50May the children not be coerced by adults

Xin Rong was hospitalized for a week, and he didn't see Shi Qing, but he met Xie Tian a few times. Watching Xie Tian tease Xin Rong, he was a little moved in his heart, and couldn't help but comfort him.

"You don't have to keep giving face to your ex-wife. It is your right to see your children, and if you can't do it, you will go to court. "Thankfully, I was naturally taken aback by my straightforwardness.

"What I know, it's not objective. Zhong Hong will inevitably think about the problem from your standpoint and speak for you. As long as you don't have any major issues, your ex-wife can't deprive you of the right to see your children. I've known you for a long time, and I know that you're not a scumbag with bad morals and a loss of humanity. If what Zhong Hong said is true, then your ex-wife is making trouble unreasonably, and you can't indulge her and swallow your anger. ”

"This kind of deformed growth environment is not good for your child. His mother is extreme, his father is gone, how healthy and happy can you expect him to grow up?"

"Well, I feel like I've done her a lot of harm. She was in a bad mental state, and I didn't want to stimulate her. So, she didn't let me see my son, and I forgot it. ”

"Now except for giving her child support and courier toys to Xie Yangui every month, I haven't had much contact with them. ”

"I just didn't expect you to be on my side. I thought you women were always on the front of the united front. ”

"I'm a helper, not a helper. You don't have an affair, you have a first-class character, and you don't break the law, so your ex-wife is depriving you and your son of parent-child time for no reason. ”

"It's just that if she's not in good spirits, you don't have to go to court. You try to be as good as water, and every time you see her, you use a little surprise to surprise. ”

"Whether it's a woman or a man, if you figure it out, you can figure it out. All you need to do is unblock the pipes that are blocked by debris, and all the difficulties will be solved. ”

In the face of her ex-wife's troubles, I think that only a lawsuit can make her live a little safer. My approach to things has always been clear-cut, and there is no such thing as empathy and tolerance. But hearing that she was not in good spirits, she was still a little more unbearable. I know that it is not the last straw that crushes the camel, and it is not the last steamed bun that feeds well. But I can't ignore the stress and torture she endured, and I know how terrible it can be after a nervous breakdown. Because I've been there, I'm qualified to empathize. But my remaining kindness can only stay in the absence of lawsuits, and sympathy does not have the function of reversing black and white to refer to the deer as a horse. In the case that I know that most of the responsibility lies with his ex-wife, I will not compromise the child's visitation rights. It's just that we can follow this process step by step, without being in a hurry or impatient.

"It's not that I haven't thought about it, but I'm afraid she'll think too much. Unnecessary care, I'm afraid it will make things more complicated. I have nothing but guilt for her now, no love. I'll admit I loved her before, but that was before. ”

"Therefore, you have to let your ex-wife know that your love is gone, but the child is innocent, and there is no need to let the child be involved in the emotional whirlpool between the two of you. ”

"You can give her care in life. Don't be too much of a snake yourself. Friends can also care for each other, she is an adult, you are also an adult, can't you distinguish between what is love and what is understanding care? When there is a misunderstanding, you don't know how to explain?"

"I advise you, don't think of yourself too coquettishly, whoever leaves you will live the same, and your ex-wife will do the same. ”

"You help her out, you get the salvation of the soul, she will be born again, and her son can thrive. ”

"You're waiting for your ex-wife to wake up on her own, and you have to wait until the Year of the Monkey?"

Seeing Xie Tian and Xin Rong getting along, I knew that Xie Tian must have missed his children very much. Today's words, Zhong Hong may or may not have mentioned them to Xie Tian. The cause and effect I know are only the rough outline that Zhong Hong has drawn for me. I don't know anything about the intricacies and bitterness, and I don't know anything about it, and I don't want to ask at all. I don't want to snoop on other people's privacy, I just want to help my friends solve problems. Because I don't know much about the details, I also have the opportunity to point out. Many things, the more detailed you know, the more you will mess with your judgment. Both sides look like victims, as if both sides have unbearable hardships and difficulties, subject to useless compassion, and inevitably bound to let things go. Perhaps, his ex-wife hurt him so much that Xie Tian was unwilling to accept the slightest tenderness. Or, he hurt his ex-wife so much that she didn't even give the old cow a chance to lick the calf. In any case, the couple who love each other has become like this, and they have to sigh and sigh. The relationship can't be saved, I just feel sorry for the thankful God who can't see the child and the child who can't see the father. I'm not sure that Xie Tian will be able to listen, at least, I can give him an idea, not necessarily perfect, but better than now.

"I'll think about what you said. My sister-in-law also persuaded me. Not many people know about this, except for my family. ”

"I'm going to be careful when I talk to my sister-in-law in the future. Pitchers have ears. ”

"Don't worry. I'm not going to tell anyone about you wetting the bed at the age of six. ”

"Zhong Hong is not only not strict in her mouth, but also fabricates things that are not in place on me, and her family is unfortunate. ”

"Be careful, I told Zhong Hong that you bite the root of her tongue behind your back. The bedwetting is nonsense, but I really hear you slandering Zhong Hong's words. ”

"Sinai. You're a real villain. Only women and villains are difficult to raise. You've got both. ”

"So, don't break ground on Tai Sui's head. ”

"Good men don't fight women. Grandpa, I hung the pot to help the world and rejuvenated. ”

I watched the burly white coat fade away, and I couldn't help but feel sour. A person who is obviously devastated by himself is still so gentle in this world. It's not Zhong Hong who said it, I can't see that he has such a bunch of bad things in his stomach at all. I have the impression of thanks, humorous, positive and sunny, it seems that he has come to this day without wind and waves. Even in the face of Xin Rong, I will see a trace of sadness hidden in amusement, but it is only a moment of sadness. In the next second, he returned to the doctor Xie who was lenient and strict with himself. It's just that this pain hidden in his texture was discovered by me, and I can't help but worry a little about him.

Presumably, the ex-wife is also an unspeakable pain to Xie Tian. Zhong Hong cares about him so much, on the one hand, he and Zhong Hong's ex-husband's brother Kong Huai, and on the other hand, he has suffered a lot from his ex-wife. And a pair of good cousins, Xie Tinglanyu and Xie Lanyangui had no choice but to disperse and go their separate ways.

When is it, it would be nice if the affairs of adults did not involve children. The brothers and brothers who should be respectful and humble, and the strict fathers and mothers who should be there, just give them a lot of the same. It's just that we can't separate it. Adults and children alike all live in the same world.