Chapter 178: Who Convinces Whom
Su Xiaoman complained: "Mom, you're not a teacher, why do you still talk in one set? Tell so many big and small truths? Aren't you tired? I'm still tired." β
Su's mother smiled: "Girl, don't bother, it's not that I'm talking about the truth, I'm just talking about people, it's not that this class nature must exist, the objective reality is here, and there is indeed a gap between us and them." Isn't it the first time we've met the Feng family's parents? Why did we hit it off? Why can't we talk about it for the first time? I've also met the Ou family's parents for the first time, why do I feel all kinds of awkwardness?"
Su Xiaoman looked at Su's mother speechlessly, Su's father couldn't help but laugh and watched Su's mother talk.
"Patience, patience, faintly, so as to maintain a peaceful and harmonious atmosphere, didn't you feel it at the time, didn't you see it?"
Father Su looked at Su Xiaoman: "How can she see it? At that time, she only cared about chatting and laughing with Ou Shangwen, how could she still care about observing the people and things around her?"
Dad Su was really right, Su Xiaoman smiled embarrassedly, yes, what Dad Su said was very accurate, in fact, it was really like this, at that time, she didn't put all her mind on observing the chat and getting along with the parents of both sides. So now I am not very impressed by their meeting, so I don't recognize my mother's feelings and what she said, I always feel as if I am not at the scene, probably when we met, Su Xiaoman really didn't pay much attention to others, and paid more attention to Ou Shangwen.
"There is a saying that although it is vulgar, it is particularly reasonable, which is called one thing descends one thing. People are divided into groups, and things are gathered by like, this word I have just discussed with your father for a long time, and I just happened to tell you about it. β
Su Xiaoman cried with a sad face: "You, Mom, Dad, haven't you been talking about it like this, and you've talked about it until now?"
Dad Su smiled: "Yes, we ate well, drank well, or drank tea, we didn't drink tea at night, but we were happy at the time, and the two of them drank tea, so we forgot about it and drank it with us, so it was also the role of tea." β
Su Xiaoman breathed a sigh of relief, she thought that the two of them couldn't sleep because of herself.
"That's what it means, it's not about tea. Su's mother still didn't want to admit it: "We're just worried about you! Are you talking about this gap!" Do you understand?" Su's mother felt that she was so disturbed by Su's father and Su Xiaoman, she couldn't find the original topic, so it was difficult to continue.
"Understood, you just think that the people of the Ou family are the people of our family, and they are not all the way at all. This is so arbitrary!"
Su's mother slapped her face: "Alas, that's right, it's not all the way." Su's mother didn't mind Su Xiaoman's statement at all: "You have said what I mean, that's what it means, we can't say that there are thousands of mountains and rivers between us and them, there is a lot of distance in the end, whether it is from the real geographical distance or the psychological distance, this difference exists, and we really can't ignore it." In order to persuade her daughter, Su's mother was really bitter.
"Okay, then I know, you just don't agree. Mom, are you in a bit of a hurry? Isn't the dust settled on that child's affairs now? Can't you put up with these grievances and complaints first? You just wait for the result to really come out, and when you are sure that Ou Shangwen is indeed not a good person, then it is not too late for you to say these things again. Su Xiaoman was still very dissatisfied with her statement, feeling too extreme and unfair, Su Xiaoman still couldn't help but roll her eyes.
Mother Su looked at Su Xiaoman's appearance of wanting to speak and stopped, angry and ridiculous: "I don't want to talk more about you, but I see that you are already so desperate to others, I won't instill some correct thoughts in you, is it okay?"
Dad Su laughed: "What kind of idea is this? Do you understand? Simply put, it is the idea of fairness and justice, and people do need some foundation to get along with people, that is, the foundation of us and their family is a little unbalanced, so there are some uncomfortable feelings, and this does exist." Nor can we ignore it, and avoidance is an irresponsible sign. β
Listening to Su's father's words, Su Xiaoman lowered her head and thought.
Dad Su continued to ask: "It's not too early, we want to ask the key question, okay? What do you mean? If this child is real, what are you going to do?"
Su Xiaoman looked at Su's father and Su's mother very seriously: "Do you really want me to tell the truth?
"yes, we want to hear what you're thinking. Su's mother looked at her daughter expectantly.
"What if you don't tell the truth? What if you do? I don't think it makes sense for you. Well, then I'll be honest, I know a lot about Aushanwen as a person, and I know his history, and it doesn't matter to me whether this child is his or not, it's all his history, it's the past, what does it have to do with me? I'm ten years away from him, yes, Mom, haven't you been talking about distance? We're ten years apart, and I can ask him to do nothing in those ten years? Just sit there and wait for me? Don't you think this woman is ridiculous?"
Father Su smiled secretly, and thought about it seriously, it was indeed what Su Xiaoman said, and the past ten years have been a hurdle. But who can't predict in advance, can't know in advance where his future lover will be? Indeed, in the past ten years, nothing has happened to him, and it is impossible. It is impossible for anyone to know what will happen ten years from now, and to be able to do something that can be very responsible and correct ten years later, and this is very difficult to do.
Even if a person who sincerely defends his marriage, he cannot guarantee that he will still be as loving and getting along as he was ten years ago, and people and things are changing forward, which cannot be denied. All three were silent and thoughtful.
"Mom, that's what I think anyway, no matter what the result is, for you there may be changes, fluctuations, for me, there is no change, he thinks what I want, how I should get along with him or how I get along, this matter has to do with others. In other words, it's about him, but it's not about me, and if I really have this child, he's going to let me raise him for him, right? That's another story. β
Dad Su felt that what Su Xiaoman said was still a little ridiculous: "Okay, we know your determination, but it's not right for you to say so, even if this child really exists, it must have something to do with you, how can you say it like it has nothing to do with you? Think about it, at least you are nominally a stepmother, you have to bear a certain responsibility, and you feel that it has nothing to do with you, naΓ―ve and ignorant!"
Su Xiaoman felt that she was also in a hurry, and thought about it carefully: "Think about it, if there is such a thing, it is really related." Okay, then I admit that this relationship exists, and I am fully mentally prepared to accept the appearance of such a person, it is not a big deal for me, it is you, you need to think about how to accept this matter! Of course, don't think about it now, think about it when the result comes out. I think it's a fake thing at all, a deliberate play to break us up. β
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Liu Lin didn't know Su Xiaoman's suffering, she knew that Ou Shangwen came to find Su Xiaoman, and after the two met sweetly, they were already happy and sweet, but when she saw Su Xiaoman, when Su Xiaoman came to work, she was directly listless, and her heart was very strange.
When the colleague walked away, Liu Lin hurriedly asked Su Xiaoman: "What's the matter? Why doesn't he look very happy when he comes? Not in good spirits? Aren't you?" Liu Lin looked at Su Xiaoman with a mysterious smile: "Have you fought all night?"
Su Xiaoman was angry and laughed at Liu Lin's appearance: "Don't talk nonsense, I didn't sleep in the middle of the night, no, I didn't sleep all night, I was angry with my mother." β
"Your mother? Didn't you say your mother had gone to dinner with that one?"
"Don't mention it, just because of the meal, she started to teach her all kinds of lessons, I haven't had time to settle accounts with Feng Xiangzhen, how can I ask her to help, but it's a disadvantage?"
Liu Lin looked at Su Xiaoman ignorantly and shook her head: "I don't understand, people did help you and gave you a chance to let the two of you date, why do you complain so much about others?"
Su Xiaoman sighed heavily: "You don't understand, the atmosphere is too good when they eat, it's too harmonious, and they chatted too happily, after coming back, my mother immediately thought of meeting with the Ou family's parents, all kinds of comparisons and comparisons, and I couldn't bear it directly." β
Feng Xiangzhen really helped a lot, and it wasn't really a big help, there was always some surprise, and it became a big help. After listening to this, Liu Lin couldn't laugh: "God, I thought that their meeting was an ordinary get-together, maybe they wouldn't be speculative." β
"Yes, I didn't expect it, I really didn't expect them to hit it off at first sight and talk so well. This is the end, and then my parents remembered the meeting with the Ou family's parents, and thought of all kinds of unfreedom and discomfort when meeting the Ou family's parents. Why didn't I notice it, I felt like I had added some imagination, right? Why didn't I feel it at all? Now listening to my mother, it seems that it was not a meeting at all, it was purely a crime. Alas!"
Liu Lin couldn't straighten up with a smile: "You see, this is the difference between the door and the wrong household." β
When Su Xiaoman heard this, she immediately glared at Liu Lin: "Shut up, don't say anything that is quite or relative." β