Chapter 60: What is affordable
Many people understand a little bit, being trampled on by others is a shame, being looked down upon by others is a disgraceful thing, many people start to work hard, but being looked down upon by others, it is not hard work, even if you have money, the same people hate you, even if you have no friends, the same people trample on your dignity, not everyone will respect you, not everyone will understand you, not everyone needs you to understand and explain, so there is a cold eye and sit idly by. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info
Living in the eyes of others is a very tiring fate, you have no confidence, you will be looked down upon, you have no money to let others look down on you, you don't have a daughter-in-law, others will evaluate more, and in this troublesome and simple life, endure is not a way, see through the waiting is also a kind of evasion, even if you don't struggle, you will be looked down upon by others, not to mention that you struggle, the struggle is very long, you endure a lot, may not succeed, but you don't endure, may not let others look down on you.
Everyone has their own signboard in their eyes, every heart has a time to underestimate others, we look lightly, others say we are stupid, we look at it seriously, others say we delay time, we say it is false, others say we are hypocritical, we use too much perfunctory, others say that we live very tired, even if we don't say anything, others will say that we are an honest person, the meaning of this honest person is very heavy, it is not a stupid explanation, or it is not, I don't understand, I don't know the suspense.
Some people live up to time, don't be said by others to trample on life, some people delay others, are said to be lost, some people only care about their own tongues, and are said by others to guard against this person, some people hide very deeply, and are said by others not to talk too much about this person, maybe his silence has a purpose, some people feel that others are good, but others take advantage of others' ignorance to deceive, and some people feel that their family is good, so they use their family background to ridicule others and slap others.
No matter who you are, there are very few people you can afford, even if you say you can afford to look up to the people of the world, but how much have you done for the people of the world, and how much do others know? You say you have parents, but how much have you done for your parents, how much have you done for your family, you say you can afford your parents, maybe it's just talking, but you don't necessarily do a lot, you say you can afford to be friends, maybe you're still thinking about how to get it from your friends, is this also a friend to be affordable? Forget it, don't make a fuss, you can afford it, it's not just talking.
Many people put their shortcomings on other people's names with suitable sentences, many people put their own powerlessness into other people's stories, many people put their own lack of confidence, next to other people's cowardice, many people put their own efforts are insufficient, saying that others have a background and ability, many people are jealous of other people's families, jealous that others are not good to themselves, but they are not jealous that they do not have the confidence of others, in fact, believing in others is nothing more than putting a lot of bad things and saying that they are disgusted to find a suitable opportunity to say.
Some people use their own short-term efforts to judge the appearance of others in one sentence, others do not work hard, they say that they do not know the darkness of society, others have no confidence, they say that they have capital to talk to themselves, others do not change, they say that they are not qualified to live a wonderful life, others do not look for friends, they say that they will not control life, others will not mix with the interpersonal circle, they can only stabilize the status quo, others are silent, they can only live in the future, and there is nothing to be done in the future.
The son of the poor is a human being, and may not become a poet, and the son of the rich is a human being, and may not become a philosopher, but their birth, some people are destined to be looked down upon by many people, and some are destined to make others stutter and perfunctory, the poor do not like lies, and the rich may not like the truth, but if you want to see through the story behind, you not only need eyes, calculations, abilities, analysis, control, and waiting, but also need friends around them, you say that you can afford others, and it is difficult for you to help these two kinds of people, and it is difficult for you to look down on them and not be surpassed by these two kinds of people。
The word rich and noble, I don't want to have a story with you, but everyone wants to live with dignity, the word poverty does not intend to avoid you, but you always want to escape from poverty, many people always want to be looked down upon by others, not looked down upon by the people around them, some people just think about it, some people just talk, even if it is a relative, they will not give you dignity, but also have to send others to praise your sentence, even if it is an enemy, after they stab you, send you poverty, may not often come with gifts, condolences to their conscience.
Poverty is looked down upon, that's because you don't work hard, stupid and looked down upon, that's because the people around you don't help, lazy and looked down upon, that's because the people around you don't remind, eloquence is not good and is looked down upon by others, that's because others don't communicate with themselves, in fact, even if we have an excellent, there are a lot of clumsiness, in fact, even if we have money, we may not have wisdom, we will be looked down upon by many people, no matter what, to live, is to be looked down upon by others, not to work hard, others say that it is right, hard work, can only prove that we have the confidence to change, may not win goodwill。
It's easy to live in the eyes of others, it's easier to live in the words of copying, but the heart beats, if you want to express life, you need not only wisdom and money, not only actions and stories, but also the measurement of poverty and wealth, when we understand, we will think that our ability is limited, when we are confused, we will think how simple we are, the world is very big, our talent is thin, our ability is limited, and there is much bitterness, so we will know the sweetness, and the deep wound, and we will know the fate.
People who are poorer than themselves are still working hard, people who are richer than themselves are still working hard, those who are not educated can be richer than themselves, those who are not capable can be more capable than themselves, those who do not have a father can be more talented than themselves, and those who do not have a mother can be more wise and strategic than themselves, in fact, these are not just a routine, but we still won't find, won't ask, won't study our own hearts, thoughts, abilities, excellence, transcendence, change, just afraid of delay, afraid of failure, so we lost confidence and gave up our principles.
Say that your parents are good every day, but how much time do you spend in order to avoid your parents, say that you have many friends every day, but how many friends do you have to accompany your parents, say that your wife is good every day, but how many wives can help you treat your parents well, take care of your parents, and raise your eyebrows for the family, and say that your children are good every day, but before you got married, how many education and mental arithmetic stories were prepared for your children, how many keys were prepared to open the door of wisdom, and how many keys were prepared to start your heart, don't make trouble, it's easy to deceive.
It's not that you can distinguish black and white when you open your eyes, you can be seen by others, you can't hear the language and ringtones clearly, you can make others look at it, you can't say words and perfunctory people, you can make people look at it, in fact, getting together is only temporary, there is no need to wronged others to say that you can afford yourself, there is no need to wronged others to be friends with yourself, there is no need to use your own unwillingness to perfunctory other people's hate, there is no need to use your own lack of confidence to please others' ignorance and shortcomings.
You say you can afford the wind, but you don't cry when the wind goes, when you are hot, you say you want the wind, but when it is cold in winter, the wind blows, and you still hate it, maybe it's because, the time, the place, the name, the story, makes you say perfunctory, you say the shortcomings, you say the irritability and hate, you are still you, but other people's opinions of you begin to change, you are still you, even the breeze begins to doubt your words, because you believe in the eyes, there is no basis for thinking, because you believe in suffering, do not believe in the transcendence of ability。
Always use the words to cherish yourself, hurt the heart that you don't understand, always use the way to protect your eyes to make your heart confused, always delay yourself by changing others, always use the method of imitation to separate your attention to yourself, sometimes what we need is to see through ourselves, not to say that others are smart, not to say that they are stupid, to say that others are rich, not to say that they are poor, it is easy to say that they are poor, it is easy to make others look down on them, there is no need to always be poor in their bodies, say lofty, or let others look down on them.
I don't understand it all my life, maybe I can't understand it all my life, I can't make sense, I can't hear it, I look down on it a little bit, maybe I will be ignored by others all my life, discriminated against and lonely, I can't say anything about it, I can afford it a little bit, maybe I deceive all my life, perfunctory, flattering, obedient, in fact, we live because of a little gap, we can be said by others as heaven and earth, we can be said by others as air and dead people, we can be said by others as money and masters, in the end, everything is someone else's, and the dead end is our own.
When I grow up, I hear a lot of nonsense, I want to find a quiet place, I hear a lot of stories, I want to meet the people I used to be, my troubles have increased, I want to spend a little time to relax, my life is dying, I want to spend all my time living a little longer, luxury is a kind of ability, giving up is a quality, I can afford not to talk about it, understanding others is not perfunctory, understanding myself is not silent and calm, being discriminated against by others is a harvest, being looked down upon by myself is the biggest perfunctory.
Don't always think about others to please yourself, after all, when others are disgusted, they will turn their heads and leave, don't always think about letting others spend money, when others don't want to spend, estimate your value is gone, don't always think about letting others pay for themselves, when others are tired, they will directly kick you in your heart, don't always say that the relationship is very good, if others are negative, all your words are blank paper, don't always think about letting others look at yourself, in fact, how many people you can afford, how much you can afford to pay to those who you can afford.
If you say your sentences, you are not considerate of the other party and the future, then the value of the words is delay and distance, you listen to other people's sentences, do not understand the future and the present, then the measure of the words is to look down and discriminate, if you want to say, first weigh the limited person, and the ability to limit, the future of the limit, calculate it and then say, if you want to listen, first weigh the other party's position, calculation, communication, ability, identification, strategy, wisdom, don't always use boring sentences to reason and speak, don't use ineffective pay to delay their time.
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