Chapter 82: Bearing it and letting it go is fate
Anger doesn't solve the problem, the problem will lose a lot because of anger, and when you lose, you will know the consequences of anger. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info
Anxiety makes a person tired, and the urgency of speaking makes a person's body weak, if it is ordinary and quiet, it will produce a different myth.
A person, simple and ordinary, can enjoy the happiness in his heart, hide the sadness of his thoughts, keep quiet and peaceful, and will find a lot of sunshine, opportunities, and a strong future.
Attitude determines a person's future, fate outlines a person's thinking world, with the best kindness, express the change of thinking, the soul of the circle to lock the social circle of life, you will know more employers.
Others can do it, that is because of accumulation, they can't see through it, that is because of the delay of thinking, use cumulative reading to create their own lives, and use thinking to implement to practice their own thinking.
If you want to seize the best opportunity to change your own improvement pattern, you must have what others see, read by yourself, control, and analyze, and you will sublimate yourself faster.
Many things are more complicated than you think, so you can only see through them if you calm down, and if anger can solve things, then the trouble it brings is immeasurable.
The right person will make you sublimate your soul, and the wrong time will make you change the angle of thinking, if you are right to the wrong person, listen to sentences that you shouldn't listen to, hurt your thinking that shouldn't be changed, mistakes and opinions, and the angle of speaking will make you express yourself wrong.
Speaking, a different language, don't always go to the end of a sentence, such an effect makes everyone disgusted, speaking focuses on details, every detail, let others hear, listen to want to know the following, if you start to say wrong, others are gone, who knows your real talent, remember, speak to help people see the details of the analysis, to help people speak is to summarize the problem.
There are a hundred explanations for every problem, but not everyone can say a lot of possibilities, take the essence of it, remove the dregs, let others know the key improvement, let others understand the angle of change, in order to enhance the sublimation of the pattern.
Some people will not give you the opportunity, you can give yourself the opportunity to change your thinking, some people will not give you wealth, but you can meet a better future through your own efforts.
People who lose will complain, then his loss is just a kind of plane simplicity, losing is actually a kind of win, a kind of victory, after all, the pay, the experience gained, is the result of winning.
The person who taught you knowledge, maybe you don't know what it really means, is for you to teach more people, not for you to only know and not know for others to know.
Language can make the mind perfect, but it does not necessarily make the clothes clean, first create the mind of the heart, no one cares about your clothes, if the clothes are lifelike, and the words spoken are dirty, then no one respects you because of your clothes.
Don't like to be lonely, because you are not a genius, everyone likes to be indifferent, living is to say something you know, but you don't know what others want to know, others want to wait for the experience, remember, others want experience, focus, planning, pattern, to explore the future of life.
Limiting thinking is easy to be lonely, limited language is easy to be helpless, if you recognize your own loss, you must know how others should have it.
If you make friends with materials and do not have real language to outline the thinking conditions, your contribution is just paying, and it does not mean that others will respect how much of your thinking watering.
It takes experience to see through a person, and to understand a person, it takes experience.
Time can let you see the ugliness of people, and people can also let you find your own helplessness.
Living is an attitude, if it is only for the sake of reading life, and does not promote kindness and talent, the person who blinds the eyes of others is also an incompetent person, and the person who covers the heart is also a kind of ominous person.
Read a person, look at a world, some people don't look at your future, only complain about your present, some people only look at your efforts and analytical angles, only two kinds of measurements appear, some people are superficial, some people are quick-sighted, don't use your own superficial gaze to measure other people's efforts and goals.
In the world, it is your honor to have someone to work hard for you, no one to help you, it is your nobility, if you separate your time and master the spine of life, you will also find that many things, without the help of others, you can successfully walk through.
If you don't have the ability, how can you see through others, if you don't have the ability, don't say that others look down on people.
Discovering a person requires a certain amount of consolidation, inner strength, and transforming a person requires a certain level and thinking around.
What is superficiality, superficiality is to use words that harm others to delay one's own heart.
What is helplessness, helplessness is, speaking in all fairness, not knowing what will happen after speaking, whether it shows the ignorance of others, or your own cold eyes.
Winning is a kind of expression, but also a kind of hard work, don't always think that winning will be good, in fact, every kind of win, is a lot of losses in exchange, every kind of win, is the accumulation of time in exchange.
The strong will not help you, because they don't know you, the poor won't talk about you, because they don't know you, if you always hide and don't struggle, there will be no many people in the future to approach you.
Establish yourself, decide on friends, take care of friends, establish the future, don't use deception to decide your money, don't use perfunctory to decide your friends, many times boasting is a way for friends to hide.
Those who understand will appear when you need them, and those who don't understand will delay your mind painting without you knowing.
The blueprint of thinking requires a lot of calmness, observation, guessing, measuring, if there is too much missing, and listening to some inattentive disgust, wasting time's ratings will make your life even more confused.
The reason why people can do it is because in the case of inaction, they give birth to themselves, master the rules of thinking, avoid the approach and delay of others, and learn to be weak, let others walk around themselves, and they have time to create their own journey.
When you are determined, others may have gone far, far away, and when you lose confidence, maybe others are on their way back.
Look at people, look at things, don't always tell others with a cold attitude, don't always wait for others to tell jokes when they are in danger.
If you don't have the ability, you will be easily looked down upon.
If you don't have the ability, you will be easily ignored by others.
You are poor, many people avoid you, you are rich, many people scold you.
Here's the thing, if you are very poor around you, and others avoid you, it is because they are afraid that you will talk and borrow money, and if there is no master around you, others will look down on you when you drink, and they will say that you spend money and waste your life.
Stubborn people, always think they are amazing, lonely people, always look down on many people, people who have no ability, of course, not to mention, are always picky about many people, do not have their own language, always copy, and can not bring warmth to the home, so that the people who appear in the family will either be perfunctory, or will be cold eyes, or they are powerless.
When you find others, they always look at your shortcomings, and you realize that you are so worthless.
When you know, you know that other people's smiles are a kind of ridicule, but also a kind of disrespectful ridicule, and it is appropriate for others to be disrespectful, because you don't struggle and don't know how to communicate with others.
Haha, many people are just imagining, don't calculate the way of others to ask themselves, don't ask their own way to calculate others, with others walking, walking poor is worthless, walking and walking, many people can't be put in their eyes.
Many people's shrewdness is a kind of deception, for example, perfunctory, stammering, seeing that you have money to approach you, at this moment, people who understand will be on guard, after all, a person directly reaches out to ask for money, the premise is, who he has contributed, and why has he paid.
Don't make a fuss, many people go directly into the rich and high-end level, this situation belongs to the upper class, the poor don't know, and the poor can create the upper class after struggle.
Although some people are old, there is no need to respect them, even if they are polite, they may not be hurt by others, because they are poor.
Some people do not contribute to society, but only work hard for themselves, such people are just living, and there is no need to pay too much to them.
Tell yourself to persevere, stick to your principles, and avoid those who come to please yourself after pleasing others.
Tell yourself, don't stutter, don't flatter, if you want to mix well, you have to know who you are and what kind of circle you are worthy of living, if you waste too much life time, then many people look down on yourself.
Reading a person is not about whether he will reach out and ask for something, but what he has done for others.
When you ask someone, it's not that the sentence he praises him is true, but that he steals other people's lines and sways his prestige, such a person has to hide.
Familiarity is a kind of realm, smart people are forgetful at a glance, and people who have no ability are always critical of others.
Remember, the poor are people who struggle, the rich are people who accept struggle, many people do not pay the struggle of the poor, they have no talent and ability, many people do not get the help of the rich, do not have the appreciation of the rich, will be powerless by many things.
To be a man, there is no need to be too tired, too tired will make the soul tired, look at things, there is no need to see too shallow, otherwise others say that they are superficial, if you spend money to meet friends, in the end you will lose friends because you don't spend money.
People who understand you may not give you sunshine, people who help you will give you a vision, and then appear when you are busy, look at you when you are beautiful, and wait for you to be in danger, people with hearts, or those friends who used to be poor themselves.
If you are rich, you are a man, other people's perfunctory, you are always right, if you are poor, friends can avoid you, then it is not a friend.
When you are poor, you know friends, maybe when you are rich, it is different from the friends who have accompanied you to endure hardships, but please remember that for a lifetime, it is not how many friends help you when you are rich, but how many people look up to you when you are poor.
You can lend money to others, and you may not have to get it back when you are poor, which is to be deceived and a thankless trick.
Don't always look at people with your own eyes, and don't always believe what others say, you have to learn to know how to control, guess, what others don't say, you know, avoid those who boast about themselves, avoid those who show off themselves, otherwise, you will let many people close to you go away because of approaching such people.
A heart can be looked down upon, can also be looked down upon, if you always use the method of deceiving others to pit others, then the heart is not worthy of respect, if you always use bleak sentences to deceive the sympathy of others, in exchange for the unwillingness of others to collect debts, such a heart, will not be worthy of admiration by others.
A person, if his reputation is rotten, the value of living is gone, no matter how rich he is, he can't wash away the scars in the hearts of others, remember, those who deceive the poor have to hide for the rest of their lives, remember, people who are cold bystanders don't know how to make friends.
If the person opposite has no friends, but is kind, such a person is a good person, and if the person opposite has friends, but does not have true friends, such a person cannot make him his friend or his friend.
Remember, some people will use your reputation to brag because they know you, some people know you to hurt your sentence next time, and some people know you to make you lose a good game.
People, live, live, some people play with their parents' reputation, people, walk, walk, some people reduce their worth, people, watch, watch, some people approach themselves just to cheat some money, people, wait, wait, some people look on coldly just to brag about their ignorance.
Many people deceive kindness, and then their families are ruined, many people deceive honesty, and then they have no friends, and many people approach a person purposefully, and then walk away with a smile and make others cry.
Some people look down on themselves all their lives, and some people hide by themselves all their lives, and this person is time.
Don't think that time is not valuable, don't think that life doesn't matter, if you don't cherish time, others will have no reason to cherish you.
If you can find a friend and waste your friend's time, the friend is not your friend, but your dependence.
Don't always think that your life is very simple, you can live no matter how you live, your parents have left you a lot of wealth, eyes, brains, hands, don't live up to what they give, and don't live up to what you have.
If you can be quiet, please find your own starting point, if you can struggle, please set goals for yourself, everyone's thinking is changing, only by knowing the routine of their own life, can we know whether others can afford themselves.
Lonely people live in other people's words, simple people live in other people's souls, and people who struggle live in other people's thoughts.
If you want to go far, you must know whether you can hold on for how long, and if you want to see far, you must know whether you can seize the opportunity.
Others have time to play, you may not have time to create, you have time to read, you may not have time to analyze, the world is relative, if you don't have your own thinking control, you can't find the means of others to deceive, when the time comes, you can only blame yourself for being incompetent.
Borrowing money is a method, and if others don't pay it back, it's because they can't socialize, and if they don't borrow it, it's a kind of nobility.
The living want to be majestic, but the most majestic one is dead, the smartest person is dead, and the one who can borrow money is also dead.
Don't care too much about what others do to you, just know how you treat others, others can hide from themselves, that's because they're poor, others can perfunctory themselves, that's because they can't do anything, but you must know how to fail and future, present and avoid, refuse and deny.
The noble may not be able to approach, and if the poor are allowed to hide from themselves, then what is the point of living by themselves.