673 Children's cognition
has a solid child, Zhang Dawei's experience can naturally be said to be quite extraordinary.
The nature here is Enoch, that is, this little boy is very naughty, that is, this child will feel uncomfortable when people feel at ease. In the final analysis, Enoch was obedient, but the child was really naughty.
For example, this swing, this child is a master who does not make people feel at ease.
Enoch was a little dissatisfied, and turned around and shouted, "Dad, go to the top!"
Zhang Dawei looked at Enoch and said weakly, "Enoch, if the swing flies too high, you may fall." ”
"It doesn't hurt to fall, it's all sand!" Enoch was even more justified, and the little fellow cried out, "Daddy, I like to fly the highest, and I fly as high as Goldwing." ”
As he spoke, the swing came back. What else does Zhang Dawei have to say, naturally he just used a little force and tried to make the swing fly a little higher, so that it would meet Enoch's needs, and Enoch would be happy.
The baby is still worry-free, and the little girl is also sitting on the swing, but she is quietly holding Xiaobai, not like Enoch. The baby is definitely not afraid of heights or anything like that, and for many game babies also like excitement and fun, but it will definitely not be like Enoch who just pursues excitement and fun.
Zhang Dawei pushed Enoch's back a little here, and something went wrong.
Originally, the swing was swinging higher and higher, and the excited Enoch was obviously a little too excited. This little guy actually let go.
So there was no doubt that he lost his balance, and Zhang Dawei couldn't help but laugh and saw Enoch excitedly 'flying' out. There is no doubt that the little guy suddenly lay on the beach. And what Zhang Dawei could do was to quickly grab the swing, so as not to hurt Enoch, who was excited to get up, on the swing that swung back.
As for why he didn't hold on to his promise, it was because he couldn't react just now. Even if Zhang Dawei's physical fitness is very good, but the situation just now is beyond the reach of the whip, so it can only be sure that Enoch fell on the beach.
Zhang Dawei could only helplessly watch Enoch kick his calves, and then lie directly on the beach.
Although he fell very embarrassed, but he didn't care at all, the little guy got up happily. patted his little buttocks, it seemed that he was ready to swing again, but Zhang Dawei seriously suspected that his fat son might want to experience the feeling of a trapeze artist again, and he didn't doubt Enoch's style and character at all.
Melissa stopped Enoch, and she quickly spoke, "Enoch, we're going to get ready for dinner." ”
Enoch really liked to play games, and it can be said that games are particularly crazy when they play. But when it comes to eating, Enoch is also particularly enthusiastic and devoted. Even if you're playing games, you'll definitely run to eat as soon as you hear that you're going to eat.
In fact, Enoch must have been happy, because this little guy can be said to be quite happy this day.
I saw my grandparents who I hadn't seen for a long time, and I didn't talk about being crazy at Disney for most of the day, but I also found Donald Duck and Mickey Mouse, and they had their favorite group photos. Of course, in addition to these happy things, a large family came to the beach.
Enoch took Melissa's hand and ran in front of him, followed by Xiaobai.
Zhang Dawei felt that the baby was unhappy, so he took the baby's little hand and asked, "Baby, why are you unhappy?"
This is actually something that Zhang Dawei is more curious about, and the baby was originally very happy, because there are indeed too many reasons to be happy on this day. It's just that all of a sudden, the baby is a little depressed, and this little girl has something on her mind.
The baby's mouth was flattened, and he ran to Zhang Dawei and opened his hands.
Although he felt funny and a little surprised, Zhang Dawei still hugged his baby daughter. Zhang Dawei also felt very happy, because his intimate little padded jacket is very coquettish, because the baby is still very clingy.
After kissing the baby's little face, Zhang Dawei said softly, "Baby, if you have something on your mind, you can tell Dad." ”
The baby hugged Zhang Dawei's neck and said unhappily, "Dad, can you get a tattoo?"
Zhang Dawei was stunned for a moment, and then asked in surprise, "Tattoos?"
"I'm not a kid, and a lot of people have tattoos. The baby was unhappy and felt underestimated, "Dad, many people have tattoos, Dad, you can also get tattoos." ”
Baby's words are really true, in this part of the United States, tattoos are almost a culture. It is true that there will be some people who do not get tattoos, but tattoos will not be considered as gangsters or anything else here, and there is a high level of acceptance of tattoos here.
Zhang Dawei really doesn't care much about his own style, because his style itself is more 'abnormal'.
Although Zhang Dawei is not the type of beard with a beard, he still has a little stubble, and he usually doesn't shave, just trim. As for the hair, it has always been a bit of a hippie style, with relatively long hair.
Although this is a common occurrence in the United States, there are also some traditional beliefs that long hair is untidy and that it is a sign of women. Generally speaking, men with long hair are certainly not as recognized as men with short hair.
Zhang Dawei naturally knew all this, but he didn't care too much, because his kind of thing was not particularly mainstream, in fact, it was not so abnormal, and it was not particularly maverick or eye-catching, which was definitely no problem.
The baby was still unhappy, and his little face was attached to Zhang Dawei's face and said, "Dad, but if you have a tattoo, you are the most handsome!"
"Is it because Dad has many scars on his body, so it's not good-looking?" Zhang Dawei suddenly understood, so he smiled and said to the baby, "I think this is very good, do you think Dad is particularly handsome?"
The baby flattened his mouth and said unhappily, "But Dad doesn't wear clothes, and many people look at Daddy." Dad, you can't play at the beach, you can't go swimming, you can't play volleyball. ”
Knowing why the baby was unhappy, Zhang Dawei was very happy in his heart, "But the weather is bad now, and I don't want to go swimming at this time." Baby, I'm not interested in beach volleyball. Even if someone calls me to play volleyball, I don't like it. ”
But the baby pointed to the beach and said unhappily, "But there are other people who can swim, only Dad can't!"
California does have a lot of sunshine, and the winters here are not cold, at least compared to other places, the winters here are still comfortable. So when you are at the beach, you often see some people swimming and surfing in the sea.
The reason why the baby is unhappy is naturally to see someone swimming and someone playing beach volleyball. But those people don't pay attention at all, they can have a good time. But the baby's dad can't, as long as her dad doesn't wear a shirt to swim, or goes shirtless to play beach volleyball, there will definitely be a lot of people watching her dad.
This is something that the baby does not like, and may not be sensible when he is a child, but the baby is now slowly knowing some things. She knew that those people looked at her dad because he had too many scars on his body.
Babies know it and see it on TV. In addition to those competitions, the baby has also seen some shows, and there will be some guests and hosts to discuss the baby's father. In addition to saying that her dad is very good in the game, they also like to talk about the scars on the baby's dad, which is always talked about.
When I was a child, my baby may not care very much, but slowly my baby is now starting to care about these things.
After kissing the baby's little face, Zhang Dawei said with a smile, "Baby, sometimes we don't need to care about what others say, we just need to be ourselves." Of course, I'm not saying that you don't care about what other people think. We need to understand the degree, we need to understand how to be ourselves and be recognized by society. ”
The baby is still unhappy, this little girl is still a little sensitive, she doesn't like those passers-by to look at her dad with strange eyes, she doesn't like those people to point fingers at her dad, this is something that the baby doesn't like.
Looking at the baby's unhappy appearance, Zhang Dawei said softly, "Baby, I don't think I need a tattoo, I don't need to change my life because of other people's eyes and discussions." I think it's handsome, I think it's very temperamental, do you also think Dad is the most manly?!"
The little one tilted his head and thought for a moment before he said, "But Daddy, you are a wild man sometimes, and Enoch is going to be a little wild man." ”
There is no way to do it, Zhang Dawei was forced to do so at the beginning, otherwise he would definitely not want to suffer those crimes. But Enoch, the kid, is completely energetic to the point of being a little overdone, plus the little guy also has fairly long hair, no one else's Sven, it is definitely too noisy compared to the average little Zhengtai.
Either fighting with Pooh or messing with Rudolph, or rolling around on the lawn, the chubby cute child sometimes looks really dirty, so the appearance of some little savages, this is not a grievance, it is completely free-range.
Holding the baby, Zhang Dawei was chatting with this little girl all the way; knowing why the baby was unhappy, Zhang Dawei naturally needed to enlighten the baby.
But Zhang Dawei is still very happy, because the baby's starting point is to care about her father. So this made Zhang Dawei very happy, his intimate little padded jacket was really not distressed in vain.
Enoch was suddenly upset, because as soon as he turned his head, he saw his father holding his sister, so the little fellow was very angry and dissatisfied, and the little fellow was jealous.
Seeing Enoch break free from Melissa's hand and run over, Zhang Dawei still felt very proud, don't look at Enoch's usual appearance of only thinking about his mother and sister, but this little guy still cares about his father a lot of the time. If this little guy starts to get jealous, it's not an ordinary easy thing to provoke.
"Dad, I'm the youngest child in the family!" Enoch said unhappily with open hands, "Why don't you hug me, you always have to hug my sister, my sister can walk by herself!"
seemed to think it was very interesting to tease Enoch, so the baby hugged Zhang Dawei's neck fiercely and put his little face on Zhang Dawei's face. Then there was no need to say anything, just looking at Enoch, which was enough to make Enoch jump to his feet, and it was enough to make Enoch feel a serious psychological imbalance.
Enoch was really anxious, the little guy hugged his father's thigh at once, and shouted anxiously, "Dad, I'm Enoch, you have to hug me too, I can't walk!"
Zhang Dawei, who felt funny, was kind and hugged the little guy. For Zhang Dawei, holding two children is not tiring at all, for him, these two children are his greatest happiness.
Enoch moved his little buttocks and sat on Zhang Dawei's small left forearm. As soon as he sat down firmly and steadily, the little guy immediately put his fleshy little face on Zhang Dawei's face. Usually, you may feel numb and dislike, but at a moment like this, Enoch, who is competing for favor, can't take care of these things.
Zhang Dawei is definitely the happiest person at this moment, because his children are clinging to him. For Zhang Dawei, this is of course something to be happy and proud of, Zhang Dawei feels that he is a winner in life!
"Daddy, do you like the youngest in the family?" Enoch suddenly became serious, staring at his father and asked, "My sister used to be the youngest, and you liked her sister the most." Now that I'm the youngest, you're the one who likes me the most!"
This time Zhang is very happy, there is really no shortage of some narcissistic existence in the family, and children who feel good about themselves are not just babies and whites. Enoch, the little guy, is obviously also a very narcissistic child, and this little guy has a lot of ideas.
Zhang Dawei would not let Enoch have some misunderstandings, whether it was to avoid the little guy being injured, or to avoid the little guy's excessive expansion, Zhang Dawei felt that he needed to make it clear to Enoch, and this was also something he had to do.
"Enoch, I don't have the youngest child in my family who likes it the most. Looking at Enoch, Zhang Dawei said seriously, "You and your sister are my children, I love you the same, I don't like anyone the most, and I don't like anyone." ”
Enoch pouted and said unhappily, "But you always hold me, you always play games with me." When my sister is young, you hug my sister, and when I am young, you hug me!"
Listening to Enoch's crooked reasoning, Zhang Dawei suddenly felt a little crying and laughing, he felt that Enoch's theory was really a little bit unbelievable, and the crooked reasoning of this little guy was even almost convincing in an instant.
Just think about what this little guy said, it was just some of Enoch's own thoughts.
Obviously, he always hugged him, and it was because he was too small and couldn't walk steadily. Always take him to play games, and that's because Enoch is home all day and the baby is going to school.
However, Zhang Dawei felt that in the final analysis, it was Enoch's overconfidence, and this little guy was a very narcissistic child.
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