573 Helping relatives does not help
Some people's goals are some careers, some people's goals are to get inexhaustible money, everyone has different goals, everyone has their own pursuits, probably this is everyone has their own ambitions.
But it must also be admitted that some people's goals are actually different, and some people's pursuits are unusual.
For example, Zhang Dawei has a lifetime of children and daughters, and a wife and slave for half a lifetime.
Some people's goals are so simple, these are actually Zhang Dawei's pursuits, this is his life. For Zhang Dawei, such a life is not a burden at all, for Zhang Dawei, this is the true meaning of life.
"Daddy, I'm going to swim!" the baby ran over, and the sweaty little girl shouted, "I can swim by myself now, and I'm going to swim with Enoch without your help." I'm the best, I'm number one!"
Zhang Dawei put down the remote control in his hand, looked at the baby and asked, "When did you learn to swim?"
"I, I will be yesterday!" the baby looked very confident, and the little girl swore and said, "Dad, I am better than you, I am better than Mommy." I learned to swim all at once, I don't want you to help me!"
Zhang Dawei expressed skepticism, although the baby is very smart, the baby is indeed constantly growing. Even the little girl went to kindergarten, and this little girl did learn a lot of things, and some of them were even things that Zhang Dawei didn't know.
But it is undeniable that Zhang Dawei naturally knows his baby daughter very well, so what kind of level the baby is now, Zhang Dawei can be said to know it. To say that the baby knows those words, Zhang Dawei does not dare to guarantee absolute clarity, but the baby can swim, of course Zhang Dawei knows!
Obviously, Zhang Dawei thinks that the baby can't swim. There is no need to even doubt it at all, because something like swimming does not happen overnight, it requires continuous learning. With a swimming ring, the baby probably knows how to swim, but this does not mean that the baby can really swim, and it does not mean that the baby has learned to gouge and backstroke.
However, in such a situation and at such a moment, Zhang Dawei naturally will not be too serious with the baby, because Zhang Dawei knows and knows that it is indeed suitable to take the children to swim, which will be a very interesting thing.
"Dad, I want to swim too!" Enoch plunged into Zhang Dawei's arms like a small cannonball, and shouted at the top of his voice, "Dad, you are a big turtle, I am a little turtle!"
Zhang Dawei rubbed his chest, it was definitely because of what little Enoch did, Zhang Dawei had to rub his chest well now, Zhang Dawei felt that this was his reality and fate. Because of the role of Little Enoch, Zhang Dawei also had to accept such a reality.
The fat son is really not intimate at all, and this child doesn't seem to realize how much strength he has. This small cannonball generally collided, that is, Zhang Dawei has rough skin and thick flesh and strong resistance to hits, otherwise, maybe it is really very likely to be hit by such a little guy.
In fact, in Zhang Dawei's opinion, it is okay to hit it, because Enoch's strength is not small, but it is not exaggerated to hit people or anything like that. It's not that exaggerated, little Enoch's physical fitness is very good, but this child still needs to continue to grow. It's just that Zhang Dawei sometimes really hopes that little Enoch will have more eyes.
This is definitely Zhang Dawei's heart, this is definitely Zhang Dawei's feelings, because his precious son is definitely not a fuel-efficient lamp. Because of some of Enoch's naïve and childish words, people can hold back some internal wounds, and really don't know what to say.
For example, now, even if Zhang Dawei is a more congested type, he is now almost suffocated by Little Enoch's words. But he can only accept such a reality, who made Enoch young, so at this time, there is really no way to be real with Enoch, that would be a joke.
Little Enoch watched a lot of cartoons, and also saw a lot of documentaries and photos about animals, which Enoch liked very much. Therefore, he was naturally influenced a lot, and some of his views naturally came into being slowly because of this, which affected Little Enoch.
Enoch often saw his father swimming with his sister on his back, and he often swam on his father's back, and these naturally made Enoch slowly have some associations, he felt that this scene was actually more familiar, so he was very happy and happy.
There are some big turtles, and they will carry the small turtles on their backs to swim and bathe. So Enoch naturally has some cognition and judgment now, he thinks that his father can be a big turtle, and little Enoch also proudly thinks that he is a little turtle, because Enoch can lie on his father's back like a little turtle.
What can Zhang Dawei say, at such moments, Zhang Dawei is basically in a state of having nothing to say; because of these remarks of his baby son, Zhang Dawei can only admit it with a wry smile. Even, sometimes you have to make serious remarks that are in line with Enoch, and analyze some things with the little guy.
Zhang Dawei is really familiar with such a routine, and now it is Enoch, but before that, there are a lot of naïve remarks about the baby. Even if the baby is very smart, the baby does not understand everything all at once. Baby, naturally, there will be no shortage of some innocent and cute remarks.
has a strong psychological quality, and ordinary remarks will not affect Zhang Dawei's psychology too much now, so Zhang Dawei's mood is very calm now, he almost nothing happened, and he took the happy children to prepare for swimming.
Even if there is an internal injury, it should be held back, this is what Zhang Dawei should do. After the children's naïve remarks, Zhang Dawei also needs to pinch his nose and admit some realities in order to maintain the children's innocence. And, as much as possible, to maintain the innocent world of children.
For example, the baby, the little girl now thinks that there is Santa Claus in this world, for Zhang Dawei and Melissa, it is natural to maintain such a beautiful imagination of the baby, they must not be able to 'cruelly' tell the baby some reality, that is really not the right way.
In the world of children, Santa Claus is real. So children will happily hang their socks at the head of the bed, happily waiting for Santa Claus to put the gifts in the socks or under the Christmas tree.
The baby is very expectant and confident, because she is an obedient and good child, so she will definitely have Christmas gifts. But the baby is sometimes worried because her brother is sometimes disobedient, and the baby also knows a lot of stories, such as some disobedient children may not have Christmas presents.
Maybe the baby will know something one day, but it will definitely not be Zhang Dawei or Melissa who runs to tell the baby that there is no Santa Claus, let alone that the baby is prepared for her by her parents.
This is the consensus of Zhang Dawei and Melissa, and this is also the true thoughts of many parents. Even if some blind people tell their children about some realization, these parents will probably hate the same enemy, because they really want to maintain the innocent and simple world of their children, and naivety is the prerogative of children.
For example, Melissa, she is now wary of her younger brother Joshua, in Melissa's opinion, Joshua, who has gone to college, is becoming less and less worry-free, she feels that Joshua's existence is a stumbling block for her to educate children, and she thinks that Joshua, who is an uncle, is probably not good for the children's growth.
This is definitely Melissa's heart, she thinks so, and she has no intention of hiding anything, because Zhang Dawei has actually heard some such statements many times. Combined with some examples of Melissa, Zhang Dawei also has some such thoughts, because Joshua is becoming more and more unreliable.
"Sweetheart, how are you going to welcome your uncle if he comes?" Melissa asked worriedly, looking at the baby fluttering in the pool, bringing a large plate of juice.
Finally struggling to climb to the shore, the baby wiped the water on his face and said, "Is my uncle here?" I called my uncle to go fishing, and called my uncle to fight with Pooh and Xiaobai. Mommy, my uncle hasn't been doing well this season, why does he keep dropping the ball?"
Zhang Dawei immediately laughed, whether it was Zhang Dawei gloating, or watching Joshua's jokes. Anyway, Zhang Dawei thinks that what the baby said is the truth, and Joshua's uncompetitive kid really needs to reflect on it, and everyone is worried about him.
'He didn't work hard and focused enough, so he didn't play well on the pitch. Melissa is also angry, she doesn't take the baby and Enoch to watch Joshua's games, many of the games are paid channels, you need to spend money and find them, "Sweetheart, not everyone is as strong as your dad." ”
The baby nodded solemnly, obviously she also thought so, "Dad is the best, Dad wins the game even if he doesn't train." Uncle can't do it, uncle doesn't train and drops the ball. Mommy, I don't like the narrator, who always criticizes my uncle's attitude. ”
Yes, this is really Zhang Dawei's baby daughter, absolutely biological, this is clearly to help the relatives and not to help, even if it is obviously Joshua's attitude to the game is a little questionable, even if it is obviously Joshua's game state is not good, but the baby still doesn't like to be criticized by others, because it is all 'outsiders'!
Melissa also nodded, and said affirmatively, "I don't like that explanation either, their position is not fair. My sweetheart, we need to have our own judgment and cognition, we can't be affected by some of other people's opinions, we need to learn to think more about ourselves. ”
Zhang Dawei, who was swimming in the pool with Enoch on his back, really didn't know what to say, and he admitted that Melissa sometimes did things well, for example, and sometimes she would use some examples to tell the baby some opinions. The issue of education is not necessarily a serious class, but also a small talk.
However, Melissa seems to be such a character and positioning, obviously, this is talking about 'helping relatives and not helping', this is also a person who is very protective of shortcomings, this is a character who does not allow others to criticize his family.
This is absolutely the reality, this is definitely Melissa's approach, although Zhang Dawei and Melissa both know that some of these practices may not be reasonable as many people think, but the two of them are actually still so insistent. Or it can't be said to be persistence, because two people are naturally such a performance.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa naturally have some worries sometimes, because some of their physical actions seem to have a deep impact on the children.
It's just that it seems that Zhang Dawei and Melissa sometimes just reflect seriously. As for what to change or something, it seems that the two of them really don't have such ideas, and they don't think there is anything wrong with some practices at all, so naturally there is no need to change.
In the final analysis, Zhang Dawei and Melissa agree that the closest person in the world is relatives. So it is natural that they will help their relatives, instead of loving the world, they are not so great, they are not so selfless, what they care about is their family.
The baby who climbed ashore took a glass of mango juice and drank it, and then said, "If Uncle doesn't bring the best fruit, then I will ignore him." Mommy, my uncle doesn't like to compete, so my uncle likes to party!"
Melissa nodded naturally, because she knew that what the baby was saying was absolutely the truth, and it was definitely not the baby criticizing Joshua. There is no way to accept criticism from others, but some of the comments made by one's own family members must be for the good of the other party, and this is a matter of principle and a fundamental position.
"My uncle doesn't call me now, and when I call him, I can't find him. The baby put down the cup and said unhappily, "I also asked my uncle to buy me fruit, and I asked my uncle to help me go to Disney, and he promised me, but he never did it well." Mommy, my uncle has no reputation like this!"
Melissa nodded, because in her opinion, Joshua's credit was basically close to bankruptcy. Don't talk about a lot of promises to the baby, even if you promise her, Joshua's kid will basically forget about it soon after he agrees.
That kid was really close to credit bankruptcy, and after going to college, Joshua's kid seemed to be enjoying and adapting to college life. But this kind of performance, the family naturally needs to criticize it, and Joshua is indeed like a bastard a lot of the time.
Melissa and Baby continue to complain about Joshua because Joshua is a bastard who needs to be criticized.
But what about Zhang Dawei, he now continues to play the role of the big turtle, carrying the elated little turtle Enoch in the pool!
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