Caring for our daughter
Comrade Jia Yuhao:
Yesterday, my daughter said that she had a toothache, was in a bad mood, and was not in good spirits. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info was supposed to ask me to pick it up in the afternoon, but she didn't respond when I called and texted, so I didn't pick it up.
When I came back from work in the evening, the child was waiting downstairs and was very happy to see a big bag of snacks sent by my uncle!
When I got home, I looked at the child's tooth, and a pustule was in the gum, which I remembered before. I gave it an anti-inflammatory.
I also twisted my waist the day before yesterday, and yesterday I had a day of pain, and I was just as listless! In the evening, my mother cooked dumplings and ate them, and I watched my child write his homework for a while, and he couldn't sit still, so he went to lie down.
Seeing that the child was also listless, he told the child to get dressed, gave her a warm hand warmer, heated milk, and put a cup of hot water on her desk.
Probably because of the medicine, I was very tired and fell asleep at 8 o'clock. Doudou writes alone in the living room.
Doudou's test scores are not bad: 91 in Chinese, 98 in mathematics, and 93 in English. Overall, it's okay, I didn't manage the child too much this semester, she just took care of it herself, it seems that the child's self-care ability and learning ability are still okay.
The child finished his homework at 9 o'clock and went to play games for a while, and came to bed at 9:40, and I already squinted. Seeing that the child was in a bad mood, I asked if he was uncomfortable, and the child said that his teeth still hurt a little, and I had already taken cold medicine for chills at night.
It turns out that the child misses you! He misses his father when he is not feeling well! He also said that he was not good enough for his father!
How can you bear to put such a heavy mental burden on your child?!
Doudou said, "If I hadn't urged my dad to come home that day, my dad wouldn't have had an accident! If I had gone to my dad that day, my dad wouldn't have had an accident!"
The child has been blaming herself! I have enlightened her several times, and I told her that everything is predetermined by heaven and that manpower is irreversible, and since it has happened, it should or will happen! No one's fault! It is not her fault! Don't put this burden on yourself! Mom and Dad will feel sorry for her self-blame!
This morning I saw a text message sent to your mobile phone in the text message on Doudou's mobile phone: Dad, I made you have an accident, I'm sorry!
Again, I burst into tears!
What kind of situation is the child facing?
Therefore, I must be strong to give my child a clear, carefree and relaxed sky!
Last night, through my enlightenment, the child got better and fell asleep slowly. I tossed and turned, stayed up all night, and I had some dreams about you!
This morning, I talked to my child about some truth and reality, and the child seems to understand a little!
Yes, you are like a cloud drifting away, leaving the heaviness of life to us!
For the sake of the children, I will be strong and capable! For the sake of the healthy growth of the children, I am willing to endure any hardship!
I can't let my child go through any more stress that she shouldn't be under!
Oh, and tell you, Doudou will participate in the Nanning City Wind Band competition next week, saying that it is going to sprint for the gold medal!
I came back the day before yesterday and analyzed it myself: Then should we go to Beijing to perform by train or plane? It is estimated that it is a train, and how expensive the plane ticket is!
I said, "But you can buy a child ticket or a group ticket."
Daughter: Oh, how much is a child ticket or a group ticket, and is it more expensive than a train?
I said it shouldn't be much worse.
We continued to eat, and my daughter was still thinking about it, when she suddenly seemed to solve a difficult problem: Oops! Since CCTV invited us to perform, isn't the travel fee from someone else?!
I praised her analytical skills!
Last night, the children came back and said that they were going to take the train to Beijing to record the show.
I said I would be willing to pay for my parents' travel expenses!
My daughter is delighted!
That's all for today, I don't want to pay attention to you.
XW
2010.11.16