Chapter 59: Life is nothing but a dream
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The world is big, the master is like a cloud, a rule is written off a lot of wonderful, sometimes we are very closed, sometimes we have no confidence, sometimes we can't do anything, look at it, they are old, read it, they cry, many times we want to change others, but always change their heartbeat by things, sometimes they will be angry, sometimes they will be quiet, when they are worried, helpless, only to know that they are so worthless.
A little wider, just see a little more thoroughly, a little narrower, will alienate others, will also alienate themselves, many times, we see the back of others, but can not see their own shortcomings, in fact, when we find that we are powerless, when we cry, it is the easiest time to see ourselves, we have no experience to do capital, no learning to back, even if we see the surface of others, may not express the advantages of others, pay is not equal to harvest, harvest must pay a heavy price.
Many people use sarcasm others to show their eloquence, and some people use praise others to show their ability, if, I say if, you want to mix a little better, before expressing your own opinion, weigh your own ability, and then look at other people's attitudes, figure out other people's psychology, not everyone likes sarcastic sentences, not everyone likes to praise the topic, every gambling must lose is not a matter of betting, but you dare not win a thousand steadily, you want to win, but you lose, it is better to think upside down, want to lose, winning is a surprise.
No one gives you a chance, you have to create your own connections, no one gives you the ability, you choose your own social circle, no one gives you experience, you have to find a way to get close to the world that helps you improve your thinking, if you want to improve yourself, only money is not good, if you want to change yourself, only connections are not good, you have to have a pair of eyes, you have to have a guessing heart, in order to open up your own eloquence, ability, connections, money, let yourself go farther, fly higher.
Spring and Autumn War, from the beginning, are your own self-inflicted, you can forgive others, may not necessarily forgive your pay, many times, in fact, we just see a person, not see through a heart, many times, we just understand a name, do not know his past, we may give, may take, but the final winner is not one of them, is both lose, we see through others is not easy, see through yourself is more difficult, need others to explain themselves, their own to change themselves.
Don't live too fake, such perfunctory others will hate it, and you will be tired, don't live too seriously, sometimes you need to ignore, sometimes you need to dodge, after all, you may not gain conscience, if you don't have the ability to judge, live, just live, then other people's opinions will appear enthusiastically, and your own truth or falsehood, you will be confused, when you lose your way, it is not the truth or falsehood of your own life, but your own decadence has forgotten your sincerity and true feelings.
Life is nothing more than that, others are not serious with ink, they are too stressed when they are pieces of paper, many times what is injected into the heart is dirty, many times the wonderful is written by others to another piece of paper, no matter every smile that is spoken, it is jet black, no matter every smile you see, it is through your own brushing by, arriving at another piece of paper, familiar with it, let yourself learn to be powerless, you are not someone else's second chapter piece of paper, made the first failure.
Everyone has their own habits, there are also unwilling to take care of thoughts, you can save your own thinking space, you can also adjust your own way of expression, many times, we learn to forgive, learn to change ourselves, whether we want others to see their beauty, or want to let themselves avoid the ugliness of the world, is their own decision, but also to discover by themselves, learn to recognize, learn to escape, we actually a lot of powerlessness is due to yesterday's indifference.
Life pays attention to quality, expression needs value, no one wants to wait for a person who does not speak to speak, it is difficult to say what they want to hear, after all, others are not themselves, so, the beginning of deceiving themselves is their own deception, the ability to imitate others is to understand in advance, the world is unpredictable, everyone's imitation and deletion is not in a line, not in a pattern, many times we see through every moment, every gap, may not be their own to see through, maybe others are still hiding something.
It takes a lot of time to transform the ability, and the experience of reading requires a lot of familiar routines, see through, know how to say, don't say wrong, understand, know how to do it, how to cover up and delete, don't always use other people's ways, other people's abilities to solve problems, others can say the following words, may not be able to pick it up, many times, it is because you can't receive a thank you that belongs to yourself, your own endurance, you don't know how to hide and cover.
There are many ways to protect yourself, but there are very few abilities to hide your abilities, the conditions you need are different, and the way of expression will be different, so in front of the same people, don't repeat a lot of routines, don't always entangle your anger in the same words, change your attitude, adjust your ability, read the mood of others, you will gain a different self, if you want to go far, you must know how to see your wings, ability, direction, don't be impulsive when you are confused.
Talent is a person's inner world, if you use wisdom to create a pair of eyes, it can help you see through many people and many things, if you use the ability to cultivate a piece of thinking, it can help you reason a lot of details, if you use experience to create a tongue, it will improve your mouth faster, if you use experience to create a pair of ears, it can help you guess a lot of premeditation, decision, ability, if you use to create a heart, it can help you get rid of a lot of troubles and uneasiness, but also save you from danger.
Speak and act consistently, others will understand your personality, losing is not terrible, afraid of their own not the courage to lose, no confidence to win, in fact, it is difficult to make others respect, it is more difficult to respect others, no one can explain the real friendship relationship, money has become a lubricant, no one can solve more coping, so friends have become a lubricant, in fact, every time we pass by the scenery, we want others to be good to themselves, but they do not ask themselves how to others, not waiting for others to pay the world, but to move themselves to pay the sunny day。
Every living person has his own reasons, every person who waits, also has his own reasons, in fact, to find a bad person, say their own reasons are very simple, but we always use our own tongue to say the rights and wrongs of others, do not explore their own shortcomings, some people are afraid of their own shortcomings to inspire themselves, but there are very few people who are changing their own shortcomings, anyone can make mistakes, which is equivalent to looking down on others, not necessarily just talking, sometimes what needs to be paid is action.
When others say your shortcomings, they hope you change, others say your strengths, they want to expand your strengths, others don't talk about you, they want to give you time to discover yourself, others say you want you to show yourself better, others can talk about you behind your back, that's because you don't change fast enough, others can talk about you in front of others, that's because your way of expressing yourself is not fast enough, when others ask, you come to you, that you won't prepare for others, and when others don't ask, you won't prepare for more people at all.
Ability is excellent, is to solve a lot of problems, sometimes can dodge, sometimes can refuse trouble, in fact, each of us wants to be smarter, but a little smart is never enough, it takes a lot of time, a lot of reading, a lot of experience, a lot of thinking frequency to think, study, in exchange for what others say a little smart, in fact, smart is very simple, think faster, let joy and smile a little more, give others a hope, with life to write a blessing.
People who have a bad mentality and are easy to see shortcomings always like to pick thorns, lack of ability, and are easy to see through others always like to look on coldly, have no wisdom in their eyes, and many times are easy to say wonderful fragments, mental arithmetic has no experience, many times they can't think about it, they don't think about it enough, their thinking is not agile enough, they lose not only their lives, their eloquence is not good, they not only lose the praise of others, but they also tend to forget their own existence, and they are easy to get confused.
People with insomnia, either thinking about others, or hating themselves for seeing a little understood, although a little mistake, but we can't go back, youth is gone, give us a lesson on the time to run, never say much, never use the scenery and people to put bricks one by one on their heartbeat, when we want to move away, only to find that there are stones on the back, there are still contemplations in the mind, sit down, can't put down the stones, stand up, can't take away the bricks in the heart, will be so tired.
Seeing through a person not only needs experience, recognition ability, experience, but also needs to calculate, test, observe, scrutinize, judge, if you lack too much, it is easy to provoke criticism by mouth, because not everyone is constant, not everyone will not work hard, so, please prepare your own ability, and then judge a person's sentences, don't say more, to say tactful, but also to speak a sentence in reason, not everyone likes to listen to gossip, don't always use their own judgment to delay the eyes of others.
If you have the ability, please don't help people who won't help others, if you have talent, don't help people who don't need talent, if you have money, don't help people who deceive their hearts, if you have someone else's no, please don't help someone else's no, everyone is living to exercise, someone needs exercise time, someone needs exercise opportunities, what we can pay is one-sided words, not popular control, not popular education, giving, but giving a love, so that more people can understand love and use love to help caring people。
If you want to win, don't give up when you lose, after all, powerlessness and cowardice can not represent your sense of resignation, but let others look down on you more, others delay the eyes, and you delay a lifetime, to find problems when you lose, to find theories when you win, to find your own support, a person needs not only money and interests, but also people who laugh with themselves, let yourself be lonely time, as long as you learn to dodge, know how to refuse, in order to become a good winner.
If you win, someone will scold you, you lose, people who pity you feel helpless, you know how to be perfunctory, people who are not perfunctory will make you hate, perfunctory people will also make you hate, life is nothing more than two cards, you draw the opportunity to live, you can't draw fate, if you draw the death of fate, you have no chance to survive tomorrow, so, you draw the chance to live, don't think about drawing fate again, otherwise it is easy to fail, because not everyone can walk in the middle of losing and winning.
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