38 Xin Rong's way of growing up

"Dad is so happy with me, I can eat such a hearty and beautiful breakfast. ”

Glory cooking is not only delicious, but also beautiful. If he is in the mood for leisure, he can also decorate it with a small flower carved from a turnip, or pour a sauce with smooth lines, just like a painting. I used to think that he was good at cooking, and it was trained by the army. Now it seems that there has been a lot of subtlety from Uncle Su. Also, the troops are too rough to cultivate his artistic sense of plating. I remember he once told me that the small yellow basin of the army takes out the toilet in the morning and makes dumplings in the afternoon. At that time, I felt that it was amazing, worthy of the People's Liberation Army.

In the early morning, he actually made raw frying. Eggs are tempting and soft-boiled. The soy milk is beaten first, and the baby cabbage is arranged in a flower shape and spread out in all directions. Apples are sliced and staggered, much like windmills. When you wake up in the morning and see this kind of breakfast, you will be very happy.

After eating satisfied, I saw that Glory taught Xin Rong to memorize some numbers. It's probably 30 squares, 25 and 4, 125 and 8 and so on, and I say it's not too early for the church.

"No, it won't. I didn't force her to memorize, I just made her conscious, and it was a good thing to cultivate her sensitivity to numbers from an early age. ”

I didn't quite understand what glory meant, but he continued.

"Just like a man and a woman who have been in love for a long time, let her memorize these numbers as early as possible, and it will look familiar in the future, which can save a lot of calculation time. ”

"So, you want her to go into math?"

"Of course I hope that a good math study and logical clarity will only be good for her. But math is a little bit more talented. Everyone who won the Fields Medal was a genius. ”

"Don't say it, it's scaring me. She was still so young, so I gave her Mount Everest for her to climb. ”

"I know, that's what I'll say. Glory pulled up a chair and sat down beside me.

"What time do you leave today?"

"Eight o'clock in the evening. ”

"You're a person who sometimes makes people so annoying, and sometimes it's reluctant. ”

"Reluctant to let me go?" Glory laughed, there were two dimples, not round dimples, but like two braces, long, very beautiful.

"I can't bear to let you go?"

"Okay, then I'm not leaving. ”

"You're not leaving?" I said, with a glint of joy in my eyes.

"Fake, of course. How are you so easy to deceive. Glory laughed like crazy.

"What do you want to eat at noon, my darling?" I ignored him, walked slowly up to Xin Rong, and asked her softly.

"If it's mom cooking, it doesn't matter. If it's my dad cooking, I want to eat everything. ”

"I will use all kinds of means to corrupt you in the future, otherwise my position will not be guaranteed. ”

"Mom, isn't it bad to be corrosive?"

"That's a bad idea. It shows that I will use all my scheming and means to please you in the future. ”

Since he was a child, Xin Rong has been very fond of asking. So the vocabulary is a little more than that of children of the same age. She may not understand the meaning of some proper nouns, but she will be familiar with them when she hears them. Neither Glory nor I like to get along with Xin Rong in the same way as children, such as eating, puppy, and so scared, and neither of us will say anything like that. We both treat Xin Rong as a person who can think for herself and respect all her ideas. She may not understand some of the idioms that Glory and I use, but Glory and I will explain them to her. The two of us never say that you are still a child or anything like that, children are not shields, and children also have their responsibilities. She is responsible for obeying the rules of public morality, not littering, and not making loud noises. Being vexatious is not the prerogative of the little ones. Xin Rong naturally likes the way we are educated, so she will feel that the three of us are always equal. Glory and I don't rely on the old to sell the old, nor do we bully the young, how can she be unhappy? It is in this environment that other children panic their parents, but Xin Rong is as immobile and steady as Mount Tai. I remember that her teacher complained to me that it was useless to scare her with the trick of calling her parents. Because when the problem occurs, no matter what disputes Xin Rong has at school, no matter what the teacher and her classmates say, I have to listen to Xin Rong tell the story completely. After listening, I listen to the teacher's or other people's statements. Before I knew it, Xin Rong and I had established a solid sense of trust. This reminds me of an incident that happened when Xin Rong was still in kindergarten.

That day, I was hastily called in school by my teacher. The teacher came up and said that Xin Rong had bled from the corner of a child's eye, and asked me to go home and criticize and educate it. I glanced the teacher up and down, his eyes drenched in relentlessness and boredom. I have the impression that Xin Rong will never hit someone for no reason, and I am naturally very unhappy to be slandered by the teacher for such a plain reason.

"Xin Rong, you come to tell your mother what happened, and your mother wants to listen to you first, okay?" I asked her with a smile on the worry in my eyes.

"I have a lot of toys in kindergarten. I'd like to share it with you. I put it in the toy storage area in the classroom for everyone to play with, but today I saw Xiaolan, she secretly had to put the toy in her school bag, I used to want to take out the Barbie doll, she grabbed it with me, I shook it off a little harder, so Xiaolan hit the corner of the table. ”

"Seeing that she hit the corner of the table, I put my own band-aid on her. I've been comforting her to stop crying, it's not right for me to hurt her, but it's not right for her to take toys secretly. ”

"Although I want to say that this injury is also a bit self-inflicted. Xin Rong ended her speech.

I looked at Xiao Lan on the side, and the corner of her eye was indeed a band-aid I had prepared for Xin Rong.

"Xiao Lan, Auntie wants to hear you again, is it okay?" I looked at Xiao Lan who was crying and her face was flushed, with a smile on her face, I didn't want to put any pressure on this child, just tell the truth.

The little girl hugged her mother's leg tightly and refused to speak.

"Are you here to solve the problem?" Our children are so frightened by your family's Xin Rong that they can't speak!" Obviously, Xiaolan's mother has already gone berserk.

"It doesn't matter if you don't want to tell Auntie, you can pick someone you believe in and tell her the facts, okay? You know, Auntie is not here to find someone to make mistakes, but to solve problems. After solving the problem, there is no conflict between you and your friends, and you can happily play the game. ”

"I just love that Barbie and just want to take it home for a day. I returned it the next day. Then Xin Rong deliberately pushed me, knocking out a lot of blood from the corner of my eye. ”

There is no cause and effect, pinching the head and removing the tail, and cowering. After listening to it, I naturally understood the rights and wrongs.

"But you don't deny that you want to take this common Barbie home, right?" I was still smiling, but I changed from crouching and looking down to standing and looking down.

"I'll be back tomorrow. Xiao Lan muttered quietly.

"Xiaolan's mother, let's go to the hospital first to see the situation in the corner of Xiaolan's eye. But since the toys belong to everyone, let Xiao Lanwu return to its original place. ”

Xiao Lan grabbed her schoolbag and refused to let go. Later, her mother said, "Let her play one night and come back tomorrow." ”

I didn't say a word, "Mom Xiaolan, if Barbie can't be taken out today, I won't be able to implement your daughter's medical compensation." ”

The teacher and Xiao Lan's mother didn't seem to expect me to be so attached to a toy, Xiao Lan's mother was angry, "How much is this Barbie doll, I'll buy it, okay?" Barbie I have to come back, because it proves that Xin Rong did the right thing.

I asked Xin Rong which of her Barbie dolls it was, and she described it as the one given by Wan Chongshan. It's a big set, it's a series, and there are a lot of clothes, so it's no wonder Xiaolan's schoolbag is stuffed and bulging. But I really don't know the price.

"Well, how much is your daughter's medical expenses, and I will sell my Barbie doll for as much as I want. ”

In the end, Xiaolan's mother and Xiaolan argued for a long time, but her daughter refused to let go, and she still played tricks, and her mother had to take her daughter away in a gray manner.

Before leaving, I said to Xin Rong's teacher, "Teacher, I know that you are working very hard, and it is inevitable that you will ignore some details. So next time, it will be better if you communicate first and then hold you accountable. Of course, I have always been grateful to you for taking care of Xin Rong all the time. Seeing a child injured will naturally be on the side of the weak. But bleeding is not justified, and please don't inadvertently hurt a child's heart. Xin Rong always told me when she came home that you are beautiful, lively, kind and excellent, and you are her best friend. "I have a sincere attitude, a blazing eye, three points of accusation, and seven points of entrustment. Hopefully she understood.

"Mom, why did you praise our teacher just now? I didn't say those words at all, I always thought she was very ordinary. "On the way home, Xin Rong asked me her questions.

"Because the world of adults is a little bit more complicated. I won't speak too directly, I'm complimenting with criticism, I guess you can understand it when you are in the sixth grade. You don't have to worry about that, because you don't understand what Borges is right now. ”

Borges really didn't understand. Hahaha, but when you asked Xiaolan to hand over Barbie, I was very happy. ”

"That's because of the rules of your kindergarten, the shared toys will be returned to their original owners at the end of the term. If it is donated to the school, we will take Xiaolan to the hospital to see a doctor. If you send it out, there's no reason to ask for money again, remember?"

"Remember!"

"Although you are not wrong this time, don't hurt other children next time if you are not careful. No matter how much someone hurts you, you can solve it through the law. Instead of you punching me, I'll kick you. You scold me, I spit on you. Violence in verbal acts is of no use. ”

"What is the law?"

"The law is all about punishing bad people. ”