Chapter 83: Spend your heart and find your own goodness
Only when people have desires can they be easily recognized, and if they are greedy, they are easy to be seen through by others. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
Everyone has a weakness, and this weakness is called defenselessness, and everyone has helplessness, and this helplessness is called cowardice.
When you find that you are incompetent, it is not that you have no money, but that you have no friends who have no thinking and communication, and if you want to make money, you must know what a friend is and what a friend is to delay your growth.
Learn to dodge, dodge the waste of those materials, learn to guess, guess the height of life, learn to analyze, analyze the width of thinking, and you will find that your changes will be very fast.
Grasp the time, analyze the place, and see the people clearly.
People have changed, that's because of the yesterday behind them, people have the same, that's because of their own choices, people, all have errors, things, have an area of learning, people can be seen as jokes by others, can also be denied by themselves, when loss and gain become a line, there will be more to lose, and very little to see.
If you don't succeed in one year, it will be difficult to become a talent in ten years.
Reading a person, looking at one thing, or reading an angle that is not suitable for oneself, have their own ability to control, analyze the angle, guess around, when the language of the human soul, the angle of discourse, you will know that the language is not suitable for simple talking, but to know the skill of lightness, the law of high and low, the power of depth and shallowness, in order to see clearly, master the mastery.
Reading a book, looking at a person, or hiding something.
Some people can't do their best, that's because they can't read the perspective of life, and some people are not optimistic about others, that's because from the perspective of thinking and understanding, people have thinking errors, and their hearts have viewing errors, so there are many, many different formats, so that the language of fate is useless, and it is difficult to communicate with friends.
Stubbornness can lose nothing, and loneliness can recognize many things.
If you want to get something, you must first know what to give, what you want to ask, you have to know from what angle to ask, if you go wrong, or see the wrong sedan chair to marry the right man, you can't change your thinking angle, then your own thinking generation, you can't outline the best language, to speak the pattern of the soul will make it hard to believe.
Time, place.
Learn a landscape, talk about the key points, look at a person, look at the high and low and the disparity, when necessary, guess out a list that belongs to others, when necessary, figure out a care that belongs to yourself, if you can only say mistakes, do not analyze, expand the advantages, you will not be able to give others the generation of wisdom, and will delay the time for others to meet.
Road, a different road, is also a different fate.
Everyone feels that they say a lot, but how many people think that their words are wrong, when they go to failure, they may complain, anger, in fact, complaining and anger can not solve the problem, only find out the theory of failure, to ask their own errors, language errors, loss errors, life errors, why they are angry, why they complain.
The point is not what you want to say, but what others should hear.
Analysis, not one's own analysis is good, but the analysis that others need, useful for the value of the next step, and analysis is the best.
Language, the biggest picture in the pattern, can be picked up, it is the soul of life, and if you can let go, it is the attitude of fate.
In the man-made world, you have the focus of thinking, it does not mean that you have the time to analyze, and you will use the button of thinking to grasp the meaning of life, which will let you know that language is so magical and the pattern is so great.
Take a time to draw your own thinking, repeat yesterday's thinking cycle every day, and the thinking cycle will have one more year of generation, become one year of life, and count as two years.
People have an angle, which is called their own perspective, when they talk about others, they are fast enough, when they look at themselves, they are not timely enough, there is no sincere person in the language, they cannot see through themselves with wisdom, there is no kind person in the giving, and they are unable to find their own world with thinking.
When you find that others have made mistakes, don't be in a hurry to judge, when you see yourself lost, don't be angry, calm, stable, you will let yourself in chaos, gain a kind of wisdom, see an ideal, and explain a different soul.
The attitude of thinking is very simple, looking at people, closing the door with a word, or perfunctory or evading, for others, it is a kind of practice, but for yourself, it is a kind of growth, let the pattern open a window for the soul, and let life create a miracle for yourself.
Read a well-being, or look at a helplessness, you grasp a starting point of a person's world, may not see through the path of being a person's practice, remember, don't forget everyone's future, with sincerity, the most sincere heart, is the easiest to move.
When you find that you can't do anything, others may have hidden far away, and when others find themselves smiling, others are also smiling in their hearts, so give a smile, echo a smile, and let others see the sad person, in fact, you will not be pity.
When people respond to the sky, the sky responds to man-made.
Don't think that perfunctory makes others can't see through, don't think that falsehood makes others can't guess, many people don't speak, it doesn't mean that others don't know your hypocrisy.
Lonely people, can't find their best friends, if you establish yourself, friends will slowly get closer, if you are alienated from yourself, others will also avoid you.
Life is nothing more than two sentences, you go your own way, others watch you learn from experience, good for reference, bad for chatting.
A lifetime, very short, when you find shortcomings, maybe others in order to avoid you, only show, when you find other people's advantages, maybe others think about how to reject you, time is like this, other people's opinions, their own practices.
Speaking is an attitude, being a person is an idea, if you think wrong, it is very easy to make mistakes, if you do it wrong, think about it again, think badly, it is easier to make mistakes in the next step.
People who are good to you, who are worried that you are a liar, and people who are not good to you, are just to let you know what it is to be deceived and perfunctory, hated and rejected.
To be the best version of yourself, there is no need to always copy, to be the most sincere self, there is no need to always be perfunctory, to be the most beautiful self, there is no need to dress up too much to please others, because not everyone is worthy of pleasing themselves.
People's responsibility is not always to take, but to give, when you get it back, when you lose it, you don't need to care, why bother because of the rain and get wet with happiness.
Quietly, you see, this is the reality, when you misunderstand others, maybe there is a tangle in your heart, don't let the misunderstanding always entangle your heart, otherwise if the analysis occurs often, then the mistake will lead to greater failure in life.
A theory that can make a person's thinking go to the next level, a layer of wrong language listening, can also make one's thinking change a lot, but it lies in one's own control, if the control is not good, there will be a lot to lose, there will be a lot, a lot.
People who understand, know the key points of speaking, people who don't understand, know their own opinions, always express their own opinions, can't say what others are willing to understand, express the explanation of things, then all the analysis that comes from listening is waste paper, let yourself waste your life in vain.
To be a man, you have to have courage to go further, to see things, to see deeply, to know how capable you are.
It's easy to be a good person, it's hard to be a bad person, and a bad person takes a lot of brains, and it takes a lot of scrutiny, coincidence, preparation, and budget, and being a good person only needs to manage your own mouth, listen to other people's world, and don't infringe on many people's gains, so you can control the attitude of being a good person.
Don't always think that you are good, a good person is not a cold eye, nor is it perfunctory, flattering, but to be a sincere, kind, honest expression of thinking, and a sum of good souls.
Two people, one doesn't say, the other doesn't ask, the ending is very simple.
If a person does not understand others and does not think about himself, he may have a hard time going down.
A person who does not grasp the attitude, the heart is not wide enough, and the language is not sufficient, will also make people evade.
People have instincts, only then will there be mistakes, misses, incomprehension, loss of a piece of wisdom that belongs to others, and a share of regret that belongs to themselves.
To live, to live simply, is not to look at the shortcomings of others, nor to always boast of one's own merits.
Explain a person, there are 10,000 interpretations, express a statement, and have a hundred different reasoning, what you can master is not how to damage others, but how to make yourself recognize your own control and recognition.
A person can approach a person with wisdom, but also because of an experience to let others dodge, some people, with too much past hidden in their hearts, will choose a way to magnify their own shortcomings, let others avoid, some people, will choose to magnify their own strengths, let others approach.
No one will help you save your feelings, you have to know how to face yourself next time, no one will help you save a heart, you don't lose your heart because of others.
In life, many people look up to a person, look down on a person's family background, very few people, appreciate a person, will admire this person's family, thinking and analysis, not everyone will have a bodhisattva heart, not everyone has a tolerant and understanding attitude.
Life is a lifetime, but also a moment, many people repeat other people's language to praise themselves, many people repeat other people's ideas to choose marriage, the future, but only a very small number of people, thinking of avoiding the crowd, avoiding feelings, to manage their own future.
When you find out that you find the shortcomings of others, you are still you, and you may not find your own shortcomings, and when you find the advantages of others, you may not understand your own advantages.
People who have stories in their hearts, are afraid of getting hurt, and people who think fast enough can have a kind of hiding, not to look at the shortcomings to avoid, not to look at the advantages to get closer, but to master the scale, analyze others, and control themselves, in order to better treat the future.
There are people outside the world, not talking about themselves, but others, there is a sky outside the sky, talking is not the outside of the sky, but the inner sky, with the rejection in the heart, the gap in thinking, will let yourself to things, people, judgment and rejection, there is a certain error.
The world is so big, no one should be good to you, life is so far, who knows if they can live tomorrow, cherishing is not kindness, nor malice, sometimes it is just passing by, you teach others a lesson, others give you a landscape.
Time is the best bargaining chip in life, but also the best barrier of life, every detail of the decision, is from the expression of words, the gathering of actions, maybe it is difficult to make others disgusted with themselves, it takes a certain amount of wisdom, but it is more difficult to let a person walk in, it takes years of experience accumulation and analysis.
The world is big, Lang Lang, some people live and die, and some people become famous overnight, not everyone has a chance, but everyone is lucky, you can win and lose a lot, you can also lose and gain a lot of experience.
Perfunctory is a kind of survival, and deception is a way of living.
If deception and perfunctory are tied to a person, then honesty and kindness do not appear in that person.
Bad people let you see another angle of the world, good people let you know goodness, but only you can decide whether to use yourself to benefit sentient beings, or to teach other people's lives a lesson and leave.
To read a person, it takes a kind of thinking, and to see a person, it takes a kind of experience.
There is a difference between people and people, the world is fair, but the mentality is unequal, some people look up to you, it is you who have interests for you, and some people look down on you because you will not give benefits to others.
Don't think of others as good, don't think of yourself badly, people go for a lifetime, there is no need to think about it, people look at a lifetime, there is always life and death.
Greed can make people grow, language can make people change, it is easy to lose worthless to live in your own way, and it takes time to win with the popular perception.
When necessary, be a bad person, there is no need to always be a good person, there will be a lot of good people when they are not good, it is not terrible to lose, it is not terrible to win, what I am afraid of is not to find the starting point of life, the focus of life, and the outline of language.
When a person looks up to you, you have to know what ending is the best, and when you approach someone, you have to know how to leave is the best.
Other people's voices are not the best language for you, but your inner voice is the best sentence for you, let yourself enrich the inner changes, and you will become powerful.
Thin people always look at their own shortcomings, lost people, always look at other people's points, good people, is the need for inner cultivation, bad people, maybe need to hide, when a person shows you all the shortcomings, you should be happy, not avoid, because such people can show shortcomings, must hide a lot of points.
It's easy to find a person with potential, but what is needed to walk into a person with potential is not perfunctory, not deception, but a kind of responsibility, be good to others, don't think about how to get rewarded, because a kind heart, if it is covered up by the hypocrisy of the appearance, your own efforts are worthless.
When you see the attitude of life and think of the height of language, you know that others are still others, and you are still yourself, and only that sincerity and seriousness are indelible in your heart, and the language that determines life requires a lot of scrutiny, a lot of sketching, others are always others, but you can borrow other people's thinking to treat more people.
Only when people have the ability will they know what a person is, what is integrity, kindness, perfunctory, and deception.
A kind person has a correct mindset, a perfunctory person, a person who has a psychology of failure, a person who deceives, and a flattering attitude.
What do you want others to do to you, you have to know how you treat others, there is a difference between people and people, there is a difference between things and things, don't always think that others owe you, don't always think that others should please you, because you don't know other people's grievances.
It is difficult to be a good person, it is easy to be a bad person, to be a person needs attitude, to look at people needs temperature, and it is also a shame for yourself to laugh at the cold eyes of others.
Many people are entangled in order to live, and some people are sad because they can't do filial piety.
People, don't be too greedy, if there are more, there will be trouble, people, don't be too bad, there are too many bad, people don't look for you, God looks for you.
What is the principle of heaven, the principle of heaven is that you have bullied the poor, and there is another kind of person waiting for you to stammer.
What is a person, a person is written by two people, not one person, learn more knowledge, you will see a different world, sincerity, kindness, is the best sun in life.
A lifetime, can make many people misunderstand themselves, but can not let themselves draw the ground as a prison, every day, be kind to your own sunshine, be kind to the people around you, others can not help themselves, but they have to be worthy of their own future.
The curves and straight lines of life have value, the soul and desire of life can make you grow, if you grasp it wrong, do it wrong, you will lose not only what you have, but also the future.
When you find the shortcomings of others, don't be in a hurry to say it, because you may not have the ability to see through a person, when you find a person's strengths, don't always praise others, the language is too repetitive, everyone will be disgusted.
Don't say a word to one person, but also to the group, so that someone argues, it will cause trouble for your own thinking, let yourself be quiet and don't miss thinking about other people's way, your own future.
What others have lost, you can't cherish it, and you will lose it, and if you can't keep what you have lost, there is no need to be sad.
Don't care about other people's choices, review your abilities, change your own opinions, and the width of your life will also make you go to the next level.
The shaking of the easy chair allows life to see the depths of the soul, close your eyes, think about the whole world, you will know the language of others, your own powerlessness, life does not need much understanding, just quiet, calm kindness.
From the perspective of fate, people learn to forget, can't forget the memories of the past, the boiling of life, let learning change their own circumstance, but there is no width of thinking to learn to be sincere and kind.
You have time and dreams, I have youth and hard work, but I have different names, other people's opinions, and different sayings.
You are poor, or you don't have anything, it doesn't mean that you can have nothing for a lifetime, quiet struggle, to harvest your own future, quiet efforts, you will find your own life.
Noble people may not give you face, poor people, may not let you know, when you start to walk in, don't always worry about shabby and bitter water, after all, others can move you, but also let you down for a lifetime.
Regret the beginning, it is better to struggle for the future, show your strengths, when necessary, magnify your shortcomings, let yourself know, what to go, what to stay, to change the outlook on life, you must know the language attitude of life.
Can't move a person who left to come back, so show more advantages for yourself, the person you miss will not come back, but you can use the thinking frequency of the person you miss to improve your own thinking space.
Discovery, understanding, letting go, attitude, are all a way to live, if too much accumulation can not be put down, you will not be able to fly high, give yourself a few days of your own vacation, think about it, the road you have walked, and the circle you are out of now.
The one who makes you angry, grateful, because he touches your soul, the one who makes you miserable, remember, because he has written you a sunshine, the one who makes you pay attention perfunctory, because he paints the ground as a prison only to approach, not the soul to belong.
The poverty in the mouth is that there is no eloquence and no ability to dominate, and the poverty in the body is that there is no thinking outline in the heart, and the judgment and decision-making power in the mind are very low.
People have eyes, it doesn't mean that they can see things, people have ears, it doesn't mean that they will know rejection and approach, people have a mouth, it doesn't mean that they are talking about classic sentences.
Looking at people, the clothes on the body do not represent the future prospects, seeing things, acting and expressing the same, is a person worthy of trust.
Just met, such perfunctory is a kind of deception, if you just know, you know that you are good to others, such helplessness, can only be hated by some people, not really happy, language can make a person blind his eyes, does not mean that the background will make a person unable to cover the heart.
As long as you can measure yourself, you can measure the distance from others, and as long as you can master the outline of your mind, you can judge the curve of life.
People who let others guard against shortcomings are a terrible person, and people who make others worry about their merits are a kind of Taoguang and obscurity, life, a lifetime, don't use a short-term vision to measure a person's life.
Eyes, what you see may not be real, if you don't see it thoroughly enough, don't say the ugliness in your heart.
The mouth is your own personality, don't delay your own view of life because of other people's mistakes, and don't let words always measure your own incompetence.
Ears, if the one who hears makes himself unable to accept the merits, this will affect his thinking, and if the one who hears can't explain his own square inches, it will delay the gathering of two people.
A person is a collective, but also a genius, genius is always stronger than many teams, that is because geniuses dare to think, dare to do, and the team, can only follow the gourd to draw a scoop, dare not think of thinking, delaying the operation of the collective.
People are a word, with many links to present a person's value, you can also use a biggest point to measure a person, don't always use your own loneliness, to analyze others, don't always use your own painting as a prison to circle other people's language, after all, the continuation of language is for a kind of bondage, not a quick knife to cut the mess.
Opening a door, closing a lot of people, this is a way of life, listening to a world, avoiding individual people, this is the principle of living, saying the pattern of life, mastering the measurement of analysis and control of life, this is the presentation of inner value.
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