574 Suggestions from family members

Zhang Dawei looked at Joshua and felt that this child had really changed a lot, and he had to accept that this was a reality.

When I first met Joshua, this was just a high school student, although he was not particularly sensible, but basically he was not a headache child, and in general he was quite satisfied, and he would really feel that Joshua was very worry-free.

But this view is naturally the same as some of the past views of Joshua, because Joshua will change.

The sunny high school student at the beginning has become a college student who is a bit of a hanger, which makes people have nothing to say. In the past, Joshua had more goals for his future, but now he seems to be enjoying his life more often.

If there is anything to say, there is nothing to say, because Joshua has the current attitude to life, which is not strictly acceptable, and there is nothing wrong with that.

After all, Joshua is just more fond of fraternity parties now, and he's become the type of negative template in American dramas and Hollywood movies. This sunny and handsome varsity player is very popular with cheerleaders, and is also very popular with some ordinary students, such a guy is probably a popular figure on campus.

In such a state, Zhang Dawei felt that he had nothing to say, and he felt that Joshua's current life might be what Joshua liked. Even if Joshua's progress on the court seems to be relatively small, even if Joshua doesn't seem to have any intention of becoming a professional athlete, Zhang Dawei will not raise objections.

At the end of the day, college athletes are already extremely good athletes, but it's very difficult to become a professional athlete. Joshua may also realize that it is difficult to become a professional athlete, so he is now happy to enjoy his college life and finish his studies seriously, which is enough.

"Zhang, I know that no matter how hard I try, it's going to be hard for me to become a real professional athlete. Joshua picked up his beer, took a hard sip and said, "You know, talent is the most unfair. Sometimes no matter how hard you try, it's hard to push some limits. You are the best proof of this, and I can feel that. ”

Zhang Dawei was quite speechless, because Joshua's age had not yet reached the legal drinking age.

But Zhang Dawei didn't say anything, because he knew that there are many people in the United States who are not of legal drinking age to drink. At these times, it's okay to drink in private, as long as you don't run out in public, and a little restraint is fine.

Seeing that Joshua was a little frustrated, Zhang Dawei didn't feel good in his heart, "You can work hard, I don't think you need to get into the professional league." But I want you to work hard, enjoy your college life, and enjoy your college athletic career. ”

"Of course, I just don't want to be a professional athlete right now, but I'm doing well on the varsity team, I'm a regular on the team, and I'm enjoying my life right now. Joshua explained with a smile, which was also his heartfelt words, "I got a scholarship to the varsity team, and I was like a lot of my teammates. But we all know that we are very talented players. It's just that we know better that the university arena is our limit. ”

Zhang Dawei admits such a reality, college athletes can say that they are one out of a hundred, one out of a thousand. But when it comes to professional athletes, this is one in a thousand groups of college athletes...... The vast majority of college athletes, they can't actually get into the professional league, that's the reality.

Enoch ran over, and Enoch, who was wearing little fist gloves, blushed with excitement, and raised his little fist, and began to greet his uncle. Obviously, this is how Enoch is welcoming his uncle, and this is a way of intimacy.

Enoch's fist still had some strength, and this punch smashed into Joshua's body, which was the sound of 'bang'. Enoch's strength is definitely not to be underestimated, and this little guy really likes boxing.

"Enoch, you can go to boxing in the future, and I'm sure you're going to achieve great things. Joshua smiled and hugged Enoch and complimented, "My Enoch, you are an amazing boy, you are very good!"

Enoch smiled and raised his small fist, and said in a milky voice, "Uncle, I don't box, I like balls!"

Although Enoch often 'beats' his father with gloves when he has nothing to do, Enoch's greatest hobby is all kinds of ball games. Whether it's baseball, football or golf, it's what he loves. Anyway, compared to boxing and fighting, Enoch was more interested in ball sports.

Joshua couldn't help but laugh, hugged Enoch and said, "I know, I believe in you. Enoch, as long as you work hard, you will definitely become the best athlete, and you will definitely achieve great things in the arena. But Enoch, you should know what your favorite sport is. If you want to achieve great things, you need to focus on one sport. ”

Enoch is naturally in a state of ignorance about these things now, and it is difficult for him to understand such a 'profound' truth.

But Zhang Dawei always felt that Joshua's kid seemed to be insinuating, and he felt that Joshua's kid was clearly stimulating him. In the final analysis, it is Joshua who may say that grapes are sour when he can't eat grapes, and he is now a little psychologically unbalanced, so it is possible to insinuate and say some 'bad things' about Zhang Dawei here.

Of course, this may also be because Zhang Dawei thinks too much, probably because he has a little glass heart. However, Zhang Dawei really felt that Joshua, the kid, was sarcastic about him now, and Zhang Dawei had these keen feelings.

Joshua was a bad guy, Zhang Dawei thought so, because Zhang Dawei knew that Joshua was just blocking him!

The baby ran over, and the little girl looked very hateful, "Uncle, how many times have you dropped a ball this season?" Mommy and I have watched your game, and you keep dropping balls. You have to train hard, you can't be lazy anymore. ”

Obviously, Joshua was speechless now, looked at the baby and said, "Sweetheart, you only remember the moment I dropped the ball, you don't remember the time when I performed well." I can guarantee that I did make some mistakes on the pitch, but I also had a very good performance and I was a very good athlete!"

The baby didn't care about this, she climbed onto the sofa and said, "Uncle, you have to train hard, you have to train hard." Only dad can be the best without training, you can't do that!"

Zhang Dawei gasped, because he felt that the baby's words were really a bit unpleasant to listen to. Whether it is Zhang Dawei or Joshua, in fact, at this time, there must be something wrong in my heart, because even if the baby's words are 'unintentional', it is unacceptable.

Joshua couldn't accept it, naturally because he was a good college athlete, but it had reached its limit. It's basically impossible to make a name for yourself as an athlete. He's almost reached his limit, and it's really hard to go further.

But in Zhang Dawei's heart, he can be regarded as a blow now, because in the eyes of the baby, her father is a person who doesn't know how to work hard at all, and her father is an athlete who relies on talent to make a living. Such an image is really a rather depressing thing for Zhang Dawei.

As far as Zhang Dawei is concerned, there is nothing to say, this is to make Zhang Dawei have a hard time; perhaps in many things, Zhang Dawei really did not do very well. However, he really doesn't want to leave such an image in the baby's heart, he feels that he should have a great image in the baby's mind.

But now, Zhang Dawei knows that he is thinking too much, and he feels that it is really difficult for him to become the perfect father figure in the baby's mind, and he can only accept such a reality.

"Sweetheart, I think you also need to look for something that you are truly passionate about so that you can be more serious and committed so that you can have more fun. Joshua laughed, hugged the baby and said, "Sweetheart, you and Enoch are both very gifted children, but you can't squander them just because you have talent." ”

The baby immediately covered his ears, for such words, the baby can be said to be very familiar, because she has heard these remarks in other places, the baby is smart!

Maybe the baby knows some things, but she thinks that she has a lot of things that she is interested in, and she is difficult to give up, so she still wants to continue to develop in this way.

Looking at the baby's current performance, Zhang Dawei also felt funny, but he felt that this matter was very normal. The reason is naturally because of the baby's current performance, this is the baby's style, this is the baby's real performance, this is the baby's character.

Joshua looked at the baby's performance and felt very speechless, he felt that the baby's performance really showed the strength of genes. Obviously, these performances of the baby are naturally learned from Zhang Dawei, and this little girl is also happily 'squandering her talent', which is the same as Zhang Dawei.

Zhang Dawei smiled and hugged the baby and Enoch into his arms, looking at the children who were playing, Zhang Dawei felt very happy; as for the children's achievements and so on, Zhang Dawei didn't care at all. For Zhang Dawei, the children's happiness in the future is Zhang Dawei's greatest expectation for the children.

Although Joshua's child now seems to be a little 'self-defeating', Zhang Dawei doesn't take this matter too seriously; it seems that Joshua is giving up on himself, but this is not Joshua's sober understanding, and Joshua's child can now be said to know some future, and no longer has some unrealistic fantasies.

It's cruel to say, if there is an inspirational story, it is probably the 'average talent' Joshua who trained hard and was able to break into the professional league. This is definitely an inspirational story, and this will also be in line with the values of the vast majority of people, and this is probably the perfect story and inspirational story for some people.

However, Zhang Dawei knew very well that such an approach would be a huge burden for Joshua, and Joshua's efforts might not necessarily have any return.

So be sober, don't be too ambitious, you can enjoy the fun of sports, you can enjoy the happiness of sports. But if you want to become an athlete, you really have to look at talent and strength, and these things, sometimes it really doesn't mean that hard work can be done, everyone needs to accept such a reality.

Zhang Dawei hugged the children and happily chatted with Joshua, just talking about the parents' shortcomings, and chatting about some interesting things in the school, which is a very interesting thing.

Melissa naturally joined the chatter, even though she had a lot to complain about Joshua right now. But she still cares about Joshua very much, even if she cares more about the baby and Enoch now, but Joshua, in the end, is her own brother, and still has a deep affection.

And Melissa also knows some things now, for example, Joshua is actually more willing to chat with Zhang Dawei now, maybe because Joshua has grown up, and many topics are not very willing to share with his sister, but Zhang Dawei, the brother-in-law, can talk about some topics very speculatively.

And there are some topics that Joshua doesn't even want to talk about with his father, even if he is very close to his father, but he is still an elder, even if there is a so-called equality. But in fact, the vast majority of children really can't completely calm their minds, and they can't completely let go of talking to their fathers.

Therefore, Zhang Dawei, the brother-in-law of the same generation, is a good exchange partner, because Joshua knows that Zhang Dawei is a person with a strict tone. Even if Zhang Dawei looks like a big mouth at times, but it is all some innocuous jokes;

Moreover, Zhang Dawei is a social person in the end, has good social experience, and also has very good grades; all this may show that Zhang Dawei is a 'person who has come over', and he can indeed give Joshua some advice on some things. Even if some of them seem like jokes, these are indeed some of Zhang Dawei's suggestions.

In the final analysis, this is a family, and Zhang Dawei certainly hopes that Joshua's development will go more smoothly, and that Joshua will encounter fewer setbacks, so his suggestions are naturally from the heart.

The family happily sits together and has a good chat, which is a good way to get along. And this kind of getting along is naturally an opportunity for the family to get closer emotionally. Of course, blood relationship is important, but the cultivation and maintenance of the acquired relationship is even more important!

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