674 Scheming

Zhang Dawei felt very proud and gratified, because the children's performance made him feel extremely happy, and it is no exaggeration to say that Zhang Dawei thinks that he is the happiest person, and he is the happiest father in the world.

Zhang Dawei is very fond and loves his children, he always hopes to give the best to the children, he always hopes to protect and take care of his children, and hopes that the little ones can grow up happily, this is Zhang Dawei's expectation, this is Zhang Dawei's life.

But while Zhang Dawei loves his children, in fact, his children also care about their father.

This is enough to make Zhang Dawei proud and happy, and watching the children grow up is a happy thing in itself. And if the children can give a little care, this will naturally make Zhang Dawei feel happier and happier, and make him feel that life is so beautiful.

This is definitely not Zhang Dawei's self-entertainment, this is Zhang Dawei's true feeling. Holding the two little guys, Zhang Dawei was reluctant to let go of his hand, holding these two little guys, Zhang Dawei really felt that he was holding the whole world, and he was extremely satisfied and happy now.

"It's the weekend and I was supposed to play games with my buddies or go out partying. Joshua ate the seafood weakly and complained speechlessly, "And I also need to take care of Xiaobai, who has been bullied and instructed by it all day long." You've spoiled it, it's become a complete jerk, a bully!"

Zhang Dawei looked at Joshua and said angrily, "Xiaobai is quite sensible, you just don't have much patience." If you weren't thinking about messing around with your buddies, if you weren't thinking about fooling around with some girls, you certainly wouldn't feel like you do now. ”

Melissa followed suit, and said with great dissatisfaction, "This is a family event, I know you want to go on a date, you want to go to a party. But that's not all you have in life, you should be more with your family, you need to understand that family is all you have!"

Joshua immediately spread his hands, and he conceded defeat, "Okay, I know it was my mistake, and I know I shouldn't have said bad things about Xiaobai. Yes, I'm a jerk, I just think about messing around with buddies, thinking about dating girls, I neglect my family, it's my mistake. ”

If you know that you are wrong, you can correct it. What I am most afraid of is obsession, and what I am most worried about is that Joshua, this kid, has done something wrong and doesn't know how to reflect.

So speaking of it now, Joshua is not hopeless, although this kid has temporarily gone wrong, but after Zhang Dawei and Melissa's reminders, he can get on the right track in time, so there is no need to criticize too much, give young people a little time and space!

Looking at Zhang Dawei and Melissa's forgiving expressions, Joshua was even more speechless. He feels that his biggest problem is that he is not old enough, because he is young, so he always plays the role of the one who is criticized and educated.

As for rebellion or anything like that, it wasn't something Joshua's age would have done. Of course, there will be some such people, but Joshua is obviously not so impulsive, even if he is a little speechless and wants to complain, but at such a moment, he still chooses to accept it calmly, or just accept it superficially.

As for the reason, naturally since he is powerless to resist, he can only accept it calmly. Faced with a group of powerful forces that he was unable to fight at all, Joshua wisely chose to compromise, he knew that he was not those powerful opponents, he would not choose to be hard-hitting, that was not Joshua's approach.

"Uncle, Xiaobai is very well-behaved. The baby put down the little fork and said with some dissatisfaction, "Uncle, you have to be nice to Xiaobai, Xiaobai is obedient, cute, and the most sensible, you make Xiaobai angry every time!"

Joshua couldn't help it, but he could only hold on. Because he doesn't want to worry about a child of his baby's age, because he actually likes and spoils Baby and Enoch very much. Of course, Joshua also understood the root cause of his almost becoming the target of public criticism.

Naturally, it was because he said bad things about Xiaobai, so this time it caused strong dissatisfaction in Zhang Dawei's family.

This family can also be said to have an obvious characteristic, that is, no one is allowed to speak ill of Xiaobai at all. Otherwise, they will definitely attack them in groups, and they will definitely be criticized; in the eyes of Zhang Dawei's family, Xiaobai is naturally the best and most perfect, and Xiaobai has nothing worthy of criticism.

Of course, even if you know that Xiaobai may not be the most perfect sometimes, but it is not the turn of others to count, if you want to say it, it can only be said by your own family.

Yes, Joshua would certainly be classified as an 'outsider' at such a moment. Don't say that Zhang Dawei and the baby have such thoughts, even Melissa obviously thinks so; in Melissa's opinion, among her family members, the most important ones are Zhang Dawei, Baobao, and Enoch, and obviously there are a few Xiaobai.

It's not that the mother's family doesn't care, but after getting married and having a new family, the focus and emotions have naturally changed. This kind of thing is not unique to Melissa, many women have this kind of behavior after getting married, which is a normal thing.

Joshua wisely chose to surrender, knowing that if he continued, he would be in more trouble. When the trouble is not particularly big, he puts an end to such a topic, which is the smartest thing to do.

It's like stepping into a swamp with both feet, and the more you struggle, the deeper you sink. Wise choices are calm and unmoving, so that the chances of getting out of the mire will also increase.

Joshua was able to have such an awareness, perhaps because he was used to being 'bullied' since he was a child, so he had already understood some skills for survival. Or because he knew Zhang Dawei's family too well, so he didn't plan to defend himself at this time, he knew that it was useless.

Of course, it is useless, whether it is a fallacy or an authority of force, Zhang Dawei's family will definitely not allow Joshua to resist. In times like these, all Joshua can do is accept the criticism, and that's the only thing Joshua can do.

So the overall atmosphere is very good, a large family talking and laughing, enjoying a delicious dinner together. This is obviously one of the happiest things, and the family should indeed be at the top of the list.

No matter what kind of opinion others have, anyway, in Zhang Dawei's opinion, the family should come first.

The children had a lot of ideas, such as that dinner was over, and Baby and Enoch wanted to go out to play. These two little guys want to ride the Ferris wheel, and these two little ones are arguing that they haven't ridden the Ferris wheel at night, so what else is there to say, naturally they take the children to ride the Ferris wheel, which is also quite interesting.

It is true that some places in the United States are not very safe at night, but this does not mean that the night in the United States is full of all kinds of dangers, in fact, nightlife is also very accustomed to Americans, and their nightlife arrangements will be very exciting.

Zhang Dawei and Melissa's task is naturally to take the children to ride the Ferris wheel. Thinking about it, there are actually some small expectations, because they have never ridden the Ferris wheel at night, and they also think that this should be a more romantic thing, and it is also a very interesting arrangement to see the night view of Los Angeles.

As for Joshua, the boy had already run away. Family is important, but for Joshua's age, it's obviously more fun to mingle with friends, and in addition to personality reasons, the main thing is that he hasn't graduated from college and is in a playful age.

So Paul didn't say anything, and even thought it was normal, and he came at this age, and he knew that it was normal for Joshua to behave like this.

He was just looking forward to the day when Joshua graduated and started a family, and hoped that by that time Joshua would be able to settle down, instead of just thinking about fooling around with his friends all day, and if he was at that age, it would be a little inappropriate to fool around all day.

Zhang Dawei naturally understands Joshua better, so he doesn't care about Joshua's 'escape'. He even sponsored a few hundred dollars to remind Joshua to pay attention to safety, and it can be said that Zhang Dawei's brother-in-law is still very qualified, except for some times when he needs to pull a strong ding.

"Dad, I'm not afraid of heights at all. The baby is very confident, the little girl said confidently, "I can stand on a high place and look at the ground, Mommy is afraid of heights, but the baby is not afraid of heights!"

Melissa was helpless, looked at the baby and said, "Sweetheart, I only have some fear of heights once in a while." It's normal, I don't like to stand on a tall building and look at the ground, it feels a little dizzy. Believe me, a lot of people do, and that doesn't mean I'm timid and not brave enough. ”

The baby was very happy and didn't care that the front teeth were gone, "Mommy, you let Daddy protect you, and Enoch and I don't need protection." We're all brave and we love to run around on the glass. ”

Zhang Dawei couldn't help laughing, and also felt that the baby girl was not only a powerful mouth now, but also a little girl who was very good at sprinkling salt on wounds. Of course, it cannot be ruled out that this little guy is more and more fond of bickering.

Melissa is really helpless, because there is some black history caught by the baby. Then you need to be prepared, be prepared to be teased and sarcastic by the baby at any time, and you need to be prepared to lose in such a fight, and Melissa is getting used to these things, because this is not the first time it has been staged.

So Melissa is now complaining a little about some designers, not to mention building a very tall building, it doesn't matter if there is a sightseeing platform. But installing clear glass in such a place so that people can see the ground beneath their feet can really feel weak in such a situation, and she admits that she feels afraid of heights at such times.

I didn't feel this way before, but when I was at a sightseeing platform like that, I suddenly found myself afraid of heights. If it was just known by Zhang Dawei, of course it was nothing, but it was seen by the children, and this became black history, especially the little guy Baobao always talked about it.

Seeing Melissa's unhappy look, Zhang Dawei didn't say anything, because it was useless to say such a thing, all he could do was hold her hand. This is to give Melissa some encouragement, because Zhang Dawei didn't know that Melissa was actually a little afraid of heights.

And Zhang Dawei also feels that this kind of encouragement can be regarded as sympathy, he is usually speechless when the baby refutes him, so Melissa's current treatment naturally makes Zhang Dawei feel empathetic, he will definitely encourage Melissa, he will definitely feel that this is a good opportunity.

Of course, it is a good opportunity, because Melissa often unites with the baby. Zhang Dawei felt that this might be a good opportunity to win allies, so naturally he couldn't miss it. Even if it can't be achieved overnight, but with such continuous accumulation, maybe you can get what you want at some point, which is an early investment!

Melissa held Zhang Dawei's hand, and she did feel comforted, and she also felt very relieved, although Zhang Dawei was quite annoying sometimes, but she was still worthy of reliance at critical moments.

As for such a thing as forming a united front with Zhang Dawei, Melissa definitely didn't think about it, at least at such a moment, she wouldn't think about such a thing.

That is, Zhang Dawei is a scheming man, that is, Zhang Dawei is still thinking about allies and other things at such a moment. It is a good choice for him to burn the cold stove in advance and invest emotionally, but if his true intentions are discovered by Melissa, then it naturally means that Zhang Dawei's trouble will be greater.

So it's better to keep a low profile for some things, and don't be too blatant at times. Fortunately, Zhang Dawei knew this, and he also thought that he had done a good job, and he believed that Melissa must not have thought of such a far-reaching thing at such a moment.

This is Zhang Dawei's cunning, raising such a difficult character as Xiaobai, and the baby is also quirky enough, is it really Melissa's credit?

Zhang Dawei felt that there was also part of his credit for this, and even secretly thought that it was the influence of his 'leading by example'. Under his influence of his ears and eyes, the children are naturally smart enough.

It's just that sometimes Enoch's child is bullied more miserably, and the family is full of scheming, plus Enoch is the youngest. So for Enoch, the child, what he can do is to be obedient, and many things are not Enoch's turn to express some opinions.

As for the fact that sometimes he may lift a stone to shoot himself in the foot, such a thing has indeed happened, and Zhang Dawei can of course be said to know it. But Zhang Dawei didn't care at all, he was very satisfied with this state of life.

It's okay to talk to the family, and sometimes the family happily 'pits' each other, which is also quite interesting. Of course, such a pit must not have malicious intent.

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