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Yang Lei admitted that what Xu Shiwei said was very reasonable.
And his parents live in harmony, the most important reason is that the two are humble and understanding of each other.
For example, Lao Yang has been a worker all his life, and finally became the vice chairman of the trade union when he was about to retire, Yang's mother never blamed him for making little money, and Lao Yang did not dislike Yang's mother for only working in the supermarket, and she also liked the good dishes cooked by Yang's mother, and praised her for cultivating a good son.
Xu Shiwei said: "I want to hand over all the work, just by your side, I will definitely fulfill the responsibility of a good wife, I will never let you worry, and I will definitely not drag you back." I want to focus on my family in the future and form a harmonious and happy little family with you, how about it?"
Yes?
What happened?
Yang Lei was stupid.
Changing her image so that she doesn't feel scared and in awe is a good intention, but is it really worth it to make such a big sacrifice?
Yang Lei pondered and asked her: "Your career is so big, how can you say that you can let it go?"
Xu Shiwei said: "There is nothing that can't be put down, at most, the pace of our expansion slows down a little, we are steady, recuperating, laying a solid foundation, and slowly fighting with Nike." ”
"You can't just be nothing, can you?"
"I want to leave it all up to you to decide, and if you need me, of course I will help you and give you advice, but absolutely nothing will interfere with any of your judgment. ”
"This ......"
Yang Lei felt very uncomfortable, and asked cautiously: "Also, what should Nini do?"
Xu Shiwei sighed: "Nini let it go first, I'll talk to her, you still marry me as agreed." Yang Lei, this is my only request, you must listen to me in terms of women, and I absolutely don't care about you in my career. ”
Yang Lei knew that Xu Shiwei had made great sacrifices and concessions.
The tip of the needle only hurt Mai Mang, and he also had to let Xu Shiwei do some.
Yang Lei said: "I promise you, listen to you, but don't hurt Nini." ”
"Of course not, I didn't have any friends since I was a child, Nini and I have the best relationship, how could I hurt her?"
Xu Shiwei laughed, smiled very sweetly, took a small bite of noodles, and said with longing: "I really want to eat the beef noodles made by Aunt Qian, Aunt Qian must be a very good mother-in-law, you can rest assured, I will definitely be a perfect daughter-in-law, and get along with her happily~~"
Sweat......
Yang Lei really doesn't adapt to Xu Shiwei's changes, and she can change from a strong woman in her career to a docile little daughter-in-law overnight?
But with his understanding of Xu Shiwei, he didn't notice any bad intentions or conspiracies from beginning to end, she should really want to change herself, not a quiet disguise before the storm.
Xu Shiwei did what she said, the first thing she did was to call her parents to inform her parents, saying that she and Yang Lei had confirmed their relationship, and asked what to do next.
She is a conservative traditional girl, at least not as impulsive as Chen Bingni, she can't go to church when she says she goes, and she doesn't even inform her parents.
"How?"
Lao Xu was a little confused: "Are you going to get married? This is too fast! Weiwei, you wait for a while, don't worry, don't be impulsive, wait until I discuss it with your mother, can you?"
Xu Shiwei said: "Okay father, but no matter how you discuss, it will not change my decision to marry him, even my grandfather can't affect me, I am the master of my life." ”
"We won't force you, I can assure you. ”
Professor Xu put down the phone, and he had mixed feelings.
My daughter is finally getting married, and she is not too young at the age of 23.
Although his daughter is a treasure in her heart, a little padded jacket, and when she is a father, she must love her and give her the best, but his father is actually very incompetent.
When Xu Shiwei needed to be accompanied by her parents the most when she was a child, Professor Xu would rather be busy with her academics and career every day, and she would be stingy to accompany Xu Shiwei to play for a while.
If it weren't for the fact that there was an aunt about the same age who took care of her from time to time, and Xu Shiwei was really well-behaved and obedient, otherwise she would have become a problem girl if she was so free-range.
Everything has to change after her daughter took the college entrance examination, and before she knew it, a young and handsome boy walked into her daughter's world.
Professor Xu has seen Yang Lei grow up step by step and achieve one achievement after another, which is a height that ordinary boys cannot reach in a lifetime.
In addition, his daughter and Yang Lei have always been very close and have been helping him operate, Professor Xu has long recognized Yang Lei as a son-in-law, as long as the two of them are happy and happy.
Professor Xu discussed it with his wife, and Xu's mother was not surprised: "Xiao Yang is a good person, I agree that the two of them are together, but I am worried that my father will make it difficult for them." ”
Professor Xu snorted, "My daughter is getting married, what does it matter to them?"
Mother Xu sighed: "I heard you say this sentence 25 years ago, what does it matter to them that you marry me? As a result, you were excluded from Peking University, they didn't help you, you were transferred to Hongfeng University, they didn't introduce you to you, if it wasn't for Shiwei being admitted to Peking University, and you got such a high honor with Xiaoyang's light, they wouldn't have accepted you." ”
At the mention of this, Professor Xu was a little angry.
His marriage with his wife is actually a mess, his wife's maiden family is too strong, Professor Xu endured humiliation and burden for more than 20 years to get out, and it is not easy to boil from a young and vigorous young man to a greasy middle-aged man.
But after middle age, his temperament and fire are gradually sharpened to smoothness, and he is not as impulsive and angry as when he was young.
Professor Xu calmed down and said, "You go and talk to them, but no one wants to stop Weiwei's family business." ”
Xu's mother complied and routinely notified her mother's family.
The maiden name is Li, the family has been working in the government for several generations, and the position is relatively high, although my grandfather retired when he was old many years ago, but the relationship is still there, when Xu Shiwei was helping Yang Lei, she invited a friend of the Supreme Court, and the relationship between the Supreme Bureau of Sports was the help of the Li family.
Therefore, more money and less money are not within the scope of the Li family's consideration, and the Li family does not lack these at all.
They are more inclined to let Xu Shiwei find a young man with a great political career to marry, and such a candidate, the Li family knows many young and handsome people in the capital, and the family background is prominent.
It's a circle, a circle that is difficult for outsiders to enter.
The best families are huddled together, bringing together the best resources to be bigger and stronger.
The Li family's resources are not enough, and there has been a tendency to be squeezed out by the circle over the years, but Xu Shiwei is the biggest resource, and many people who looked down on the Li family in the past have now released their goodwill, and they are coming to Xu Shiwei and want to buy this potential stock.
But this is exactly what Professor Xu hates the most, he can't let go of it for so many years, arranging a designated marriage, disliking the poor and loving the rich, and not giving the poor boy a chance, this bad habit makes Professor Xu feel disgusting.
Xu's mother returned to her mother's house in the depths of the compound in the second ring road, saw her father, second uncle and other relatives, and solemnly talked about Xu Shiwei's marriage.
Of course, a controversy is indispensable, and the evaluation of Yang Lei is mixed.
Grassroots origins.
Families of ordinary workers.
Except for being particularly handsome, everything else is average.
Qian is another matter, especially when he learned that at least half of Yang Lei's wealth was earned with Xu Shiwei's help, everyone despised it even more, who is not hundreds of millions of assets?
After his grandfather and all his relatives expressed their attitudes, he saw that Xu's mother had a rebellious mentality again, just like 30 years ago, and he knew too well what his daughter was thinking.
He asked everyone to be quiet and asked, "How much do you know about Xiao Yang?"
Xu's mother said: "He is not complicated, it will not take half a day to investigate his information, and I have personally seen the experience in the past few years." ”
"Needless to say, I've had someone investigate him before. We don't talk to outsiders behind closed doors, Xiao Yang's biggest problem is that he can't be involved with some girls. ”
"It's the children's own business, you don't need to worry about it, Vivi is smarter than you think, and what she is determined to do, she must be sure to do. ”
"But this is also Xiao Yang's stain, where it is easy to be attacked in the future, our Li family can't afford such negative news. ”
"Dad, Weiwei is from the Xu family, and her surname is Xu. ”
"The Xu family, then you mean that at Weiwei's wedding, no one in our Li family will appear?
As my grandfather's voice raised, his tone became heavier, and the atmosphere of the conversation instantly became stiff.
The two sides are at a stalemate.
Xu's mother has eased a lot with her mother's family in recent years, and a few years ago she also accepted the house next to Tsinghua University from her grandfather, and she has also inherited the benefits of the family over the years, and she has been the boss of Hongfeng Vehicle Factory, saying that she will be transferred back to the capital, but she does not feel particularly happy.
Her marriage and family life are passionless, and a large part of the reason is caused by her mother's family, her father, her second uncle, and this family.
She didn't want her tragedy to happen to her daughter.
Mother Xu didn't speak, immediately stood up, took her bag, and walked out without saying a word.
Grandpa shouted angrily: "Xiaoxian, where are you going?
Mother Xu took two steps and turned back, and said coldly: "If you still want to interfere in my daughter's affairs, I will walk out of here immediately, and I promise that not a single wedding card will be sent!"
The Li family was in chaos, and several female relatives hurriedly pulled her, their faces full of anxiety, and persuaded her not to be impulsive.
Xu's mother did this 25 years ago, for the sake of her husband, she could even cut off the relationship with her mother's family, and she really didn't send a wedding card.
Today, she will continue to do so, this time for her daughter.
The men in the room were pale, and the women were all sad and anxious, persuading, choking, retaining, reproaching, all kinds of words, and they were in a hurry.
When my grandfather saw this scene, it was as if he had gone back to 25 years ago.
The daughter is still so stubborn, so rebellious, the hardships she has endured over the years, and his thoughts about his daughter, are constantly repeated in his mind like slides.
That's it, that's it, they're all old, don't see the tragedy happen again.
Under the persuasion of everyone, my grandfather took a blood pressure medicine, rested for a while, and finally calmed down, waved his hand, and said in a hoarse voice: "Xiaoxian, you can decide for yourself." ”
Xu Shiwei wanted to marry Yang Lei, and the Li family agreed.
Xu's mother also agreed, and she also admitted that her mother's relatives promised that Xu Shiwei's children could also integrate into the Li family in the future and enjoy the joy of family.
But the only requirement put forward by my grandfather is that he must go through the process, starting with the proposal of marriage, and it is best to find someone with a reputation and an important status.
The date should also be chosen, at least when Professor Xu returns to Beijing, when the family is there, and the family elders are also there, let the two elders of the Yang family and the matchmaker come over to propose marriage.
Grandpa said almost pleadingly: "Our Li family is also a famous family, although it is cumbersome, but this is also the last rule to prove our face, Xiaoxian, you agreed, okay?"
Xu's mother didn't want to get too stalemate with her father, but she also understood the importance of the marriage ceremony and agreed.
When he turned around and passed it to Yang Lei's ears, he was stupid.
Matchmaker?
Propose?
And such a cumbersome custom, wow?
He asked Xu Shiwei, but he didn't expect Xu Shiwei to say: "Marriage is a big event, and the ceremony is very important." Do you know what a sense of ritual is?"
Yang Lei shook his head: "Please forgive me for being a chemical dog, I can't say it." ”
Xu Shiwei smiled: "The Little Prince said that the sense of ritual is to make a certain day different from other days, and make a certain moment different from other moments. I don't care what you think, anyway, if I want to get married, I must have a sense of ceremony, and I will only marry you alone in this life. ”
Come on, this is another allusion to him and Chen Bingni entering the church so casually and rashly.
Yang Lei touched his nose, looked at Xu Shiwei pitifully, begged not to say, begged to let go, but got Xu Shiwei's small fist to serve, and pouted and pretended to be angry, and deliberately stepped on his feet.
She's really changing.
She would never have been able to do these intimate actions before.
Now she is learning to rely on him, instead of instructing him, the change of mentality requires a process, Xu Shiwei is studying hard, she rarely watched youth idol dramas before, but she has nothing to do with a tablet to chase dramas!
Well, the sense of ceremony is very important, Yang Lei had to call Lao Yang: "Dad, you and Mom should come to the capital this Friday, bring some special gifts from Shanghai, and prepare to propose to the Xu family." ”
Lao Yang was surprised: "Are you going to get married?" Are you sure it's with Xu Shiwei?"
Nonsense, aren't you sure it's Xu Shiwei?
Oh, that's right, there are so many girls, so many that even Lao Yang can't stand it, and his own father has to stab him secretly every time he seizes the opportunity.
Mother Yang is the most excited, she doesn't care who it is, just let her hold her grandson, she brought a lot of small sweaters to Zhu Chenhui before, and also dismantled all the sweaters of the baby boy and re-knitted them into baby girls, the more she plays with Zhu Xinning, the more she is eager to hold a grandson who can show off in front of relatives and friends.
Mother Yang said happily: "Son, you have finally decided to marry Shiwei, okay, we must be there on Friday...... Oops, what should Nini do......"
Yang Lei's head hurt: "Nini, I'll explain to her, don't worry about it." Come to the capital and talk about it, I still have to find a way to find a respected elder to be a matchmaker. ”
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