Chapter 61: Goodbye once young
Ability is excellent, is to solve a lot of problems, sometimes can dodge, sometimes can refuse trouble, in fact, each of us wants to be smarter, but a little smart is never enough, it takes a lot of time, a lot of reading, a lot of experience, a lot of thinking frequency to think, study, in exchange for what others say a little smart, in fact, smart is very simple, think faster, let joy and smile a little more, give others a hope, with life to write a blessing. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info
People who have a bad mentality and are easy to see shortcomings always like to pick thorns, lack of ability, and are easy to see through others always like to look on coldly, have no wisdom in their eyes, and many times are easy to say wonderful fragments, mental arithmetic has no experience, many times they can't think about it, they don't think about it enough, their thinking is not agile enough, they lose not only their lives, their eloquence is not good, they not only lose the praise of others, but they also tend to forget their own existence, and they are easy to get confused.
People with insomnia, either thinking about others, or hating themselves for seeing a little understood, although a little mistake, but we can't go back, youth is gone, give us a lesson on the time to run, never say much, never use the scenery and people to put bricks one by one on their heartbeat, when we want to move away, only to find that there are stones on the back, there are still contemplations in the mind, sit down, can't put down the stones, stand up, can't take away the bricks in the heart, will be so tired.
When I was a child, I went to find it when I wanted to be alone, when I was bitter, I always didn't want to say it, I didn't dare to say it, I was afraid that it would be more painful to say it, I understood more, when others were in trouble, I always wanted to dodge, sometimes I would reach out to help, maybe I was very tired when I grew up, I couldn't keep busy, and I could be remembered by others, sometimes others helped me because I knew, sometimes I helped others, I belonged to others who helped me, after a long time, the friendship was also weakened, and there were fewer words.
When I grow up, the distance between friends is estranged, and when I grow up, the weight of words is less, there is no joke of hippie smile, there is no cynical mentality, and later, I know that life not only needs friends, but also money, and I have to guard against others, and I have to alienate others, and I have to let others alienate myself, even if I am poor, let others be afraid, I have to avoid others, I am afraid of other people's jokes, I am afraid that I will lose my way, go far, see deeply, everything is far away, far away.
When I was young, I couldn't see through the poor and rich, I didn't need to understand the intentions of others, and when I grew up, I knew that the background and background would be alienated because of my ability, when I was a child, I didn't know ugliness and beauty, and I didn't have to explain other people's opinions, and when I grew up, I knew that money and myself were friends and future support, so I had no friends, and I could forget myself, when I was a child, there was no good food, fun, I would lose my temper, and I thought that when I grew up, I would have it, and when I grew up, I ate and drank, and I knew that some people looked down on behind the food.
If you have money, you can use money and your own efforts to get what you want, if you are talented, you can exchange perfunctory calculations for what you want, if you have a background, you can use your own advantages and your own sweet words in exchange for what you want, if you have a story, you can exchange your expression and eloquence for what you want, if you have experience, you can exchange your own discrimination and gathering for what you want, if you have chase and waiting, you can exchange your preparation and requirements for what you want.
When I was young, I was very demanding, the pursuit was very small, and when I was big, I got a part of my dreams, or a routine, and I understood that money is a part of life, friends are a part of life, and family is a part of life.
What is lost will not come back, the age, the thought, the protection, the ignorance, the painting, the eyes that do not understand, these are all once had, but now they have, but they are no longer the era they once had, they have become a routine, they have become, trouble, money, friends, interests, gaps, the sincerity of refusal, only to know that they have grown up, changed, it is other people's words, scenery, eyes, let their mentality change, let their waiting change, confused repeating the single cycle of life.
People who don't understand, people who speak seriously, people who don't look, people who talk nonsense, people who don't ask, people who don't ask, who make direct judgments, the scenery is still the world, we have learned to dodge, hide, fear, fear, no confidence, don't know what ability is, don't know what responsibility is, look slowly, slowly get tired, slowly get tired, learn to waste life, waste money, waste only today, trance time, unknown years, we have less gathering in life, more entertainment, evasion, bothering.
This society is very simple, there is no capital, it is easy to encounter obstacles when speaking, it is best to say less, the opportunity for others to obstruct, directly attack the end, life for a lifetime, without too much silence, there is no better harvest, learn to use the rotation of thinking to guess the minds of others, learn to use the ability of communication to grasp their own ability, you know, not every time you pay a piece of sincerity, you can get a face that knows cold and hot, the scenery is still the same, let yourself be strong first.
What others can do, they may not be able to do, what others can say, what they may not dare to say, what others can buy, they may not dare to buy, pay attention to strength, pay attention to ability, pay attention to connections, grow up, it is a hurt to yourself, two hurt connections, the story of the family on the three, you may know a lot of names, may not know many names know your story, you may know a lot of people, but there are very few people who can help you in advance, you may have a family, but the family is limited to your contribution.
The people who watch you run may not accompany you to old age, the people who are waiting for you to leave, the people who may not leave you to drink tea, the people who think about you coming, the people who may not support you infinitely, the people who hold you and don't let go, the people who really wait for you, the people who guard you, the people who may not miss you, the people who treat you well, the people who may not love you, the people who flatter you, the people who are not necessarily for money, the people who perfunctory you, the people who give birth to you, the people who give birth to you, may not give you health, the people who raise you, the people who hurt you, may not give you talent, and the people who say you may not give you wisdom.
Everyone has their own routines, then everyone has their own shortcomings, maybe others don't say the advantages, but they must recognize their own shortcomings and powerlessness, they must recognize their own stories and instincts, don't always think that they are very smart, maybe a stupid can deceive themselves for a lifetime, so that the words of regret are too late to say, so that the tactful words can not be expressed, in fact, it is easy to be sad, blame yourself for being serious, in fact, happiness is very troublesome, worry about being serious next time.
Many people hate dirty, but close to the dirty that others don't want to approach, many people hate trouble, but close to the trouble they don't know, many people hate stupid people, but always be stupid people, many people become the copy version, and they themselves have become the copy version, we can't trust others more, and why bother to perfunctory others, we can't do it to the end, why deceive ourselves, we can't do too much, why don't we train ourselves.
Thank you to those who appear in their own lives, maybe they haven't had time to say, others have gone far, bless those who work hard, maybe we can't see their hope, but we have understood their contributions, later, we learned to deceive, learn to perfunctory, learn to recognize one side, recognize a word, lose not only their own endurance, recognize, read, direction, even the pity in the heart will appear, only to know, it is someone else who has changed himself.
Don't want to remember my birthday, I don't want you to spend, I don't want to owe too much favors, maybe you want to know a person, but not necessarily this person won't think about how to avoid you, this is life, maybe you want to get closer to a heart, not necessarily this heart will make you suffer, it won't stay away from you, maybe you want to know a person's story, maybe this person's heart hurt will be clear, maybe you think far, how to get closer to a person, maybe this person thinks very simply, for you, let you choose the way to refuse.
What does it mean that how many people you know, not how many people know you, or how much you have contributed to your friends, don't make trouble, if all your friends can make you unify the knife, there will be very few people who don't hate you. What is called getting married and having children, what is the meaning of parents still being, how much do you do for your family, how much education do you prepare for your children, and how much do you use your ability to earn for your family, don't make trouble, if your family is good to you, you can spend the same time with you, and you don't get married, don't wander, don't go out, it is estimated that there will be very few such people.
Don't always judge others and friends by personal ability, or feelings, it is not stupid to bow to you, maybe you want to be perfunctory, maybe you want to be quiet, not everyone is willing to do what you want, you may not give, only take, then, the person who should respect you may not respect you, the person who should be good to you may not be good to you, society changes rapidly, you can never guess whether other people's gossip can determine your future.
When I grew up and knew my poverty, I felt that I didn't need to be too false and perfunctory to others, I knew my own incompetence, I felt that there was no need to pay too much to please a person who had no conscience, and I didn't understand it, so I realized that it was really easy to learn that I didn't need to deliberately study others, and I knew that I didn't need too much camouflage to get close to myself, and I saw through my own survival, so I knew that approaching unnecessary people was also a burden, and not rejecting some unnecessary people was also a burden.
The heart is still there, the look is still there, but the former non-explanation is gone, the dream is still there, the money is not there, but the former arrogance is gone, the people are still there, and the wait is still there, but the haze of the past is gone, the clothes are still there, the persistence is still there, but the confidence is gone, the hands are still there, the mouth is still there, but the once paid is not daring, I have grown up, not only lost my confidence, but also gave up my courage, I have become silent, I can't find a place to study, I have become cold, and I am worried that my friends will say bad things about me.
Many people routineize other people's sentences, do not routines their own language, many people copy other people's lines, do not speak their own pattern, many people delete other people's abilities, do not know how to control their own skills, many people are still many people, a few people are still a minority, not everyone's despair will be smart, not everyone is stupid if they say stupid, not everyone is willing to say it, in fact, life is very simple, it is buried too much by growth, vision, background, etc.
Some people, looking at this person with other people's background, some people, looking at this person with other people's abilities, some people, looking at this person with other people's future, and some people, looking at this person with other people's money and wealth, always ignore a key point, their own ability, their own vision, their own family background, their own money and ability, so that there are many, many gaps, parting, hooking, gathering and scattering, so that the rejection comes so simply, and the complaint comes so happily.
People come and go, face is not given by others, love is not bought with money, sincerity and talent are not earned by money, don't look at yourself with other people's eyes, don't look at others with your own eyes, not everyone will not be the same, not everyone will be the same as always, social turmoil can turn over a person's heart, you can gather a person's colorless, no one is impossible, it is impossible for people without a little light, it lies in your vision, but also in your insight and speculation.
Thoughts have changed, people have changed, communication has changed, emotional routines have changed, indifferent time has changed, the taste of loneliness has changed, only the beating heart has not stopped, confidence has been lost, courage has been lost, youth is gone, grown up, I feel that the world is too big, a little scary, many things can only make me worry, sometimes I dare not admit my mistakes, sometimes I dare not say my shortcomings, sometimes I am willing to say that others are smart, I am not willing to say that I am stupid, sometimes I am willing to say that others are rich, and I am not willing to spend time to earn respect, politeness, and nobility。
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