Drifter (70) - Qin Shasha
In the Spring Festival of 2004, Yu Yuanming was proud of the spring breeze.
I finally have a girlfriend to spend the Spring Festival with me. Not only did she chat happily with relatives and friends at Qin Shasha's house. took Qin Shasha home and chatted happily with her relatives.
During the Spring Festival, Yu Yuanming wanted to buy a gift for Qin Shasha, but what to buy?
Eventually, she settled on something she was sure to like.
When Qin Shasha opened the gift box, she jumped in surprise!
Inside lies the latest version of an orange Nokia phone.
In fact, Yu Yuanming has never bought such a valuable gift for any woman. Generally speaking, a bouquet of flowers, a box of kilograms, and an ordinary piece of clothing. A mobile phone worth more than 1,000 yuan feels pleasant to give away! Why?
Yu Yuanming thought that what she won by playing cards was also the wealth she brought to me. Now it seems to be a gift, but it's just a matter of giving it back to her. Besides, it's human nature to get along well and give a nice gift.
Visiting relatives during the Spring Festival, Qin Shasha's overall performance was still decent and generous.
Everyone unanimously commented that this woman wanted it.
Neither squeamish nor rustic, the character is not the kind of stormy, but it is not difficult to get along with.
So be it!
In fact, the Qin family is also evaluating and inspecting Yuanming.
For the first time, the old man of the Qin family asked Yu Yuanming about smoking and drinking, and he still didn't believe it: How can there be young people nowadays who don't smoke or drink?
I didn't say anything in my mouth, but I thought to myself: Pretend, right?
The people of Longcheng say that they don't say it with their mouths, that is, they don't say it with their mouths, but they say it in their hearts.
Camouflage and trying to show the good side of yourself are the most common situations for men and women to come into contact. Because they both want to show their best side in front of each other. Even at the expense of lying or lying.
Yu Yuanming doesn't have this problem, how can he still do it.
It turns out that it is best to show the most authentic state between men and women, because you can't always act in the days to come.
Love at first sight is certainly romantic, but it is a relatively low-level romance. Because it's just a sight, it's easy to like the other person's superficial things. Seeing more and not being annoying is the ultimate romance, in the real world, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, trivialities, eating, drinking, and quarrelling; getting along every day, seeing beautiful women also have constipation, sleeping and snoring; handsome guys also have white hair, wrinkles gradually extend, and still being able to love each other is really romantic.
Many years later, Yu Yuanming still doesn't smoke, drinks less, and doesn't play mahjong. Many people don't believe it and think it's a strange thing.
Because many people smoke, drink, and play mahjong not out of preference and voluntariness, but by the environment. I can't resist the politeness and enthusiasm of others. can't escape the kidnapping of other people's friendship, and can't refuse other people's agitation methods. In short, under the comprehensive effect of the environment, they began to cater to the world. Ended up being someone I didn't like or even hated once.
And Yu Yuanming, who insists on being himself, is like a character, and if he insists more, others will understand: he doesn't drink or smoke. Just that person!
No one really wants to force you to smoke and drink, most of them because you don't have enough self-control and defense.
As the saying goes: If I can't change the world, at least I can't let the world change me!
On the weekend after the Spring Festival, Yu Yuanming and Qin Shasha's mother outflanked Qin Shasha's brother's house together (called wontons in the north, wontons in Hong Kong, and flat food in Fujian). Yu Yuanming was born in catering, of course, he is familiar with the way, and he will pack one for a while, and then another for a while.
The old man suddenly asked: Yuanming, you have been in contact with Sasha for so long, how do you feel?
Yu Yuanming replied sincerely: I think it's okay!
The old man said slowly: Our daughter is introverted and doesn't like to talk.
Yu Yuanming smiled: I think she talks a lot to me.
Old man: That means you're compatible! During this time, our family has discussed it, and we think you are still very suitable. Her brother and second brother all think it's good. Our family is also ordinary. Nothing is required, as long as the two of you are good, you can do it.
Don't know what your parents think?
Yu Yuanming: Parents don't interfere in this matter. Listen to me. Because he wanted me to get married sooner, I didn't want to. After a few years, they are also annoyed, so they don't care.
Old Man: That's good. You two aren't too young. If you think it's okay for each other, you can go through the procedures earlier.
Yu Yuanming: I'm fine!
After that day, Yu Yuanming did not ask Qin Shasha, and Qin Shasha did not discuss this with Yu Yuanming.
Because Qin Shasha is doing a fierce ideological struggle.
Of course, Qin Shasha felt that Yu Yuanming, a young man, was good, and he was in line with his ideas in all aspects. But the matter of marriage is extraordinary, and I am a little hesitant.
The Qin family is a typical factory family.
Many years ago, the family worked in the No. 3 Textile Factory in Jiangnan Province. Qin's father and several children worked as workers, and Qin's mother taught at the children's school.
The third textile factory in Jiangnan Province, referred to as Sanfang. The predecessor was the Longcheng Textile Factory founded by An Rushun, a famous entrepreneur of the Republic of China, and became a state-owned enterprise after a public-private partnership. Later, it was merged by Jiangnan Textile Group and became the third branch. There used to be more than 2,000 employees, which is a large enterprise in Longcheng.
Qin Shasha worked in a textile factory before she was 20 years old, and the female spinning workers were simply called yarn girls.
Later, with the opening up of society, the operation of factories also faltered, and laid-off became a hot word. Qin Shasha went to Suzhou with her second brother, who loves painting, and started her part-time career.
painted in an animation company run by a Taiwanese, and by mistake became the first generation of animation people in New China.
Later, he went to Shenzhen to work. After being urged many times by his parents, he returned to Dragon City.
As a slightly more developed county, Dragon City definitely does not have a survival channel for anime people. So I went to the Golden Dragon Hotel as a cashier. Because the eldest brother and sister-in-law also came out of the textile factory, they both worked in the hotel, which is considered a job where they can take care of each other.
In the past two years, I have been on a blind date, and I have met a lot, and it is not high or low.
In Qin's mother's words: I don't know what kind of boy she is looking for? The conditions of the people are not bad, but she does not agree. You said that you are 28, your parents must be in a hurry!
You're looking for anything that is good, and someone else is either already married. Or I don't like you either!
A man who is good in all aspects, who doesn't want to find a young and beautiful rich girl?
Our family is not rich, and Sasha is not young, how can others look for you?
Every time we say that we are not in a hurry, how can we not be in a hurry?
In the matter of marriage and love between older men and women, it must be that the emperor is not in a hurry and the eunuch is in a hurry.
How many neighbors, colleagues, friends, and relatives will ask about it in normal times, during the New Year and festivals! Time and time again, which parent can stand it?