children.
ββ¦β¦ Eh, how did I find out that our topic is getting farther and farther away? I can only tell you that if it is a child who is taught by me, I can guarantee that they will not be inferior to ordinary children, but if it is other children, I have no guarantee, and a child of four or five years old, his creativity and personality must be reflected in all aspects from toys, and I don't know the child you asked, so I can't give you an answer. Yu Wenshi said, his tone was very brisk: "I said, why did you suddenly ask about a four- or five-year-old child, don't you kid make an illegitimate child, right? I remember that you used to be a romantic playboy." β
It would not be surprising if Wen Ze suddenly had an illegitimate child, this guy used to be a very attentive person, he had a genuine girlfriend, and he was a sweetheart, and he didn't retreat, and later the death of his girlfriend made Wen Ze wake up. It is normal to have an illegitimate child, that is, if you have an illegitimate child, will the mother of the illegitimate child marry Wen Ze? Otherwise, on the premise that Wen Ze has an illegitimate child, the marriage will have to be lowered several grades, and maybe she thinks that she has a son, and she is not even willing to get married.
"How is that possible?" Wen Ze glanced at Orange Cheng with a smile: "I used to be a bit of a bastard, but I'm not stupid enough to get it irretrievable, bastard...... It's a friend's child, I want to send him to you to study for a while, my friend is divorced, you know, single-parent families will always have some impact on the child, send the child to you, even if you don't learn anything else, it's good to adjust your mentality, at least don't want to match your parents to remarry every day, in fact, it's a tragedy if the inappropriate person is together. But I want to find you, your child is too powerful, if the child is sent to you rashly, I am afraid that the child will have an inferiority complex. β
Wen Ze is not worried about Yuwenshi's refusal at all, Yuwenshi likes children very much, and he also likes to teach children, the reason why he rejects others is because he is not familiar with the relationship, and he is a myth alone, how many people "come here"? There are so many children who want him to teach, he really can't teach them.
ββ¦β¦ There is nothing wrong with sending a child to me, but the child will not have low self-esteem, right? As long as the child is willing to learn, I can teach the child well, what is there to be inferior? It is nothing more than a question of the starting line. Yuwenshi said: "Just buy more toys that are conducive to intellectual development and handicrafts for children to play with, and then children at the age of four or five can read books, right? β
"What kind of books do you read if you can't read?" Wen asked a little puzzled, Orange Orange is illiterate, even if he is literate, he will have some basics, and he must learn all the Chinese characters when he reads, right? The most important thing is that even if he is literate, can a four or five-year-old child understand the content?
Also, remember to choose books for your children, because there are too many educational contents, and if you read too much, your children will lose interest in reading. On the contrary, there is no obvious dogmatic book, but children will like to read it, and many things always imperceptibly affect children, that is, the sentence "moisturizing things silently". Yuwen Shi was a little helpless, it seemed that Wen Ze was going to teach the child who didn't know who it was, and he felt that if Wen Ze taught him like that, he would definitely teach the child biased. Yuwenshi hesitated for a moment and said: "Before I teach the child, I like to look at the child, test the child's talent in all aspects, recently I am going to return to China from a trip, you send me the address, I will go to see the child." It's good to have a clear plan for this. "Every child is different, whether it is talent, personality, hobbies, all kinds of aspects, so to teach according to aptitude, I feel that Wen Ze teaches, that child may be good also taught by Wen Ze, has been a teacher for a long time, he can't bear to be ruthlessly destroyed by the good flowers of the motherland, and he is ruthlessly determined to end this trip. Forget it, he hasn't seen his wife for a long time, so go back and accompany her.
"Hmm" Wen Ze responded, but his mind was on what Yuwen said just now, what is better to buy toys, and picture books, it is estimated that I have to find Xu Jia to buy it, r He is an older and unmarried middle-aged man, and he has never raised children, how do you know how to buy those things, but it is also a good thing for Yuwen to come in person, and he ran around again, Wen Ze hung up the phone and looked at Orange Orange:" Uncle's very powerful friend came in person, and when the time comes, Orange Orange has to behave well, that uncle is very famous, and many people want to find that uncle to dial a little. β
ββ¦β¦ I ......" Orange Orange suddenly looked at Wen Ze with "tears in his eyes", Wen Ze was a little inexplicable, why did Orange Orange suddenly look at him like this? Orange Orange suddenly cried out with a "wow", and then slipped off the chair and ran out in small steps, but the door lock of the study was a little messy, and Orange Orange stood on tiptoe and stretched out his hand and couldn't touch it, Orange Orange was so anxious that he banged on the door desperately, and the shouting was so loud that it was estimated that it could be heard outside, Wen Ze looked at Orange Orange with interest, and was very curious about Orange Orange's behavior.
Orange Cheng kept crying and crying, but he didn't want to leave Xu Jia to go to Yuwenshi, Wen Ze understood that the relationship was the child's "mother-love plot" or afraid that he would take the opportunity to "two people's world" with Xu Jia, Wen Ze didn't bother to get involved in this matter, he didn't really want to marry Xu Jia, but he was not used to seeing Bai Jingxu like that, so he said to Xu Jia that he wanted to get married, and it was normal for the child to be hostile to him without knowing it, but he was too lazy to take care of it, so as not to be more troublesome.
But...... Bai Jingxu's heart is too big, because of a "benefactor" with friendship, the nominal wife doesn't care about the children, but he said in front of Bai Jingxu that he wanted to marry Xu Jia, Bai Jingxu is not afraid that he will buy Orange Orange, and then Orange Orange doesn't know Bai Jingxu, his biological father?
In the end, Orange Cheng was brought up by Xu Jia alone, for Bai Jingxu...... Even if Bai Jingxu treats him well, Bai Jingxu is Orange Orange's biological father, but Orange Orange's concept of blood relationship should still be very thin, as long as he treats Orange Orange better, and then let Orange Orange clearly understand that Bai Jingxu abandoned their mother and son, you can separate Bai Jingxu and Orange Orange father and son...... But Wen Ze won't do that, he doesn't lack a son or has a psychological problem, he has to separate the feelings of father and son, even if Xu Jia and Bai Jingxu have no possibility in this life, but the blood relationship between Cheng Cheng and Bai Jingxu or Xu Jia is inseparable, not to mention that he has no idea about Xu Jia, even if he is really with Xu Jia one day and becomes Cheng Cheng's stepfather, he will not be stupid enough to take Bai Jingxu's place.
Seeing that Xu Jia's mood was somewhat relaxed, Wen Ze said lightly: "It is impossible for us to pin the child to the waistband of our trousers, the child always has to go to school, if you are really reluctant to let such a young child as Orange Cheng leave you, Yuwen Shi should live in my house for a period of time at that time, and you can let Orange Cheng and Yuwen Shi cultivate their relationship first...... Yuwen Shi is very likable to children, and he is also very gentle, as long as it is not a big mistake of principle, he will not lose his temper with his children like me, you can rest assured of this, and Yuwen is rich, and he will not treat your son badly in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation, he can give you more and better than Bai Jingxu, this is "undoubt......ed" "Wen Zeyue said, Xu Jia became more and more shaken, Wen Ze looked at Orange Cheng and was about to cry and smiled slightly: "And...... I'm afraid that you are not suitable for raising a child in your current situation, so you actively accept my treatment and send the child to Yuwenshi, which is also conducive to you to grab custody. β
The custody of the child should also consider whether both parents have diseases, although it is mild, but it will still affect the ownership of custody, but Xu Jia's condition is not serious, and he actively accepts the treatment of a psychiatrist, so there will be no obstacles, especially the famous name of Yuwenshi...... can give children a better life and give children a better education, both of which affect the ownership of custody, and Yuwenshi is top in both education and living environment.
"Orange Orange, good, that friend of my uncle is a very famous teacher, if ordinary people can't find that teacher to teach you, it's my uncle's kindness. Xu Jia hugged Chengcheng and coaxed softly: "Look, you are also going to kindergarten on weekdays, and you are also going to leave your mother." "Yuwen Shi stays there from Monday to Saturday, and can go home on Sunday, if the distance is too far, he will go home once a month, and if he voluntarily stays there, Yuwen Shi will certainly not rush people. What's more, Wen said that Yuwen Shi would live with him for ten days and eight days, and it was possible for half a month or a month, so at least he would not be separated from Orange Orange in the near future.
Orange Cheng coquettishly said: "I don't want it! I think the teacher in the kindergarten is very good, and Aunt Xinling said, there is nothing to be done, and it is either a traitor or ......a thief" When she said this, Orange Cheng stared at Wen Ze deadly, Wen Ze didn't seem to hear it, watching TV by herself, eating frozen lychees in her mouth and eating very refreshingly. Xu Jia has the urge to cover his face and want to cry, Bai Xinling not only teaches Cheng Cheng to do this, but also teaches Yuqing the sentence "Nothing to do, either treachery or theft", mainly because he is afraid that the child will be easily deceived, but he didn't expect Cheng Cheng to "live and learn" now, and he is here for Wen.
Xu Jia lowered his face coldly: "What is the meaning of being attentive and stealing? Uncle is kind, uncle sent you to such a powerful teacher, mother is very grateful uncle, ...... in the future Don't learn from Aunt Xinling what you don't have, have you heard it? Xu Jia suddenly had a nameless fire in his heart, and he had the urge to get angry, knowing that although Cheng Cheng deliberately hated Wen Ze, it was also very normal for children, but Xu Jia just wanted to be angry. Orange Orange was stunned for a moment when Xu Jia yelled like this, and then tears fell.
"Don't cry" Seeing Orange Orange crying, Xu Jia was obviously very distressed, but the unknown anger became hotter and hotter, making Xu Jia angry at Cheng Cheng, in fact, he regretted it, but when he wanted to apologize, Cheng Cheng had already run back to the room, listening to the sound coming from inside, Cheng Cheng should have locked the door, Xu Jia walked quickly to the door and stretched out his hand to knock on the door, but when he stretched out half of it, he retracted his hand, turned around and walked back, Wen Ze looked at Xu Jia very puzzled: "Don't you go to coax your son?" If such a young child hides alone in the room, it will be a big problem if something happens. And you shouldn't lose your temper with your child, he said that he has nothing to do, he is either a traitor or a thief, your child thinks so, it means that he has a sense of vigilance? And this is also taught by others to say it, how can you lose your temper with your child? I think it shouldn't, you should also say it well, you can't lose your temper with your child in the first place, I lost my temper with your child before, just want him to understand the reason, and I am an outsider, and the harm caused by outsiders is far less than the harm caused by relatives. β
"......" Xu Jia was silent in response to Wen Ze's words, and Wen Ze sighed helplessly: "Your ex-husband didn't come to pick up your son because of another woman, so you were anxious, it seems that your depression has aggravated a little bit, and you actually lost your temper with your son uncontrollably, you will have no choice, either send the child back to your ex-husband's house, or send the child to Yuwenshi, the mother who loses her temper will cause an indelible shadow on the child." β