The Wanderer (157) - Examine life
Socrates famously said, "An unexamined life is not worth living."
Everyone is going about their lives, and the hurried daily trivialities drown out thinking, let alone scrutinizing.
Oil, salt, chai, rice, sauce, vinegar, tea, everything is consuming our mental energy.
There are also buying, chatting, shopping, sports, playing games, and gambling to pull our energy.
You still need to do housework, sleep and sleep, have sex and cook, take care of children, how much time do you have left to review life?
Yu Yuanming is the same, most of the time struggling on the food and clothing line, running to a well-off, hoping to live a comfortable life. Those literary dreams, those dreams of love, and dreams of great wealth and nobility have all passed away with the wind in the wear and tear day after day, and in the setbacks again and again.
In Meng Fan's backbone company, Yu Yuanming has been working for several months. I feel more and more uncomfortable, all kinds of discomfort.
He also has a general understanding of Meng Fan's various projects.
One is SP SMS, that's really awesome!
100,000 SMS messages are sent in a targeted manner, and the number of calls you receive in a day can be hundreds.
The cost of this text message is not calculated on a dime a piece, it can be almost ignored. It is conceivable that those telecommunications companies make more money.
Outsourcing of several state-owned enterprises.
The state-owned enterprises themselves have a lot of business, and some of them are taken out and given to outside companies. Meng Fan's company is like this. Why do you want to take it out? It's very simple, the leader can take it out for you to do, and he also has interests. If you can get this business, you must also understand it. Otherwise, how to mix?
As for Meng Fan, he is also surrounded by a group of former younger brothers.
I fought the world with him at the beginning, and now we work together.
Meng Fan is interesting enough, he directly supports the down payment of a house for each of the core personnel, and he is responsible for the rest.
It's a reward for following over the years.
The straightforward and bold style of the rivers and lakes will never treat the brothers badly!
But after all, it is a Jianghu person, and the company's normative aspects are much worse. For example, Yu Yuanming began to wear a shirt and tie after he officially went to work, and he was professional. Seeing this, Meng Fan and Dai Xi also put on their shirts and ties the next day. Others continue to be like all kinds of T-shirts, all kinds of casual clothes.
The core finances are also controlled by a brotherhood.
For the use of the expenses of the Yuanming department, various obstacles are always set up, and they feel that the foundation they have worked hard to lay has been picked by outsiders.
What's even more troublesome is that on the editorial side, Deng Lingling often has problems.
It was a cold for a while, and it didn't come until noon. After a while, there was an accident at home, and she didn't come directly. After a while, it was another tooth extraction, and I took a day off.
In short, Yu Yuanming felt that she was not working hard.
People who are journalists may be lazy. Yu Yuanming can't control it, people are at the same level as you, and they are in charge of their own stalls.
But the problem is that the content of the magazine is not up, and the marketing department responsible for promotion has no confidence.
What about Meng Fan? One moment in Jiangnan Province, one moment in Beijing, and one moment in Zhejiang. Another time, when I came back from other places, I took out basic Hong Kong magazines and Guangdong magazines in my bag.
It looks fresh, but it doesn't taste right!
Can you write about other people's content and themes?
I can't write it, and I can't send it out if I write it. Besides, how can there be those good text reporters and photo reporters?
The good thing is that you have a fixed salary every month.
That's a lot better than an insurance company.
Qin Shasha's bancassurance work is also getting better, not only has performance, but also often drinks with friends.
The bancassurance job seems to be suitable for her.
A family has a relatively stable income, and the relationship between the two is much better.
On weekends, take the kids to the park, go to the mall to buy groceries, go to the playground to play, and watch a movie.
When I returned to the rental house in the evening, although it was not my own house, I felt that life was very good!
Let's live!
Everyone has been like this, what do you want to do?
Meng Fan said that in this life, if it is not the entire fifty million, one hundred million, he will not stop tossing.
For Yuanming, there is no need.
There are thousands of dollars a month, and it's good that the family doesn't quarrel together.
Now the couple's life is much more frequent than before, and the quality has improved significantly.
But Yu Yuanming knew that if the problem on Meng Fan's side was not solved, this situation would not last long. You can't rent a house for the rest of your life, right?
It is also impossible for a child to grow up in a rental house.
Looking at it now, housing prices are rising vigorously, and I don't know when I will be able to afford it!
Think about my wife, when I first met myself, I had a house, but I didn't expect to live a life of exile with myself in just a few years.
What kind of love can a man say if he has no money for his wife?
Without a fixed house, how can there be a stable relationship?
The last time I went to buy vegetables, I chatted with a vegetable seller, who also came to Gongzhou from the district and county, and had already bought a house. The eldest sister was full of emotion: I have struggled for more than ten years, and finally took root in Gongzhou!
It is not easy for everyone in this world, and the transition from the countryside to the big city has been successful.
What about yourself?
Every day, people look like dogs, wear shirts and ties, and give people the feeling of being white-collar.
In fact, it's not as good as a vegetable seller.
People don't read, they don't read newspapers, and they don't have much education. But people are down-to-earth, able to endure hardships, and not hypocritical.
Selling vegetables looks simple, but the hard work is in places you can't see.
For example, when I get up in the morning to go wholesale to the vegetable sellers, it is often four o'clock in the morning, when most people are asleep.
As soon as it goes on sale, it will be sold until after 7 p.m. Those who get off work buy their groceries and go back, you can't miss the peak.
In the wind and rain, I guard this stall every day. Can't go anywhere, no weekends, no parks to play in.
I also have to compete with the people next to me, and I have to deal with urban management, industry and commerce, and taxation.
I also have to bargain with every customer, and it turns out that women will bargain. Now men are very good at bargaining!
Cents, dimes and dimes converge into tens and hundreds, and then roll every day, and finally be able to buy a house in the city after paying for daily expenses.
In the vegetable market, Yu Yuanming saw these ordinary vendors, and sighed for the first time: It is not easy to make a living in a big city!
Before Long Cheng was ready to come to Gongzhou, he thought about his work too simply.
A lot of the so-called lists, in the end, are useless.
Many so-called methods are ultimately ineffective.
The competition between big cities and small counties, Taohua Town is completely different.
People are generally more savvy than small places.
The costs are generally more expensive than those in smaller places.
The competition is fiercer, there are more people eager to succeed, and there are bustling competitors on every path you have.
Yu Yuanming remembered his father's words: The cowhide is three inches thick, and everyone is looking for an eye.
In the past ten years of self-examination, Yu Yuanming still has gains and losses. At this stage, it's time to think about what to do next.